What do you really think about Jess?
I can't even articulate how emotional this makes me. Both Jess and Milo never stop getting better. It is so hard for me to even fathom the fact that there was a time I didn't like him (Jess). That I didn't *start* to see him for who he was until my boyfriend at the time, said the words about Jess: "I just figured out why I can't stand him....... he's me." I totally didn't see it.
I didn't begin to genuinely see it until this wonderful man and I had been married for about a year, and I reached Season 6. I had to work my way backwards.... and really get to know my husband's younger self... and get to know Jess. And, yeah..... very thankfully, my husband never stops getting better either.
I don't ship Literati (Jess and Rory) because (as many people have accused) I'm "part of a misguided demographic crushing on a toxic character." I've been very happily in love with and married to the man I love for 17 years. And I've known him for 27 years. 27 years ago, we met, and he still tells me that night he started to see his own potential... the man he could choose to become, and the kind of life that perhaps we could have together someday if he did.
I hadn't even "met" Jess Mariano yet when *my* Jess showed up to what he didn't know was our first date before I got there, and was sitting on a bench, reading one of the books I'd recommended to him..... oh so long ago, before we'd curated the library we live in; so many years before lockdown turned us into even more of 'a really sweet old agoraphobic couple' who like to mock the same movies and travel together to the locations of fictional worlds we love. Before he showed me that 'not knowing what the other person is going to do at all times' isn't just 'exciting,' but usually playfully hilarious.
And, yeah, I even love him when he gets broody, cynical, and sarcastic; though it's all the better when we're supporting and inspiring one another.
So, yeah...... this gifset makes me happy-weepy. And in my worlds, both reality and headcanon, Jess and Rory got together and have stayed that way for ages, even if it took them quite a few years to get there.











