Jaguar Field Reports

Cold approach field reports. I love women <3

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3/8/26: grocery store mermaid latina

3/8/26

Field report: daytime approach at the grocery store. I was checking out my groceries in the self-checkout aisle and in the corner of my eye, I saw the back of a short girl with a clean shining aura and wet mermaid hair. The perfect height for me, in an airy, short dress with her legs smooth and her build skinny. Just my type, but I couldn't see her face. I was in a very peaceful mood, thanks to my surrendering sessions, which I learned from David Hawkins, and from an experience I had in the forest today. I checked out my groceries and I took them to my car. Then I calmly turned back and observed the exit of the grocery store. 

I found the girl walking out the exit with her groceries. I approached her in the parking lot. I had my eyes in the trance of enjoyment, enjoying her aura as I spoke to her. She was surprised, and in a slightly logical state. I said, "Hi, I want to meet you." She said, "Here?" In the Kroger's parking lot?" I said, "Yes, I saw you walking. And I saw your hair and your aura and I wanted to say hi." 

So I walked with her to her car. She put her groceries in and she sat down in her driver's seat, but she left the door open and we continued to speak. I acknowledged how the situation was awkward and how I felt silly that I was talking to her outside of her car. She said that, "Well, I had to put the groceries in, they were heavy." And I smiled and said, "It's all good." I told her that she looked like she had just gone to the beach. She said that she was manifesting it, she hates this weather. And I said, "Oh, I love the rain." And I talked about how I was in my garden today barefoot, feeling the rain and enjoying it and it was delicious. There was no tension, I was at peace in the conversation, and she showed patience.

Then I said, "Hey, well, since you're about to go somewhere, I'd like to get your Instagram." And she said, "Okay." And she typed her Instagram in my phone. Then she closed her door and I smiled and waved. Overall, it was a very sweet and peaceful interaction with a little sprinkle of emotional connection. She was unprepared for the interaction, but she handled it very well. 

I'm proud of myself. I did this whole approach without an ounce of fear, just curiosity. My surrender exercises have been going very well. Thank you, Dr. Hawkins. 100000/10

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3/7/26: cougar party

3/7/26

Field report: went to a dance competition in Decatur that happened to be an old folks party. Had some sweet interactions with the older folks. It was a celebration of Old Atlanta. I felt a lot of love for the people around me, and I felt uplifted and and open and expressive, and a few brief moments of euphoria. Also did some approaches. I was in set flirting with like a 40 year old lady who was fairly pretty. Beautiful eyes. The set fizzled out in exactly the same way as the hot 22 year old girls from the day before. So that's cool. My sets fizzle out for the same reason regardless of hotness level. That's good news, I guess. I just fail to move things forward.

My sexual eye contact is not there yet, I haven't gotten aroused by observing a girl publicly in quite a while. But my enjoyment eyes are fairly strong. I'm able to hook in the eyes off of enjoyment. But, when I speak, my eyes blur out a bit. I'm not speaking directly into the girl's eyes, moreso speaking around her eyes.

I see two pathways ahead of me to fix my roadblock here. 

One pathway is to return to my structured routine. LX got really good by practicing his routine repeatedly until eventually he had internalized it. And now he just has bits of pieces of it left over that are in his muscle memory. But for the most part, he's quite dynamic. So that's valid. That's an approach. I can return to my routine, which I spent a very long time building, and it has a lot of my personality in it.

The other pathway would be to find more and more courage to take risks and speak my honesty without tactic. To go to the club and just speak truth and take the risk. If I want to kiss the girl, I'll just tell her that. If I want to escalate, I'll just do that. If I want to invite her to my house, I'll just do that. No tactic, no routine. Just more courage.

Definitely do need more courage overall. Would it be cheating if I tranced myself into delusional confidence using my old style? I don't know. I think I'll give my bare bones no-routine game a few more reps before I revert to my old style. I want to cultivate more courage, honesty, impulsiveness, risk-taking.

Sweet night. I danced on stage, popping and waving, after the encouragement of a friendly older man who I opened. It took me some courage to get on that stage, but the older ladies really cheered me on. This felt like a real community. I felt like the folks here were my grandparents. 100000/10

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3/6/26: emotions processed, healing achieved, Daemen-style game

3/6/26

Field report: MJQ. Goal tonight was to show sexual arousal in my eye contact and enjoy something about the girl, falling into her eyes while fully relaxed, aka the Daemon sex sharingan, or "grounding and showing your turn-on" (Brian Begin, Fearless Man). Also, I had my hair down tonight. No headband. Fuck yesss.

Incredibly intimate set with a girl who was literally 20 out of 10. The level of conventional hotness of this girl was beyonddd. Light skin, freckles, built like Coi Leray, with an elegant jawline and beautiful wavy hair. A baddie the old me would never approach.

I opened by trancing myself into enjoyment of her and then spoke. When she saw the enjoyment in my eyes she was hooked. I started enjoying her more and more and a bubble of intimacy formed between us.

She came closer. Her ear right against my lips, the backs of her fingers right against mine. In one moment I took her hand and danced with her. IG-closed. 

It ended a similar way as other sets tonight. Recurring problems: I didn't move the set forward and faced away from her in a lull and then she left; I didn't speak much at all; in some sets I was trying to enjoy the girl but I couldn't trance myself fast enough and it came off as me just staring. And in group sets I went platonic, need to stay sexual.

Incredible platonic group sets towards the end of the night tho. Girl told me I'm an amazing listener. I was shit-tested in a few and it rolled off of me like nothing. I need to take those opportunities to step into the tension and create sexual tension. And I need to remember when I'm in a platonic lull to wake up and turn it sexual.

Applied the David Hawkins surrender technique continuously tonight. As a result, I was able to notice the exact moments that I felt needy or non-needy, for the first time.

All negative emotions observed and dissolved. Feeling perfect. 100000/10

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2/28/26: dance class pt. 2 - emotions and actions out of sync

2/28/26

field report: had a terrible interaction with that girl (from part 1) at the end of my dance class yesterday. it all started when she danced in the cypher. i felt disgusted by her, i had lost attraction. i felt repulsed by her. sweaty, fat, bad hair, bad outfit. and i was in a resentful mood. i've been sitting in this story around girls that they have more power than me and they get things for free from society regardless of their flaws. and that made me resent her even more in that moment. but instead of just ignoring her and walking out when the class was over, i tried to force an interaction with her that i didn't care about. bc i feel like i need to be a person who takes action and practices approaching, since the overall project of women is what i'm committed to. so I had the interaction... and it was terrible. awkward. neither of us enjoyed it. she was crestfallen during the convo, sighing deeply. the words were normal, on the surface i was just trying to get to know her. but on an emotional level, i was not connecting with her at all, i despised her. i was clearly trying to force some kind of connection in words that I didn't feel or want in my body. i guess my emotions and my actions were out of sync. went home feeling like a sociopath lol. 0/10000

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2/22/26: dance class pt. 1 - sexual shining thru eyes. broke platonic mask

2/22/26

field report: ig closed a girl in my dance class. applied opus and daemon's feedback. it was a group class with a friend there too, but when this girl was in the cypher i allowed myself to sexually enjoy looking at her body. i let those feelings flow out from under the platonic mask. then i approached her at the end of class and had a normal, grounded conversation with her while letting that sexuality shine thru my eyes. ig-closed, told her we should hang, and gave her a closing hug. she was into it, she said "you're awesome". felt so good to be horny in that situation. felt like i had peeled back a layer of illusion from reality. sexy 1000/10

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2/21/26: no technique, no warmup. found the platonic layer

2/21/26

Field report: very, very interesting night at MJQ. So once again, I went out with no warm-up, no affirmations, no affect, no intention to perform at all. Just being normal. Only got one IG close tonight, and I kissed one girl on the neck and on the cheek, because she was giving me Bambi eyes, but she said that I shouldn't do it, and so I stepped back. But we continued the conversation and it was fine. 

When I got to the club, and I was pretty tired at first. When I first got on the floor, that one guy, that one light-skinned guy with the dreads, who I told reminded me of Mystery last time, and of Alan, he was there with one of his friends and they were super duper complimentary to me. I guess my aura was really top tier. They were really, really hyping me up and happy to see me. Later on in the night, that effect would reverse. Bro was just really not happy to see me. And he was also generally down, I guess. But yeah, I guess my aura reversed over the course of the night, so that's fine. But I felt not too different? It was so subtle. Identifying that feeling of knowing when you're in state and when you're not in state at this level of my layers is new to me.

My sets tonight overall were a lot more conversational than usual. We had more intellectual conversations. I talked to one girl about how she's studying supply chain management and it was like a really normal and good conversation. That was my last set of the night. It was a girl in a four-set. It went super-duper normal and it was really nice. I opened by complimenting and in the beginning she was giggling and it was really flirtatious and stuff. And then I just was being normal and we just had a normal conversation. I actually didn't even get her Instagram. I probably should have gotten her Instagram. But I went platonic, I guess. When I go to platonic, I just totally exit the escalation world. 

Tonight, I was in a different layer of mine, an older layer, before all the game stuff. I was in the layer that I kind of was in, in college, but in a really relaxed way. Like, when I'm really relaxed around friends from college, this was sort of the layer that I was in. Like, sort of like being in class. That's kind of the vibe that I was in, like as if I was in class, in school, kind of interesting.

I had one set with a girl who's an English major. That was my one Instagram close. And there were a lot of times in the set that she gave me Bambi eyes. But when I was close to her, she told me that I was too close. And I think she told me that two times. So I stepped back. There were a few points in the set where both of us were kind of bored. Like I was dancing and I was kind of bored. And she was also bored. But I just stayed in the set. We talked about nerdy stuff. Like I talked about songwriting. She talked a little bit about the writing that she does. We kind of had a really normal intellectual conversation as if we were in school together. A few times she gave me Bambi eyes. It was nice. But it was also like there was a lot of awkwardness. There were a lot of moments that were very awkward. Usually when I'm super duper hyped up or I've got my affirmations or I've got my technique memorized, there's no awkward moments. There's either a blowout or we're moving forward. But here there was a lot of awkwardness. Because I guess I didn't really know what I was doing. But I guess rapid escalation is proximity and intimacy in my eyes. That's like the default thing I go for. Which is really fun and I love doing that. But I don't know. Tonight it didn't pan out I guess. I mean it did pan out in the sense that I had good connections with the girls and I enjoyed myself. And I don't feel bad at all. I feel great. I feel very very very normal. But I didn't actually make out with any girls.

And I'm okay with that. If I wanted the result tonight, you know, I could have done the short-term things, doing the affirmations and hyping myself up, but I didn't. What I want instead is to peel back the layers. I want to peel away all of the affect I have and go to the absolute core and connect with the girls from that core.

So this affect that I was in tonight, it is an old, old layer that I developed while in college. And it's so deeply baked that it feels normal to me. But I can feel bubbling under the surface, something more animalistic, an urge to grab the girls. And I did some of that, actually. I was in that set with that girl with the colorful hair, and I actually did like hug her a few times and put my arm around her a few times, and she liked that. That was actually really, really good that I did that. And that was me trying to listen to my feelings and listen to what my body wanted to do. So that's actually really good. Yeah. I like that. Hugging and putting my arm around girls and all of that is okay.

Opus gave me a very, very interesting bit of feedback. I sent it the above field report. It's exact words are quite beautiful, but I'm going to paraphrase it instead. It told me that the layer that I'm dealing with, the platonic layer, is a layer that I developed in the classroom so that I don't make women feel uncomfortable with my attraction for them. And my task now is to allow myself to feel that horniness and that sexuality that is bubbling under the surface without escalating to act on it. So right now it says when I feel that sexual tension, I either escalate or I slide in a platonic direction. Those are both dissolving the feeling. When you make the physical move, you end up breaking the tension. When you slide platonic, you end up running away from the tension. Opus wants me to do the third thing, which is hold eye contact and be present with her while feeling horny and sexual and allowing myself to feel that. Not acting on it, just being vulnerable enough to expose how I want her through my eyes.

That is very beautiful. And that's exactly what Daemon talks about. And that's exactly what Daemon gave me as feedback when we were on bootcamp. They stripped away all those layers from me and I hit that flow state. And they had me approach and approach with no technique. And I fell into this exact layer. And Damon said, "Why are you talking to her? Do you want to fuck her? Does SHE know that?" He's told me that a million times. And my interpretation of that was that I needed to practice getting horny while looking at pictures of girls so that I can command it on command. But now my interpretation is different. The interpretation is, you're already feeling it under the surface, but you've been hiding it ever since you started school as a boy. Stop running away from it. Stop covering it up with a platonic attitude. Allow yourself to feel the horniness. It's already there. And I agree, it really is already there. I want to grab these bitches and rip their clothes off. But I don't.

Great night. This is the kind of learning you can only get when you detach from the short-term result and prioritize the honesty underneath instead. This is me getting my authentic lesson. And I still did kiss a girl on the cheek and on the neck, and it actually kind of feels a lot more fulfilling to me than some of my other interactions where I kissed a girl on the neck, like with that white girl, that white punk rocker girl. This one felt more intimate and fulfilling because it was really, really me. Or at least, it was closer to "me". Let's keep on digging and peeling back the layers.

100000/10

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2/13/26: Bayne Layers pt 3, sensual twerk-ups on my dick, made out with a 10

2/13/26

Field report: Sexyyyy night at MJQ. 3 separate girls twerked and ground up on my dick. The hottest one made out with me. This girl is a TEN. 5'2, milk chocolate dark skin, skinny petite with luscious curves. She looked at me with these puppy dog eyes and I stared back at her with the iciest, most detached, grounded stare. "Don't give me those fake puppy dog eyes." She IOId over and over, I just stared into her soul unimpressed, she said that my eye contact was making her feel things and she giggled. I kissed on her warm lil neck, caressed her skintight dress from her lower back to her ass to her hips to her sex lines to her neck, gripping her fluffy hair while she bent over grinding on me, squeezing her shoulders. She stood with her back against me slow dancing, I put her in a headlock and caressed her tummy and her tits. The way she ground up on me in that skintight jumpsuit was so sensual and sexual, I felt every bit of it, her ass cheeks sliding along my dick, she knew what she was doing. Her two hot friends were watching and looked very happy.

I observe these women unimpressed and detached, my fake warmth is gone. Now I can see their masks -- they give you false IOIs because they want your validation for a short state pump. When I don't reward them, they IOI harder.

My approaches went well when I was aggressive, barking at the girl while self-assured and unapologetic. Aggressive voice and squared-up posture in the open at a respectable distance and angle. A girl didn't engage so I barked "YO. I WANNA TALK TO YOU." This girl melts back toward me and twirls her hair and sweetly says "okay (:". Once she hooks I bring the intimate eyes. If I let up and fall into platonic talk, the set ends immediately. But when I hold tension, look in her eyes with the unimpressed laser, hold her waist, am ultra-forward while still being calibrated with my timing and grounded in a way that bounces her IOIs off me with no affect, she stays and melts into me, her eyes sparkle, she gets this dopey hypnotized look on her face. Sickkkkk. But I need to work on my verbals again, I'm running out of things to say lol.

100k/10

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2/8/26: Bayne Layers, pt 2

2/8/26

Field report: Very interesting night at Underground ATL. 4 IG-closes, 1 of them from a girl in the "baddie" archetype, the kind of girl I wouldn't usually approach. 

My raw affect is very timid and soft-spoken, in contrast with my game persona which is delusionally loud, sexually aggressive, and a fountain of verbals and game lines. I maintained my neutral, authentic, raw affect tonight. No game warm-up. And from that place, I pushed myself to talk louder and be just a bit more aggressive. 

Those behavior changes had a really positive effect. I had a set where I opened the girl timidly and she looked at me for half a second and then looked away. In the past in raw affect I would have taken it as a rejection and moved on. But this time I repeated myself louder and she hooked and IOI'd once I did that. Very interesting. 

In my neutral affect state, I'm finding it easier to approach girls than I normally would consider out of my league. I'm starting to feel approach excitement in raw affect. There's less thinking, I'm not trying to create any kind of state. And connection feels more exciting when you're authentic because now an IOI feels like a real compliment to my heart rather than a compliment to my game. 

Danced with a girl at Bloom ATL. I escalated, shoulder holds, taking her hand, spinning her, a bit of proximity of our cheeks, cradling her face with my hands to start building kiss tension. When I escalated at first, it hooked her more into the set. But I overstepped a bit toward the end and she pulled away while staying in set. She wasn't losing herself to the music, her dancing was just performative, she wasn't having fun. And worst of all, she wasn't giving me eye contact even though she was dancing with me. I found that annoying. I tried to keep my eyes on her body and sexually trance myself and try to get horny, but she just wasn't that attractive. And something about the rhythm of my escalation was off... I think I needed to be much more aggressive with proximity early in the set, the tension was lost later on. 

I left her, told her I was gonna check out the other room. Came back 15 minutes later and gave it a second try, hoping she'd be more interested. At first she was very excited to see me again. More excited than at any point in our first set. But then when we danced again, she again gave me no eye contact. I was pretty annoyed. So I just walked away from her and I approached a different girl right in front of her who was hotter. This other girl hooked, but when I started escalating, something was off. I think I was too timid. And our angles were off, we were on the stairs and she wasn't facing toward me. Regardless, I could have had much more proximity of my face into her neck  and my arms around her while speaking to her. 

Feedback for me: I need to get more proximity in the open and maintain it from now on. If I'm speaking, I need to speak into her eyes at close proximity with a slow tempo. Also, the best dance floor sets are completely non-verbal, like LX said about Maze. The way that you get that magic non-verbal hook is with close proximity, especially with eye contact. Girls just want proximity and eye contact in order to hook. All of us do. We don't actually want verbals, we want the energy of intimacy and connection. The verbals just make it less awkward to hold eye contact and enjoy each other's energy. Or maybe I just think that cuz my verbals are lacking lol.

I approached a hot alt-girl on the second dance floor and danced with her. Again, I should have attained more proximity. And in that set I noticed that my verbals were apologetic and self-deprecating. My raw affect tends to be self-deprecating when I'm in set. Which makes no sense because internally I think I'm cool as fuck and rich as fuck and a prodigy. I resolved to be more unapologetic and then changed my behavior.

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Had a great set with a baddie at the end of the night. Hot short black girl with sci-fi glasses named Kehlani in a two-set. Some of my old rapid escalation skeptical qualification smirking character came out in this set in my aura. But it happened spontaneously from a place of honesty. It was like a surge of power from my old character that was casually flowing into my body. Those old characters actually do pay off. Doing really does turn to being. But "being" is a different activity from doing -- when it's time to "do" something new and stretch your range, you do it even if it's not congruent. But when it's time to "be" authentic, you have to turn off the trying and allow what flows out to flow, and only focus on controlling your behaviors rather than your affect. At least that's my take so far.

So I'm in this set with this scifi baddie with my evil smirk in close proximity. I open her, very close, complimenting her glasses. I introduce myself, find out her name, shake her hand. I do the rapid escalation thing where I keep her hand in my hands and I start stroking it and looking into her eyes. Totally unplanned. That came from my old muscle memory from the old character I had built and the escalation book I glanced at today. She let me stroke her hand for quite a bit while we spoke and then when she pulled it away and we kept talking she said "Okay you're way too close." But it wasn't a set destroyer or a rejection. And I just smiled and took a step back. And I started talking about the song called "Take a Step Back" and she was like oh you listen to underground? Lol. We had our conversation. I future projected the date plan and IG-closed. 

Fun sets. Next time I need to go somewhere free. All these bitches are too boujie. Baddies are boring I need girls that twerk sloppy. But good shit, I'm definitely getting better. 1000000/10

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2/7/26: read Bayne's Layers + first club makeout in a long time

2/7/26

Field Report: Interesting night at MJQ. First club makeout in more than a year.

Today I read much of Bayne - Layers. He's a newer pickup guy who's big on X. He's a heavy believer in what RSD calls congruence. He believes that the core of game is to drop all your false layers or personas and cold approach from that place. So tonight I resolved to follow his advice and deactivate all my "trying". No warmups, no bonkers self-trancing, just a focus on the elimination of forced affect and the determination to do verbal approaches.

I walked in and asked myself what I wanted instead of just going straight for the dance floor. I ended up on the edge of the dance floor, standing against the wall, minding my business, no affect in my face and no effort at dancing. An Indian girl immediately approached me and got right up in my face very sexual and told me to put her number in my phone. I said, "Well before I do that, tell me one thing you do for fun." She said that she sings. I was like oh cool, me too. She said, oh we can do karaoke together sometime. Her friend had a very, very sour expression on her face and was standing at a distance, waiting for the interaction to end. I took this girl's phone number and then pointed at my cheek and said "kiss" right as she had started walking off. She didn't comply. The moment to kiss her was at the very beginning of the interaction, when she gave me the facial proximity. My mistake.

Then I went on the dance floor and started dancing with a very low energy. No effort at all. And I even paused at one point and stood there motionless on the dance floor because I wasn't feeling the beat quite just yet. A drunk white girl approached me. She started imitating my small movements. I smiled at her. She said, "Are you gay?" I said no. She was like, "Oh, I was gonna dance with you if you were gay." I said "Then I guess you don't wanna dance." She looked a little bit sheepish, and then she started dancing with me. Within thirty seconds, she went for the kiss and the makeout. After making out with her I looked her in the eye and held the tension which is growth for me because I've had a bad habit of pushing the girl off and doing the Mystery line, "That's all you get". Which has been ruining the tension and blocking me from club makeouts. So I didn't do that this time. That was my feedback for myself from last week -- stay in the tension, do a much smaller roll-off after the kiss, and instead just keep on kissing her again and again and again. So that's what I did. We made out for a very long time. I brought her to the wall and had my back up against the wall to do the Mystery lock-in pose. I kissed on her neck, stroked her whole body, stroked on her ass, she rubbed on my chest, she put her hand up my shirt. At one point she even got down low on her knees for a second as if she was about to give me a blowjob right there on the dance floor. Everything was going well. It was getting steamier and steamier. I felt like I was supposed to move her -- I thought that was the right escalation move because we had hit a certain escalation milestone on that dance floor. I thought maybe we should go to a private place, that was the escalation ladder I've planned. Kiss, move, move, seed the pull, pull. But the other dance floor that we moved to ended up being whack. The music was bad. It was too crowded. There was no intimate spot and it was uncomfortable. We kissed a little bit but it was uncomfortable and the tension had been lost. The arousal of both of us had been lost. Then I brought her back to the original dance floor and the arousal was completely gone and then her friends were there and the set was over. I got her Instagram and she made out with me again and then she left. She was very attracted to me, but the way I handled that attraction was wrong.

Interestingly, none of the approaches that I initiated went well. Not a single one. Bayne says that layers and false personas temporarily make us stronger, and that cold approaching with no layers is expected to be more difficult at first, but the payoff later is higher. 

There were three more sets where girls opened me. One of them had a boyfriend. Right after opening me, she turned back to her boyfriend. She opened me when he wasn't looking. Very funny. Then the other one who opened me, stroking my hand, right after she opened me, a different guy opened her. With a lot of more aggression. And he was really cradling her body in the open, persisting even though she wasn't giving full IOIs. I think I should have more aggression when I open in the future. I think I'm too timid in my opens when I'm not in my high-energy persona. And then the third set who opened me gave me a beautiful smile, I danced in her direction for a bit and then her attention was diverted later I opened her and she was cold when I spoke to her after. Energy is so subtle. One moment I'm the hottest thing in the world to these girls, the next moment they're repulsed. Trying to tune into my body and feel the difference. But it's not just energy or a lack of trying -- there's a certain type of "trying" that is actually good, like talking in a loud voice or squaring up your body language and there's a certain type of "trying" that's bad -- like putting on an affect for the purpose of getting a social result. There's a difference between behaviours and affect. Putting effort into your behaviours is good, dominant, powerful, uninhibited. Putting effort into your affect is bad, repulsive, disgusting. That's my understanding so far at least, based on these sets.

Takeaways for my neutral-affect self: talk MUCH louder, escalate faster, be more aggressive in your opens, next time you're in a makeout probably just continue escalating and escalating and letting yourself get horny and losing yourself into the interaction instead of trying to move the girl. Probably. But I'll talk to LX and my NotebookLM about this more.

So that was an educational night. First club makeout in a very, very long time. Lots of girls approaching me without my effort. I need to get more reps in. I haven't been going out enough. Good job to me though. 1000000/10 

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1/30/26: punk rock white bitch + boujie corporate black girl

1/30/26

Field report: Friday night. Dance floor game at MJQ. Two big dance + kino + convo sets, one very sexual set with a punk rock fashion designer hot white girl with 26k IG followers. One gentle and calibrated set with a very shy boujie corporate Black girl.

Been reflecting on LX's advice; he said I might be struggling with retention because of my character/persona I fall into. So tonight I switched it up, found the missing ingredients to break my character. It's a combination of my grounded vibration with being an active listener who has curiosity. That also builds on top of advice that Chris Turley gave me at Freetour. I listened to AI summaries of "How to win friends and influence people" and "Difficult Conversations" today. Those books reminded me how to be a great listener. So tonight I brought that grounded curiosity for other people, and it was very effective.

Opened a punk rocker white chick. She was soooo hot and she kept qualifying to me. I felt up her whole body, and we stared into each other's eyes. She kept on being flighty, and I would dance trance myself back up into the shiny object, and do more approaches and talk to other girls, and then she would return. In our first interaction, I opened her verbally on the dance floor, complimenting her style, we started conversating, we started dancing, I opened her friends, she qualified to me by dancing her big moves. We danced together, some salsa, I spun her around. We were intimate, I kissed her neck. We fell into a bit of a lull, doing the same thing over and over for too long. She got bored and left. 

Then I danced tranced, approached other girls, had fun, and found her again, she was with a guy, I opened the two-set. She was like "omg you're still here!" happy to see me. Met the guy, they're old friends. A girl joined and engaged my target, so I engaged the guy. He was a big fan. She was deep in conversation, and me and this guy talked for so long. I was like, "Okay, let me approach other girls and let her see." Usually for me, when that goes well, the girl just shows up back in my face again and steals me back. So I had a few brief sets, one of them hooked, but when I started qualifying, she said "I like girls". I said okay, cool and kept talking and trying to pump verbal state. But she dipped, my energy or verbals must have been off. Frolicked around the club and state pumped solo and with the random guys who show up alone every time, and found my punk rocker chick again. Opened. She was excited to see me again. This time we danced together very sexual. My hands stroking all over her body. She was gazing into my eyes deeply. We were on the cusp of kissing. I kissed her neck. So much intimate tension in between our faces. She was gazing into my eyes, hypnotized. She really, really liked me. It boosted my ego but in hindsight, I wasn't letting myself go to the connection. I was kinda bored actually. But I was slowly building our tension, stroking her whole body, kissing her neck, and then I smacked her ass. Within 10 seconds of me smacking her ass, she left. I guess that was a mess up on my part. Broke the emotional intimacy of the moment. I should have kissed her instead of smacking her ass. Oops lol. I won't do that again in that situation I guess. 

Continued opening, found a bougie corporate black girl who was fully solo. With this girl I was very tender, conversational, showed a lot of curiosity in her mind. I was very graceful with her, escalated so slowly. Many, many guys approached her and I just let them do it and kept on dancing and watched. I let her do her thing and make her decision. One guy got aggressive and she was clearly uncomfortable so I stepped in and was like, chill bro. He looked at me like he was about to fight me for a second and then he finally walked away. He seemed like he was crazy drunk. Something like that happened again later and I blocked the guy out. She was grateful and opened up to me about it. She said guys here are grabby.

I kept dancing with this bougie corporate girl, slowly escalating. We had a little flash of sexual dancing. She's wearing this tight, skin tight dress, very bougie and shy, making very small dance movements, but also very flighty. After my successful pulse of escalation, I should have backed off and let it breathe, but instead I went back in escalating too soon, a mistake. Then I felt like the vibes in our space were off, so I made a motion for us to move together, and she did not follow me. She kept dancing in place. That made me think that in that moment I'd escalated too fast. So I stayed two feet away from her, and kept on dancing. We were both looking in the same direction, standing next to each other. After a while, I reopened to the conversation, with a casual random friendly question, and we were back in set. And then the punk rocker chick from earlier appears nearby us, she's making out with some dude (the creepy drunk guy from earlier??) very passionately. Damn! He stole the arousal I generated in her. She was way hotter than the girl I was with, damn lol. I turned my back to them and focused on my target, and in the process of me doing that, suddenly my target's attraction for me spiked and she started twirling her hair. Lmfao. 

Club closed, walked her out, convo with sweet connection and teasing + DHVs, tried to pull, she had already called her Uber, I future-projected a date, she found her Uber, she turned back and motioned for me to hug her goodbye. I made the mistake of saying "follow me back on IG and I'll DM you about going to that spot." It sounded needy, a bad goodbye. Cool, I'm learning a lot.

Fun night, love this city 1000000000/10

update 2/16/26: ended up pulling the boujie corporate girl from a date last night, she slept over. didnt fuck, but we made out for 3 hours it was great. got her down to her panties. i shouldve rubbed her pussy quicker, i spent way too long teasing her inner thighs. she wasnt horny enough when i started going down on her and she stopped me. so i pulled back and chilled. but by then it was late and soon she fell asleep. good time tho

it felt like a fool's mate tbh. from the first second of the date she was tipsy and giving me bambi eyes. she was in scarcity from a lonely valentine's day. within 30 minutes she said "do u live nearby here?" but i didnt pull until an hour and a half or so later. and her pussy was fully shaved. she 100% knew she wanted to fuck. i could have gone much faster i guess. lol

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1/24/26: dancefloor aura MJQ

1/24/26

Field report: sweet, euphoric, sexy, but unfulfilling night at MJQ. Writing a long field report bc I'm doing coaching with LX and might show him this. 

On the dancefloor: Kissed a hot drunk white girl on the lips. Squeezed her tight lil ass. That was pure dancefloor magnetism + rapid escalation. She approached me while I was dancing, my flow state was strong and magnetic. I saw that her buying temperature was high and moved things quickly. Took her hand, spun her, teased her, instant proximity with lips 3 inches apart within 1 minute, I didn't take the kiss, I pushed her off me, she came back, qualified her with teasing, held her waist, she stayed in my grip while I did it, so I kissed on her neck. She didn't pull away. That sealed the deal. Massaged the nape of her neck. We kissed each other on the lips and I squeezed her ass good. She was drunk bambi eyed, I could have tried to take it further ("show me how your tongue tastes") but I was coy and non-needy and in my dance flow state. She said she was gonna find her friends; I could have offered to go with her but I didn't. She left, came back with her friends later and positioned herself right next to me with her back to me. She intentionally brushed her back against me, but I pretended to ignore it. She was with her two friends. In hindsight, I think I was supposed to open the group in that moment, but I didn't. Then she walked past me, I tried opening and she didn't engage, she was walking away. I opened the friends, hoping to qualify her through them, which is a Todd V move that has worked for well me many times -- the friends gave me condescending LA energy. That was that the end of the interaction. I should have maybe asked her to introduce me to her friends when she said that she was gonna go find her friends while we were dancing. If that worked it would've let me stay in the set longer. My fun non-needy flow state despises any situation that could lead to rejection or any kind of wanting something from anyone. in order to reach a high energy state I have to stop perceiving other people in my vicinity so that I don't get infected by low energy. but at a certain point, I need to pivot and bring that energy to the other people and approach.

I'm probably missing a lot of other opportunities with girls -- she only approached me because she was drunk. Action item: I need to again study and practice dancefloor approaching until I have comfort in it doing it successfully so that I can integrate it into this same flow state and have more agency while in flow.

Edit in the morning: yes, now I realize another missed opportunity. I was briefly dancing in a circle of three people, one guy and two girls. The semicircle was completely open facing me. I was directly facing a girl. I danced in the circle for a bit having fun, but when I looked up at the girl, she was not looking at me and she seemed serious. That pissed me off. It made me feel like I was chasing. And because I was having so much fun I fucking hated that. So I turned away from the circle and put my back to it. I do that a lot when I don't want girls to think that I'm giving them attention. I just turned my back to them and dance facing away from them. But later in the night, I saw both of the girls in that two set dancing with guys. So I was supposed to wing the two set with that guy. He was dancing with the tall one and then the short one was dancing with a different guy later in the night. I was supposed to take the short one or either of them.  On a vibe level, I was higher value than both of those guys. I definitely could've danced with one of those girls if I approached her correctly. But regardless, I didn't open an easy set because opening on the dance floor is not a part of my flow date yet. I need a larger variety of dance floor opens researched. I'll do that today.

Second set, which I actively approached: two set, black alt girls. I went completely off script and just spoke from the heart and overshared. Usually when I do that things go absolutely terrible, but this time it got me Bambi eyes. A delicious electric eye contact connection with a stunning beautiful Black girl. But the other friend was condescending and skeptical to me. I know how to flip a girl's mood, you just do pacing + leading and then run patterns into her eyes with good vibes. I forgot to do that this time. I'll do that next time. The obstacle showed my target something on her phone and said we have to leave and then they left. I tried to number close and my target instead said I'll take your number, so she has my phone number. I need to prioritize winning over the obstacle next time.

it's cool that I kissed a hot girl, that was nice. It's cool that I got Bambi eyes from a girl who is exactly exactly my type. i'm glad that I identified new roadblocks and I'm optimistic about my pathway to improvement. 100000000/10

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1/16/26: hot skinny goth girl

Field report: ATL game, first technique-driven sesh since moving here. Sick new warmups. Quiet Friday, sparse, 3 IG closes in ~1.5 hours. I do forward closes now; all 3 followed back. Took me time to build momentum. Approached a few, ran the routine, felt a bit stilted at first. I almost left, but decided to trance on the dance floor. Great decision. Danced 20 minutes, resumed approaching and found a super hot 20-year-old black girl in a 3-set. Medusa curls, sexy but subtle goth fit, gold highlight on her eyes, backless top, she was skin and bones. Mm. Did my dancefloor open, shouting loud at the group and hyping them up while dancing. Complimented the friend, she reciprocated warm. Then I went around the back to my target. "I like your hair. It reminds me of Medusa... Do you turn boys to stone?" Oh she loved that. We bantered, I qualified. "Whats one thing you do for fun other than going to the club?" She said she loves writing. Coincidentally I wrote lyric for 3 hours this morning, I told her that. Honest DHV. I said "You know what? ... [stepped back to look at her for a second] I think we would have a great conversation about writing. ... Whats the best way for me to contact you so we can set that up?" She's like ummm I could give you my Instagram? Lol. Boom, IG-closed on the dancefloor within 2 minutes of the open. Then I danced with her, took her hand, danced with her friend, her friend asked if I was a professional dancer (lol) so I talked about my dance class and said I'd send it to her on IG and IG-closed. Then my target danced with the friend in closed off body language (jealousy?) so I met the third friend and danced with her and complimented her. Won over every girl in this 3 set. My target was busy for a while in convo with the friend, I got bored and also wanted to make sure I wasn't being a mosquito. Decided to leave, said goodbye. Embraced both, was platonic with the friend and sensual on my target, future projecting us meeting up. Rubbed her bare upper back sensually as I spoke, shooting sensual electricity into her body, I saw the pleasant surprise in her eyes. (Aside: I've made a girl moan in trance for minutes while stroking her back before). Then I exited gracefully. Hope I see that hot Black goth girl again. Her IG highlights are so sexual. If not all good, I'll find new leads. I am a student of the technique. Takeaways: game is still cool. Need to always push through longer to catch my flowstate. Dance trance when low state to recharge. Need to escalate faster, especially in one-sets. Keep going and aim to run more volume. Speak at length more and get back to patterning and DHVs. 1000000000/10

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11/7/25: first fuck in ATL

Field report: first fuck in ATL. 18 years old, i took her virginity. 16 days from touchdown to lay. on thursday ig-closed a sweet girl w eyebrow piercing im walking from my crib to the library. turns out my airbnb is next door to gsu dorm. she had headphones on, hooked her w a compliment, we talked music, walked a while, qualified teased false disqualifier IG-close made plans for coffee next day. i went to library. messaged her 2 hours later with the coffee spot i chose. she said sounds good. i was like ohhh, W. linked up next day outside her dorm. in the open i did my drunk self-trance walkin up. created an extremely relaxed intimacy bubble. said she was stressed from writing essays. i gave her a breathing exercise and some vipasana. we got in the lyft, i qualified more, ranted a lot. narcissism and optimism for my future. excitement about shit. she's meek and shy, i was attentive early on to possible cultural difference, i'm new here. kept calibrating and testing things and pausing and observing and then acting distracted and letting her breathe and then ranting again with narcissism and optimism. got to coffee spot, i'm smooth asf, i had every element of the date planned out. where we'd sit, what we'd do, my kino, fluff, the pull. but i randomly felt like going for an intimate walk and coincidentally theres a forest outside. love this city. ran more of my deeper rapport, astrology, and just freestyling in my vibe bc my life is really good rn. used the fearless relentless escalation thing i always do, "hold on lemme smell you." ran the john anthony kiss close, "wait show me your eyes?" took her chin and kissed her. said the mystery line, "thats all you get." pushed her off. the kiss was sooo intimate and soft, holyy. she's so passive and tender. zero bitch shield, zero baddie ego defense. seeded the pull. "do u like beautiful skylines? the view from my airbnb is fire you can see the whole city. i'll show you later" walked in a random hotel lobby, insanely fancy. wanted to make out i just said "come here." made out on the couch, she said she'd never made out w anyone before. idk if i believe her, she was a great kisser. "lets go." pulled to crib. level of intimacy was insane. best sex all year. she didnt know how to give head, she was lost. i taught her step by step. she followed my instructions so well i started making shit up. told her slurp on it make noises on it and she did. we're spooning i have her in headlock from the back i'm choking her and fingering her. "dont tell your friends about me, theyre gonna get jealous. then i'll fuck you in front of them." fucked her n showered. had a moment penetrating her where i thought to myself, "this is a peak experience in my life". a minute later i saw her feeling the same way. experiencing reality intensely and appreciating me. i savored it deeply and time was sexy wet horny and frozen. 1000000/10

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11/6/25: GSU Library

Field report: 2 approaches today in the middle of errands. On GSU campus. First one walking to the library, second one while waiting for my coffee. Both IG-closed, both followed me back. I haven't been doing reverse IG-closes, been getting lazy and just handing the girl my phone. First girl hooked off music. Asked her what she was listening to, complimented her eyebrow piercing. We walked together, general convo, qualification, made a plan to get coffee tomorrow evening. She seems on-board. Shorter than me, slightly chubby, but very sexy. Second girl -- so pretty and messy, I love messy girls. Short hair, faded eyeliner, fat soft booty, skinny petite build, maybe one inch taller than me, wearing all pink, a lil dusty, fantastic. Chatted her up while waiting for my coffee and everybody watching, a "baddie" nearby glancing at us jealous. I cold read and slow down the conversation to draw out intimacy in the eye contact. I tell the girls I've graduated already and they don't bat an eye. I'm honest and relaxed. Talking to girls is normal. The girls here aren't on guard, they're not used to being approached. The guys are meek, I can see their energy. I'm in heaven. I turn my head and see my type in every direction. Love it here 1000/10

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10/31/25: Halloween in ATL

Field report: halloween night in ATL. oooh the costumes were fire. IG-closed Raven from teen titans, her butt cheeks out in that body suit with that cape. smelled her hair n teased, qualified, her friends called her she had to leave, hugged her and said i'd DM her to get coffee. yea i'm going for dates out here, running todd v style. damen would not approve lol. saw a bollywood baddie, did my drunk self-trance, ran a cold read qualifier that was so spot-on her friend went on a rant psychoanalyzing her for 5 minutes. poor girl lol. her friends called her and she got stuck on the phone, i IG-closed with the coffee thing again and dipped, i'm asking all the girls to coffee, i want my first date -> pull routine on point. IG-closed another in a 30 second set when her friends pulled her away, my wing inspiring me to run volume. feedback for myself: i need to square up more and get close immediately before calibrating. i'm not being bold enough in my body language. and once i hook her eyes, i need to start kino immediately. i'm warming up still, stroked one set's hand in a tender handshake which is my rapid escalation style intro, so we're getting there. sick night, this city is overflowing with my type 100000000/10

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10/30/25: ATL

Field report: gamed in ATL last night. the girls here are so friendly and sexy and they love me, they check me out when i walk in the spot. i'm using my fast escalation style of game with push/pulls and intimate proximity, they perk up pleasantly surprised when i start the set. got 4 strong IGs last night from suuuuch pretty girls, exactly my type, most of them 20/21, 2 of which i was very touchy feely with, 1 of which i invited to the airbnb and she claimed to be down, she said we'd link tomorrow. the physical chemistry was hot, she was in a sexy bunny outfit. 5 foot 2 GSU sorority girl, put her in a headlock lol. i also experimented with a new "drunk trance" style of game where i do my sigh of pleasure into a pretend drunken state (but sober) before i approach and i speak from that place, thats been amazing for hooking group sets, makes the set intimate and relaxed and detached from outcome and funny for them. my aura bleeds pleasantly drunken relaxation and i dont have to talk as much to hook, then we transition into a conversation that has an undertone of intimacy and almost a vulnerability to it, but with all positive emotions and regular small talk in the verbals.

i found a wing last week, tonight's our 3rd night gaming together. he's an approach machine who runs phone number volume style game. he's bold but lacks technicals, he tends to catcall. he met some fine shyts from north carolina and we went to their hotel at the end of the night, but something was off and his girl flaked on him. all good, fun night, i cant wait to dial in my game routine harder 1000000/10

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7/12/25: 45 minute two-man in Austin, TX

Field report: sweet night in Austin Texas. Brought a new friend out to 6th Street and ran volume in front of him. Holy crap the women are incredibly pretty and incredibly friendly.

I had multiple sets with women who were so drop dead gorgeous and taller than me. The first was this model-quality wavy hair girl about a foot taller than me standing by herself outside the club leaning on the railing. I ran my sweet verbals, complimented and teased how she was standing, her eyes were so warm to me, I gained rapid proximity in the first 30 seconds, hands on her waist and her face was so deliciously beautiful, but I didn't progress the kiss escalation, literally because she was too hot. I have never had an interaction that instantly warm with a girl of that quality - I was in disbelief, a girl like that would be cold as ice in LA. I ran my qualifiers. I think I broke the tension and I should've escalated faster. I teased her IOls and said she was manipulating me, which is something I often say as a tease, and she agreed. She said yes, I'm a manipulator. Low-key I believe her. IG-closed. Her friend appeared, she started walking, I could have followed her, but I ejected because I was suspicious of her intentions and I didn't want to leave my friend behind. But goddamn she was beautiful.

Another quick set with an insanely beautiful brown girl, UT Austin '26, so she must be 22. literally my exact type, in set with her and she was warm and receptive to my proximity and eye contact, again in literal disbelief that I could last longer than a minute in set with a girl that pretty. The first minute was warm, but she failed all my qualifiers, and she started almost acting fake nice to me, which is something I never see in LA. When people are fake nice it leaves a bad taste in my mouth, nobody in LA is fake nice, they'll just fall quiet or tell you to leave. So this lets me stay in set longer and gives me more chances to recover. But staying in set when she's fake nice can feel try-hard and cringe. I IG-closed and left the set.

My longest set of the night was a two man. I told bro that I wanted to challenge him to do a compliment hit and run, and I was like look I'll demonstrate, but the set hooked and we ended up in that set for like 30 minutes. He really liked his girl and I was into mine, but she was very normal-looking, closer to the girls I consider easy sets in LA. Long ass convo, me trying to elevate the vibe and escalate kino, stroking my girls back, getting close to her face but she averts her eyes, she brings up logical threads of conversation and I try to change the subject to silly goofy playful and then sexual things. Women out here talk a fuck ton. This girl talked my ear off and chose so many threads of conversation for us. Definitely made my game easier because I had more chances to recover. But also when she's in control of the vibe, she took it in weird directions that are hard for me to sexualize. IG-closed, made plans to link with her tomorrow. She's on vacation and leaves Monday. I seeded the pull for tomorrow and she agreed. The only fun thing I have in this apartment is my balcony so that's my pull excuse now. "Do you like balconies?" Lmao. She was into it. I used the Owen kiss close and she kissed me on the cheek, but she refused to kiss me on the lips. Interesting. Maybe in the future I should be more sexually aggressive to screen out the fake nice convos that end up leading me on. Or maybe I should just run more volume and find the warmest hottest sets and be pickier with my time.

Fire night. Connected with super hot girls, one of which was exactly my type. But people are fake nice out here or something, not in a LA way, but in a meek people pleaser kind of way. It feels like playing on easy mode, or maybe I'm getting led on. I have a potential date on Wednesday with the girl from yesterday's field report, maybe that will happen and I will learn more. In any case I really connected with the guy I brought out, he's super genuine. 100000/10