[ineedthisonablog]

Ohh my god you don’t need to add how much you hate children everytime you talk about annoying people with me kys

[grumfy]

ageplay but i’m a fetus and mommy aborts me

[ineedthisonablog]

@skeletonsonparade

[grumfy]

ageplay but i’m a fetus and mommy aborts me

[kimthemangoguy]

i think we should be more considerate about how we talk about introjects

i see a lot of silly posts like "unfortunately we split a fictive" or "enjoying a show trying not to introject a character" and like. it seems kinda rude to assign shamefulness to introjection compared to your brain just splitting someone without a source

i know there's a lot of reasons people feel this way, just saying to keep in mind that this can hurt headmates within your system and outside of it, and can contribute to them feeling unsafe to talk/front or adds to their stress if they feel like they shouldnt exist, both counterproductive to them just, idk healing or enjoying life in general

[kimthemangoguy]

i think we should be more considerate about how we talk about introjects

i see a lot of silly posts like "unfortunately we split a fictive" or "enjoying a show trying not to introject a character" and like. it seems kinda rude to assign shamefulness to introjection compared to your brain just splitting someone without a source

i know there's a lot of reasons people feel this way, just saying to keep in mind that this can hurt headmates within your system and outside of it, and can contribute to them feeling unsafe to talk/front or adds to their stress if they feel like they shouldnt exist, both counterproductive to them just, idk healing or enjoying life in general

[legionforweare-many]

btw "having an angry friend is better than a dead one" (when used as an argument on why you should force your suicidal friend into psychiatric treatment) is not only bullshit but it's an incredibly dangerous thing to say. like i cannot overstate this enough if you're suicidal & you already know you can't trust virtually anyone with that information because of the threat of being nonconsensually treated/incarcerated and you tell one of the only people you think you actually can trust. and they fucking IMMEDIATELY go and tell someone else. what do you think that feels like? you thought could trust maybe one person with some truth about you, and it turns out you could actually trust nobody and now you're facing the consequences for that!

i'm not sure how to fully articulate the feeling that at least gave me (there are so many feelings honestly. there are so so many ways having that happen to you fucks you up. this post is really only about one of them but there are so many more) but it sure as hell does not make people less suicidal. there are better ways to support your friends i promise

anyway idk where this is going thank you for coming to my ted talk. don't fucking do this ever please please i'm begging you.

[halondrus]

[vulpine-dyke]

GIRL THERES STILL TIME

[autisticsquidward]

Aid organizations & Community Kitchens operating in Sudan

SudanFunds - website compiling verified campaigns and organizations

Khartoum Aid Kitchen - they operate 12 kitchens across sudan, including 2 hospitals

Saving Al-Geneina / Hope and Haven for Refugees - provides food, medical care, and education to refugees in sudan

Sudanese American Physicians Association's medical aid program - they operate a hospital in khartoum, **the ONLY hospital still delivering babies in sudan**

One Million Sustainable Pads Campaign - distributes reusable pads

FAH Supporting Sudan - financial assistance to sudanese hospitals, backed by the FAH / federation of american hospitals

Community kitchen in Cairo - provides food to refugees who have fled to egypt

Community kitchen in Sudan - provides food for 1200 families

Another community kitchen in Sudan - provides food, only £1,500 raised so far

Sanad Initiative - raises money to keep sudanese medical students in school

Sudan Solidarity Initiative - run by sudanese diaspora, provides direct funds to all kinds of sudanese including farmers unions and low cost clinics, also runs awareness-raising workshops

and, finally, this isnt a community organization, but @lgbtq-refugees is a large group of LGBTQ refugees who have reached out to me personally. they have been kicked out of multiple IDP camps because of their queer identity. i can personally attest they are real refugees who really need help. you can donate to them here

[memecucker]

So you know the Saudis destroyed 95% of historical sites in Mecca which probably helped inspire the destruction of historic sites in Afghanistan or Palmyra by other Wahhabis

Like

“Yea bro that’s just idolatry bro the original Muslims would never want that bro even if they built bro some of these bro im sure Muhammad would’ve wanted to destroy the grave of his father bro he just didn’t get around to it bro”

Anyway wanna know what Diriyah the original Saudi hometown and former capital looks like?

YEAH THATS RIGHT THE HYPOCRITES ARE PERFECTLY ABLE TO PROTECT AND RESTORE HISTORICAL SITES IF ITS THEIR FAMILY THE OLD PALACES OF THEIR OWN FUCKING FAMILY THATS NOT IDOLATRY AT ALL BECAUSE ITS THE SAUDI FAMILY NOT MUHAMMADS FAMILY

Oh also the official website for Diriyah is like 100% rich tourist oriented like nothing pointing to like historical information or whatever it’s all Book Now Check Out the Fine European Style Dining

[lady-of-vitreous-sight]

living in carcosa must be hard because what if you lose track of how much horror is on you and you accidentally get one instantlossed by a possession

[transmutationisms]

what DOES an ideal framework for processing, healing from, identifying etc trauma look like in an ideal future to u? ive never sought therapy for mine bc idk what talking about it with a stranger would do for me but im sure as shit not healing from it properly rn. it feels hard to think about what WOULD help me

sorry probably unhelpful but i don't really agree with the entire trauma framework at this point; i don't find it useful or clear & i don't think of shitty / painful / traumatising parts of my life as separate from the 'rest' of me, any more than i would for enjoyable or positive events. & i don't know wtf people mean when they talk about 'healing' or 'processing' or whatever else; these seem to me like very imprecise and wilfully obtuse ways of referring to the thing anybody actually cares about, which is how well a person is able to meet commonly accepted standards of functionality. i think what would help people is if they weren't being held to those external standards of proper functioning lol; i don't really see this as a problem that will ever be solved by application of a universal psychological method because it's a social problem of mismatch between what we demand of people & what we offer them. there are, hypothetically, lots of different ways to address situations where you're incapable of performing whatever functions you do actually need in your own life apart from questions of economic productivity (yknow, things like personal hygiene, forming interpersonal connections, eating enough, &c &c) and i don't think this is a matter of some global personality-level 'healing process,' i think it basically comes down to emotional triage & whether you have the material resources to accommodate your needs. i think this focus on 'recovering' and the promise there is some great happiness waiting for you on the other side is essentially a smokescreen that reframes your having problems as a personal therapeutic failure because it's the only way the ruling medical ontology can cope with the fact it simply does not exist to 'help people' in this particular way & it is structurally economically incapable of doing so.

[ineedthisonablog]

FIRST OFFICILA LOADING! How are we

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Stain is like the king in those mobile ads to me

[ineedthisonablog]

Grigori once again proving to be the best character

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LOADING MOVED

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And it appears we’re back. How is everyone since last we talked?

[nineherbscharm]

is there anything funnier than somebody who has a tumblr account trying to seem like theyre above fandom

[bisexual-cyborg]

via @coniello