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It/He/? • DUSTY • Omega • 23 • Blog from an alternate dimension where omegaverse is real btw

[is-this-omegaverse]

Enter ? . . . ♡

Hello and Welcome !!

I'm Dusty, welcome to my combination misceverse lifestyle, therian discovery, and omegaverse blog!!

Please respect other's wishes to keep omegaverse separate from the misce+ community!! Misce folks aren't always comfortable with direct comparisons to omegaverse. Misceverse is a lifestyle and an important part of our identities! I personally (maybe obvious based on the blog name) don't mind jokes or comparisons but those are my boundaries, make sure to check bios, friends! Thank you for understanding :]

[NOT AFFILIATED OR INSPIRED BY ISFF]

Some things about me and my blog

I use It/He pronouns and masc or nonhuman terms

I'm 23

I'm bigender, bisexual, and polyamorous

I'm MSN autistic, cluster b, and this is a system owned account

I'm an omega, a kinnie, a therian (unidentified so far), and plural

This blog is 420 positive and I'd prefer if minors didn't interact with posts tagged as "#mindni"

I don't appreciate people hating on others for things they can't control or for things that aren't hurting anyone!!

But I otherwise don't have a dni rn :] just be niceys ok?

Please feel free to ::

♡ Send asks about

My interpretation of omegaverse

My identity and thoughts on misce+

Your own ideas about either of these ^

Fandom headcanons (requests or ideas) from any of the medias listed below in my whitelist !!

Just whatever !! I like getting asks :]

♡ @ me in posts that you think are omegaverse coded

♡ @ me for my opinions on omegaverse content !! Or just to show me :] I love seeing it all !!

I may draw comics and guides about my personal thoughts on omegaverse !! Here is my guide for the color schemes I associate with my verse's dynamics !!

Expect their appearances to be inconsistent tehe,,,,

Here is a post with some info about my verse's dynamics! [Coming soon]

Here is the post with my personal misceverse flags!

Whitelist

Bold text are medias I'm most comfortable with and can write best for!! :] You can ask about stuff that isn't on this list if you're curious! More will be added over time of course.

Scream [Movie Series]

Saw [Movie Series]

The Walking Dead [TV Show]

My Little Pony [TV Show]

Community [TV Show]

How I Met Your Mother [TV Show]

[miaumiester]

NESTHOARDER ꒱

✦ : a term for those who collect and hoard labels, names, pronouns, genders and/or orientations in a manner befitting of a bird — carefully selecting each one and only displaying those they find most suitable for their 'nest' or collection of which they heavily curate, making adjustments or sorting them in a deeply personal manner until satisfied. This may also refer to 'nesting' within the context of the omegaverse, but this is entirely up to the user.

✦ / already in circulation? consider it an alternate flag!

[canislupuslatrans]

I've seen this a lot in therian, alterhuman and nonhuman social canine spaces and I think its something worth talking about.

A pack is just a family, its not this magical group so many younger folks make it out to be. My pack is full of humans because I am the only nonhuman, you don't have to be with other nonhumans to be in a pack.

It's also something you shouldn't form with strangers, pack bonding is intimate and familial. I don't think you should be making packs with strangers.

You also don't need a pack, its quite normal for younger wolves (and other social canines) to be loners for a bit until they form a pack of their own.

Packs aren't this big thing with hierarchy and structure and rules. Packs are literally just families, if you have a family you have a pack, its as simple as that

[monoliths-envoy]

When I talk about wanting to have pups as a therian, I don't like to use the terms rut, heat, or estrus; I am asexual and largely do not experience sexual desire, drive, arousal, etc. When I do its almost never for breeding but for dominance instead, if that makes sense?

I do expect some kind of heat cycle to come back once I fully return to a physical canine form permanently, but right now I just want pups of my own in passing regardless if I have to mate with someone. (And the only someone I'd like to mate with isn't in the same world as I.)

Saying 'nonhuman baby fever' instead is a mouthful, and its hard to read. I suffer from something called Hyperlexia, so when I write I try to dumb down my language to an acceptable 'casual' degree. It's something I have to consciously do, And 'nonhuman baby fever' is unnecessarily long for what it conveys, in syllables, individual letters, and words.

So I've started to use the words 'pup fever' and 'litter fever' in its place. Short, easy to read, gets the message across, nonhumans and humans alike can understand the concept I'm describing. If needed, the words can be switched to 'cub fever' 'kit fever' 'foal fever' so on and so forth.

I'm cross-posting this to the misceverse community because I feel as if these shouldn't be nonhuman-specific words.

[softrottedhound]

I need a pack so bad. I need a mate/mates, I need packmates. I need other alterhumans to hang out with, to live with, to experience life with. I need a pack.

[winter-scented]

Can they make a misce identity that doesn’t come with a crushing sense of yearning for extremely unique kinds of relationship dynamics in all areas of your life

[hiilumaru]

POV everything is awesome and spells on the internet are real

(Pls reblog this version)

[liebelesbe]

june is over... goodbye pride month, hello disability pride month!!

[liebelesbe]

let's all be disabled this month... together 🤝

[liebelesbe]

if you're not disabled yet: no need to worry! i can help. come closer.

[cryptidd-culture]

Shout out all my fellow introverted pack animals. You are still valuable to your pack even if you're a little bit of a recluse and the balancing act of maintaining pack bonds while still taking care of yourself is worth praise. That shits HARD you're doing good out there

[itsminty247]

Intersexuality & Cirnatura

[PT: Intersexuality & Cirnatura /End PT.]

This is, in essence, an opinion piece talking about my feelings regarding being intersex and an interdynamic omega (+some bonus coining). This is largely just musings, though I do ask that any interaction with this post is done respectfully.

Take a shot every time I say "typically" or "typical." (/joke).

Do not tag this post with the abbreviation for "alpha/beta/omega." [PT: Do not tag this post with the abbreviation for "alpha/beta/omega." /End PT.] You will be blocked. Learn why here.

CW/TW: Discussion of bodies (including genitalia) and intersexism.

Three years ago, I started looking into a somewhat new concept to me, "intersexuality." Then, a little under a year ago, when we started testosterone HRT/GAHT, we got confirmation of something that we'd suspected since that initial research: we are intersex. It's been a bit of a journey since then, where we've discovered other intersex variations of ours past the one originally discovered, got (more) involved in community spaces, and found joy in something we originally were insecure about.

Intersexuality is a large part of my identity as a headmate. In part, I was formed due to the pressures of confirming to a level of typicality that we could never adhere to. We were never feminine enough, and now I am feminine in my own way (a freeing way). We were never personable enough, and now I am openly and proudly autistic. We were never willing enough, and now I help us be firm on boundaries. You get the gist. It then makes sense to me that, even though intersexuality (ostensibly) wasn't (explicitly) a large part of our life before we split, I have embraced it as a large part of my identity.

When thinking of my existence as a cirnalupus omega, I cannot separate that existence from my existence as an intersex person. I am interdynamic, not multidynamic in that I have multiple dynamics, but that my omegan biology is naturally atypical from what is typically expected from an omega in a way that is specifically connected to my existence as an intersex person.

In my personal interpretation, people have an idea of what dynamic they will present as from birth. Typically, all omegas are born with vulvas and all alphas are born with a penoscrotal setup. Betas are born with either one, connected to their primary sex. During puberty, alphas and omegas will go through a specific alpha/omega exclusive puberty (presentation) on top of the typical one. Meaning, while you do not know whether you will be a beta or not, people know whether they will be an alpha or omega if they do present. This all (typically!!) happens on top of a typical estrogen or testosterone puberty, which happens simultaneously.

Omega males, during their testosterone puberty, will experience clitoral growth, like that experienced during testosterone HRT/GAHT, to a typical length of 1.5-3 inches (this is, simply, due to the effects testosterone has on the clitoris). Betas who were born with a penoscrotal setup will not experience very significant growth, though alphas who were born with a penoscrotal setup will, as this is also when their knot develops.

Omegas experience heats every 3-5 months for 2-7 days at time, typically individually consistent. Alphas also experience ruts in the same way.

I bring this up to talk about how I am specifically interdynamic. Firstly, though, I need to explain individual vs shared reality. Shared reality is what you typically think of when thinking of "reality": it is the factual, objective, material world and experience. Individual reality is how a being experiences their world and interprets that experience, typically in a way that "clashes" with shared reality. Both are "real." Both are reality. This is a simple, rushed explanation — I urge anyone reading to do their own research on the topic!

I am a headmate that was "sourced" (for lack of better phrasing) from a personal omegaverse world that was a frequent daydream spot for us pre-splitting. While my existence as a flesh-and-blood, lived in and was born and raised in an omegaverse world isn't a part of shared reality, it is a part of my personal reality. The following is a recounting of my personal reality.

I was born under the assumption that I was female and raised a girl, yet when I presented as an omega during puberty, I experienced the clitoral growth that is expected of only omega males. Additionally, my heats are very sporadic — sometimes, I'll have a heat a month after my last one. Other times, I won't have a heat for a year. Additionally, I will also have occasional pre-heats that don't go anywhere and sort of just fizzle out. My scent has atypical undertones, and I will occasionally get asked what my dynamic is even when my scent is detected and it would typically be clear.

Some eagle-eyed, informed readers may recognize how similar this is to a specific intersex variation & its associated variations. To you, I applaud you! Have a cookie and thank you for being informed, whether or not you are intersex.

I am proud of who I am, and enjoy being both intersex and interdynamic.

However.

Sometimes it's hard. I'm not going to get into intersexism in a broad sense, as I can't do it justice here and there are better resources, but I want to talk about being intersex, with an interdynamic identity based on that intersexuality, while in the cirnatura(+) community.

The prevalence of "intersex is when someone has both a peritypical vulva and penoscrotal setup" mindsets within omegaverse writing (though not using those words) has made it so, when talking about how I am intersex and an omega, I feel the need to specify that I am talking about actual intersexuality and not the fetishization based on an incorrect view of what being intersex is. Being cirnatura is a large part of who I am, but because it is based on the omegaverse and intersexism is so prevalent within omegaverse writing, I am very cautious when interacting with other cirnafolk because there's a good chance that they also carry these intersexist beliefs! It sucks!

Which is why I'm writing this post. I want to try and explain my views on what is happening to other cirnafolk, especially perisex cirnafolk, and especially perisex cirnafolk who are using "interdynamic" to refer to themselves.

Intersex ≠ interdynamic. Intersex is a shared-reality marginalized identity in which someone's sex characteristics are (without intervention, for example, from birth or happening naturally during puberty) atypical in some way. Interdynamic is an intersex exclusive term for when one's dynamic does not match what is expected of their secondary sex characteristics, usually in a way that reflects their intersex variation (but not always).

Intersexuality is not "having both a (peritypical) penis and (peritypical) vulva/vagina." There is a large amount of fetishization, especially in omegaverse writing, based on this.

Intersexuality needs to be taken seriously. When writing an intersex character, and by extension an interdynamic character, writers need to be mindful that intersexuality is a marginalized, often misrepresented identity and do proper research and hopefully get sensitivity readers.

Perisex folk need to take the time to get a basic understanding of intersexuality. Lack of understanding and intersexism weaves its way into many people's own universes, writing, and speech.

Of course, I am one intersex person. Others may have different opinions than me, please do not take my words as like, Intersex Law.

"But, Mint! I'm perisex, but my dynamic falls out-of-line for what's expected of me as an [x]! Interdynamic describes me perfectly!" Well, I mean, no it doesn't because it's an intersex exclusive term but whatever. Throws this at you.

Amphidynamic

[PT: Amphidynamic /End PT.]

A term for perisex folk whose secondary sex characteristics/dynamic does not meet expectations regarding secondary sex/dynamics. This label is independent of one's experiences as a perisex person.

I'm not making a flag (I am not photoshop savvy enough for that), others are free to. I know I sound a bit pissed off here, but unless you're one of the folk who have been misusing "intersex" and "interdynamic" or engaging in intersex fetishization I'm not pissed at you (and if you are, you know better now and are able to adjust your behavior!).

And to everyone who took the time to read this, thank you for bearing with my rambling! I really do appreciate it. I hope all your nests are comfy, dens are cozy, packs are happy, and scents are comforting.

Cheers!

[jar-of-omegaverse]

I think it would be interesting if omegas wore collars/necklaces(chokers)/other high neck things on a regular basis to protect the most vulnerable parts of their neck if they have scent glands there. Maybe this only comes off with partner(s)/at home with their pack. I could see collars being popular courting gifts when the relationship is very serious

I completely agree, Anon! 

Neck Coverings are very popular for omegas. Neck Coverings are not only gifts from partners but empower Omegas in the Omega’s Rights Movement. Neck Coverings, especially collars, originally indicated Omegas as property, but now Omegas wear them proudly, much like the LGBTQIA+ community turning derogatory terms against their original use and meaning. Neck Coverings are not meant to limit and control Omegas but to protect them and keep them safe from unwanted attention. Some Neck Coverings are even worn just for fashion.

Omegas do not need to be in a relationship to wear neck coverings. In fact, many Omegas get their first collar with their biological mother and/or pack mother. It is a tradition in many packs and indicates a prideful omegan presentation. Younger Omegas might just wear chokers or necklaces to cover their still developing scent glands.

Collars are sources of excitement for couples because they are the promise rings of Omegaverse. New collars often indicate a future engagement, so they are a topic of gossip. Much like rings, omegas who want to take their relationships a step farther might hint at or show their partner collars they like.

However, collars are not required. Many omegas prefer them as an embodiment of their strength and beauty as well as a layer of protection, but some Omegas find neck coverings uncomfortable against their scent glands, see them as a way to justify past prejudices against omegas, or just prefer to go without them.

[jar-of-omegaverse]

In your tag reccomendation ask, you mention two seperate a/b/o tags. Traditional and Non-traditional and i was wondering what that meant. Is there a thing that seperates them? What is traditional a/b/o?

Hello, Anon!

This is going to differ depending on who you ask, but my take on it is that, yes, traditional and non-traditional are different! From my experience as a reader and writer, here are some points that separate them.

Traditional

The typical alpha/omega pair.

Hierarchy is alphas on top, betas usually in the middle, and omegas usually on the bottom.

Omegas are submissive, breeding machines and that’s pretty much it.

Betas don’t have instincts or scents and are just like normal people.

Everyone pretty much acts as the typical alpha, omega, or beta stereotype.

These stories (if they are not PWP) are usually either:

About an alpha hero love interest who is revolutionarily and actually treats their omega love interest like a person. Together they fight society and their cruel treatment of omegas.

Dark and it’s not a good time for the main omega/s.

Non-Traditional

More than alpha/omega pairings!

Hierarchy isn’t set

Betas actually have a role in society.

Omegas are more than sexual beings/mothers/slaves.

People are diverse in personality and how they act.

More like actual society.

People will disagree with me, and that’s okay because Traditional vs Non-Traditional Omegaverse is not the same for everyone!

[printed-paws]

I think I got used to being in pain, I think I got numb to it. It's a defense mechanism, obviously, a freeze state. Constantly panicking, constantly hurt. Chronic issues, reoccurring symptoms, cycling the same pain in my body and mind. All keeping me from moving forward and doing ANYTHING, because it's all just debilitating. It makes me miserable, and I'm not good at being miserable.

I'm generally an optimist! I love people, I love the world, I love animals, I love being happy and telling jokes and expressing my love. I have so so much love. It's so unfair that even with how much love and joy and privilege I hold, how I am housed and fed and have a partner that means the world to me, that I am still frozen in agony. I am in pain. And I need to acknowledge it.

I've always been in pain. I've always hurt. I was always just too scared to do anything about it by myself! I can't face things alone, not right now, and that's okay. I need a lot of support, at least for now, and that's okay. I sometimes need an aac app to talk and a rollator to walk and that's okay. I have a lot of problems and I need a lot of accommodations and that's okay.

I can be who I am! And I can use my supports. And I can get help, even if I need help getting help. And I am so so happy I am still here because today I finally got approved to start testosterone. I've wanted to since I came out! Even before I came out, honestly. I feel like I can see my little 13 year old self feeling horrible and I just want to give him a big hug and tell him it isn't going to be forever. Tell him that big things are coming! We are going to be okay.

I have Sunny, my partner, to thank for sooo so much of this. For treating me like a person that deserves to be listened to. For supporting me and loving me and making me feel worthy of being loved. Sunny helped me each step of the way getting testosterone and I am so excited to give it back the care and love and support he gives me each and every day. I love you Sunny. Thank you for everything. I do hope to feel better someday, and though for a long time I have only been able to want to feel better for those I've loved, to not be a burden and to not constantly need support, Sunny has helped me start to want to feel better for myself too.

Not everything I do should be motivated by my need to please others. It isn't my fault I'm disabled, I am not choosing to be sick. I am not choosing to stay sick either. I need help. I needed help and support. I wasn't getting enough because I didn't know how to ask for it. And now, I am getting support because Sunny took the time to listen and get it for me and help me figure out what to do.

I am so happy. I am so so happy. I am scared too. This is a scary scary pride month. But I am so happy anyways. I want to live and be a trans critter in this beautiful world. I want to make the world better by living in it. I want to create. I want to spread love. I want to make friends. I want to be loud. I want to be myself. I'm so happy I'm crying about it. I haven't cried much lately, it feels good even if it's just a few tears. I hope I get better at crying. I hope I get better every day, in any little way I can.

Testosterone has given me a path forward! It'll be hard, adjusting to it. Having a second puberty will be rough! But I am so excited. I just want to feel like myself, and I already do just from getting approved to start! This is the best day ever. I love you.

[ethanaphrodite]

the whole queer community loves to jerk it to the concept of trans men but then when it’s time to advocate for our rights it’s crickets & hostility.

Like y’all love omegaverse shit until a pregnant man in real life is like “hey I need access to resources for pregnant people and keep getting systemically denied bc I’m trans” and the same cis women who jerk it to pregnant dudes all day will be like “shut up man”

It’s like our lives our only acceptable as like a sexual fantasy to them, and no one /actually/ has to deal with being a man who could get pregnant in a society that systemically discriminates & enforces authoritarian systems of control around those who could get pregnant? That’s not like anyone’s lived experience right?

Like honestly omegaverse shit is really interesting to me bc it’s the only way I’ve ever seen the trans masculine experience actually be able to be talked about on our own terms.

It’s like everyone’s suddenly more than happy to listen to a trans guy talk about his fears and thoughts surrounding his body if they can jerk off to it lol

& not to say many trans men don’t enjoy & write omegaverse (and are some of the biggest voices in the scene tbh) but it’s kind of fucked up that we’re basically only allowed to exist in porn lol (& still don’t even really have a voice within porn!)

Queer people see how this is a problem with cis men only understanding trans women through porn but will justify cis women & other queer people doing the same thing to trans men.

It’s funny that omegaverse is seen as such a weird fetish thing when like 90% of the omegaverse I’ve read it’s like “this literally, beat for beat, happened to me yesterday” “wow this really captures what it’s like growing up as a young trans man” like a lot of this shit is REAL for us!!!!

A lot of omegaverse esp on AO3 is like very obviously a trans guy working though some shit lol. Maybe listen and don’t be like “this isn’t a real issue it’s just a porn thing, men don’t get pregnant irl and face systemic discrimination for legally belonging to a class of “lower men” right?”

OMEGA RIGHTS NOW!

[is-this-omegaverse]

DUSTY'S MISCEVERSE SECOND GENDER DYNAMIC RUN DOWN !! ~ ☆

Ready ... Set ... Go !!

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Color matching dynamic flags here!

Text + close ups under cut!! ♡

Omega - Alpha - Beta

[OMEGA]

Heats (every 3 months, lasts ~3 weeks)

Nesting instincts

Pack building instincts

Born with vaginas, can also be born with penises

^ Omegas with penises have low chance to impregnate

Sweet scents (fruit, pastry, flowers, etc)

Small sharp teeth

Internally focused

Instinctually territorial

Instinctually defensive

Typically scents pack + pack house

Typically watches over pups and elders

Evolutionary equivalents with alphas

Most compatible with alphas, lunas, deltas

Stereotyped as submissive, needy, useless

[ALPHA]

Ruts (every 5 months, lasts ~3 days)

Denning instincts

Hiarchy building instincts

Born with penises, can also be born with vaginas

^ Alphas with vaginas have retractable penises

^ Alphas with vaginas have low chance to be impregnated

Big canines

Musty or rustic scents (natural, savory, industrial)

Instinctually territorial

Split focus

Typically protects pack

Typically scents other territory

Most compatible with alphas, betas, lunas

Stereotyped stubborn, impulsive, loud

[BETA]

"Tidying" or "Cleaning" instincts

Pack building instincts

Can be born with either penises or vaginas

Fertility dependant on pack, family, or environment stability

Externally focused

Dull or subtle scents (materials, mixed scents, teas, herbs)

^ Beta's scents and pheromones equalize and calm others + soothe heat and rut symptoms

Typically solve conflicts with outsiders and find new packmates + may approve partnerships in more traditional packs

Most compatible with alphas and deltas

Stereotyped as overly logical, bland, manipulative

Delta - Theta - Sigma

[DELTA]

Heats (every 6 months, lasts ~2 weeks)

Infrequent denning instincts

Can be triggered into sympathetic ruts

Hiarchy building instincts

Born with vaginas, can also be born with penises

^ Deltas with penises have retractable penises

Sharp teeth

Internally focused

Clean or floral scents (cleaners, cloth, plants)

Typically solve personal and internal pack issues

Typically helps watch pups

Evolutionary equivalents with thetas

Often challenge alphas and thetas

Stereotyped as cold, contrarian

[THETA]

Also called " Lunas "

Ruts (every 3 months, lasts ~1 day)

Infrequent nesting instincts

Can be triggered into sympathetic heats

Pack building instincts

Born with penises, can also be born with vaginas

^ Thetas with vaginas have retractable penises

Medium canines

Internally focused

Spicy scents (plants, spices)

Typically act as general support for various pack roles, not prone to leadership

Instinctually challenges hiarchies

Most compatible with omegas, alphas

Stereotyped as lazy, annoying

[SIGMA]

Unpredictable heat and rut cycles, varies sigma to sigma

Varied attitudes towards nesting and denning

Can be triggered into sympathetic heats and ruts

Varied instincts

Born with both vaginas and retractable penises

Small sharp teeth

Small builds

Sour or chemically scents (artificial, citrus)

Typically fills a needed role or niche in a pack, their instincts and pheromones may adjust accordingly to fill said role

When without a pack, a sigma may adjust to fit into a social group, or may mirror someone close to them

Stereotyped as shady, weird

Iota - Epsilon - Zeta

[IOTA]

Heats (every 2 months, lasts ~1 week)

No hiarchy or pack building instincts

Born with vaginas, can also be born with penises

Low fertility

Small sharp teeth

Scents tend to align with omega scent profiles, but smell slightly off

^ scent can cause paralysis if the iota is in distress as a defense mechanism

Typically keep to themselves, though iotas may take mates

Most compatible with epsilons, and are also evolutionary equivalents with epsilons

Iotas aren't bothered or vulnerable to epsilon scents and pheromones

Iotas start as omegas in the womb and gain iota traits during the pregnancy

[EPSILON]

Ruts (every month, lasts ~2 days)

No hiarchy or pack building instincts

Born with penises, can also be born with vaginas

^ Epsilons with vaginas have retractable penises

Low fertility

Big canines

Scents tend to align with alpha scent profiles, but smell slightly off

^ scent can cause psychosis during long term exposure

Typically keep to themselves, though epsilons may take mates

Epsilons aren't bothered or vulnerable to iota scents and pheromones

Epsilons start as alphas in the womb and gain epsilon traits during the pregnancy

[ZETA]

Start as one dynamic at birth

Anywhere from presenting on, may have a second presentation as a different dynamic

At second presentation, zetas change pheromones, scent profiles, and instincts

Zetas may also go through physical, behavioral, and emotional changes

After second presentation, zetas may choose to fully integrate into their new dynamic

Zetas also may keep certain traits from their first presentation

Second presentation may be triggered by dynamic dysphoria, but it may also just occur without any desire to change dynamics

[tiredcanid]

My paws need the earths rich soil beneath them. My teeth desperately ache to tear into flesh, as crimson trickles down my maw. My fur needs the gentle breeze of the valley I roam. This body is not my own. I am not where I belong.

[busket]

the disrespect and hatred people have for trans men who are or have been pregnant is disgusting, all under the veil of trying to support trans men, too. like ok so pregnant trans men dont deserve representation because you think its just a weird mpreg omegaverse fetish right? you want to see a story about a trans man embracing the full extent of his own body, doing one of the hardest and most miraculous things we are capable of as human beings, all while still being a man and not relenting to society's expectation that only women can do this? what are you some kind of pervert???

trans men get pregnant all the fucking time and its normal. it doesnt make them women and it doesnt make them porn subjects. all it does it make them fathers.