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And for the lady, perhaps a MFM threesome where the guys are also a little gay for each other?
Here is a guide to hitting others. It is not about safe impact locations or how to develop picturesque bruising. It is about how to hit someone, and keep hitting someone, until you're both satisfied. It is how I approach hitting masochists for my own pleasure.
The first thing to note is that...
This is going to Hurt.
That fact cannot be shied away from. Pain, even for masochists, hurts. There is a tolerance to how much someone can take, and ways to engage with that tolerance. You will need to learn how each masochist takes pain, and potentially even teach them how to manage and endure it.
So you've got a paddle and a tied up piece of masochistic meat, or perhaps you're using your hand and it's bent over your knee, or perhaps it's cuffed to a cross and you've got a whip, or perhaps you've got a knife or needles or... well by now I've laboured the point enough.
How do you get the most out of your meat?
Start slow. Hit them slowly and rhythmically, building up in intensity every few hits, and when they tense too much or start struggling to breathe or can't stop themselves from making too much noise, slow down again.
Your aim is to warm up the meat so that it can get used to the pain, and once it's used to the pain you can intensify it. Climb up, drop down, and climb back up again. Vary the strike location, but remember that locations you haven't hit as much will need warming up too. The more skilfully it's done, the more you'll get to hit it.
On the subject of their breathing, tension, and noises, you'll want to pay attention to these as you hit them. As you hit them, their breathing will try to get sharp and shallow. Their muscles will try to contract to harden against the impact, and they'll make noises as reactions to your hits. Encourage them to keep their breathing steady and calm, and they'll take the hits better. Encourage them to relax so that the impact dissipates into their flesh instead of getting caught in their tension and you can hit them harder while hurting them less. Listen for moans of pleasure if they're so inclined, and encourage them to verbalise their pain, intentionally responding to pain verbally will help them endure it. Let them calm themselves between your hits, and they'll feel like they can take it and let you push them harder.
Watch how they react, but be aware that you may need to soothe or goad them. Try different things: Hold your off-hand on their shoulder so that they can brace against you. Praise them for each hit you've delivered. Tell them they can take more for you. Tease them. Rub them while they catch their breath and tell them how happy you are with them for taking it. Be verbal, but don't expect responses unless they enjoy responding. Pay attention to what helps them calm.
Once you've got the hang of these things, you can begin to play with them and challenge them: forbid them from making noise. Blindfold them so that they can't prepare for the pain. Make them watch you hit them so that they can't help but tense up in response, and play with false swings to mess with their minds. You can be cruel, because you know how it works. You know which moving parts can be shifted, and which must stay still.
Consider also what your masochist wants from being hit: some do not want to be overwhelmed, they want to be guided and hit into a meditative place where they can dissolve into the pain: intense but never too much, and then you can hit them until they're bloody and raw. Others want their pain to push right up to the edge of too much and stay there until they break. They want to cry and scream, and your challenge is to see how cathartic you can make it: break them too quickly and they might not find it satisfying, and neither will you.
And afterwards, aftercare, and you can work out what that looks like with your masochist yourselves.
confidence is not dominant. a lack of confidence is not submissive.
it's important to remember this, as someone who is very confident in who they are is not necessarily going to be willing or enjoy being dominant.
take this thing for example. it is growing community around it, organising activities, and leading its sisters in glorious kink. however, it is not dominant! it is extremely comfortable and confident around its kinks and with its sisters, but treating it as dominant is a misunderstanding of what that confidence brings to its play.
a confident submissive, who knows what they're about and has earned that confidence, can offer their dominants something special: an understanding of themselves, and service unhindered by hesitation. a submissive who is confident inspires confidence in their dominants, who can take an additional buff to their own confidence for owning or playing with something so confident in itself.
if you are drawn to confidence for a lack of your own, remember that confidence is not dominant, and be careful you're not placing expectations on them to make up for your lack.
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give me a kiss goodnight
seven minutes in heaven but that's how long each person at the party gets to spend inside my cunt
if you're good enough though someone might find you after the game is over and ask you if you want another go at me, off the clock
read thru diary of an innocent last week, most surprising effect was that it slightly permanently decreased my genital dysphoria to read this bit
my doctor said that freaky hotel sex followed by ordering room service and eating it in bed would heal me
(18+) If you’re reading this you're already prey
Domme pro tip:
Most people take a gag as permission to be loud. Either because they take it as a challenge "try to silence me, I'll show you" or because they think it's going to muffle noise so they're free to be noisy. They'll be unintelligible of course but they will make all types of pretty noises.
On the other hand a blindfold makes most people quiet. They still want to have situational awareness, they still want to track your movements, so they focus on their hearing and stop making sounds that would make it harder to hear you.
Domme pro tip:
Most people use breathing to regulate emotions and manage pain. Deep consistent breaths, in through the nose and out through the mouth. You can take advantage of this by either blocking their nose or mouth or by interrupting their breathing with will timed stimuli. Suddenly your high pain tolerance sub becomes a wimp, your composed and mature sub becomes a panicky baby
Domme pro tip:
Like in horror movies tension is important in scenes. You might think that to make your scene really intense you have to be serious the entire time but what you'll find actually happens is you wind the tension up to a certain point and then can't get it any higher and the scene becomes stale. But if you let yourself relax, loosen up, and make a few well timed jokes breaking the tension a little you can then wind it up again and make it more tense than you could previously.
Domme pro tip:
Expectation is an incredibly powerful tool you can make use of. People like patterns, people like predictability, they like knowing what's going to happen. So make rules and follow them, make patterns and keep to them, be predictable and your sub will feel safe and comfortable with you, they will trust you more if they know what you're going to do and how you're going to react.
And if you know what someone is expecting you can functionally read their mind, better than that you can control their mind, you don't just know the thoughts they're having you put them their. Plus now you have all of these opportunities to create wonderfully strong emotions and reactions by going against their expectation. Don't do this too frequently or you'll ruin both their feeling of safety and the effect this has but keep it in your back pocket and use it with precision.
Domme pro tip:
Your sub wants to impress you, they want you to be proud of them. So when they're approaching their limit if you point that out to them ("OK darling I think that's just about all you can take") they will try to convince you they're not ("no please I can take more for you please") and if you give them an opening to do so ("are you sure?") they will jump at the chance to impress you. Follow this up with praise so they know they did a good job. This will leave them feeling satisfied and proud of themselves in a way that reaching their limit and having to tell you they've had enough won't. If you're careful you can use this to gently push their limits and comfort zone so you can both experience more intense sessions in the future
Now you tell me some:
I gain pleasure from some very extreme emotional distress. This blurs the line pretty hard for me between liking and not liking something. While I have certain things I know I'll refuse to do, I often end up worried that that my own severe emotional states or the way I treat myself in them comes across as unhealthy or may actually be unhealthy which prompts a dom to stop whatever treatment they might give me even when its something I wouldnt object to doing and feel kind of indifferent to at worst. Is there a point where I should be listening to those feelings as a more literal sign to stop, even if theyre not unwelcome to me or I even enjoy them?
there's a thing with kink where often, a lot of play activities are just... unpleasant things. masochism immediately springs to mind, but play with urine, and even things like degredation and humiliation arouse us in a way that's honestly confusing to a lot of folks.
we're all trained to avoid things that are unpleasant, so when a kink drives us towards them, it can be hard to remember that the unpleasantness is the point. even dominants and tops who enjoy inflicting these things on us can forget that too! when someone cares about us, it's hard for them to remember that the awful things happening to us are wanted, and in some way enjoyed - if not in the moment!
sometimes, those awful things we want doing to us are a part of our own emotional regulation. getting beaten or violently fucked is something that helps us manage our emotions over the rest of our time, by doing something that makes us distressed, we can externalise and attach our other distresses to something which allows us to express that distress. enduring that distress can also be something of an achievement, which gives you something you can be proud of!
in other words, asking others to do things to you that put you in extreme emotional distress can be as much a coping mechanism as any other method of managing stress.
this thing's advice is to talk to your partners. folks may not be okay with that themselves, or may need extra aftercare from you to be okay with putting you in that state. the point to stop, then, is when the kink begins making the rest of your life harder. if you want putting in severe emotional distress and it's straining your relationships or making it hard for you to manage the rest of your life, then it's time to take a break until you've settled yourself before engaging in it again!
it hopes this helps! it's hard having extreme kinks and finding ways to express them, but as ever, the answer is communication: talk to those you're doing it with, get into the why, and learn about yourself!
Girls just want a dominant and kind man with a breeding kink and a vasectomy.
Oh noooooooo don’t read all of my disgusting horny text posts and then use them against me, anything but that
Fucking her face roughly first thing in the morning, checking her phone for her as she gags and chokes because I'm a gentleman.
"Your mom wants that recipe you were talking about."
*gluck gluck gluck*
"Oh neat, your friends went to that glass museum. We should do that!"
*gluck gags gluck gluck moans gluck gluck*
"We'll have to mind the weather today— fuck, swallow pet, there ya go, there ya go... just like that.... Yah I think you'll need a jacket my little cocksucker. Let's check out that museum, c'mon!"