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I Killed the Girl Who Stayed

By Jay Catalyst

Every moment felt already like a broken promise. No matter how much I tried to question it, that smile of yours condemned me to believe in you again.

Your words—like incantations— took flight the moment those lips uttered them.

I was the instrument. And you were the musician. The keeper of the music, the storyteller, the one whose truth was sung— even when it was disguised as one.

These lips were once marked by yours— burned, charred by something I mistook for warmth. And now, when I trace them with the same hands that once reached for you, I hesitate.

Was it all a nightmare I finally woke from? Or did I truly survive it?

Did I really make it back to shore?

Because if I did… why does the tide still sound like your voice?

How do I live when I was taught to live for you?

How do I break a chain I once called devotion?

How do I silence a smile that still lingers like a ghost behind my better judgment?

I don’t want to be claimed again. I don’t want to forget what it cost me to leave.

But I’m afraid— afraid that one soft moment, one familiar look, will make my strength feel like a lie again.

These arms that once wrapped around me became the cage that slowly closed in. So gently… I questioned if I was the one going mad.

Piece by piece, I withered inside something I once called love until I could no longer recognize the sound of my own voice.

And when I finally saw it— really saw it— I knew something had to die.

Not you.

Me.

The version of me that stayed. The one who waited at empty wells with cupped hands and stubborn hope, believing one day water would return to something that had been dry for years.

She had to go.

Because in her place… something else needed to rise.

Something that knew how to break the cage. How to choose air over illusion. How to walk away without asking permission.

And when she did—

I heard it.

Not silence… but a scream.

Raw. Unfamiliar. Mine.

And now I stand here— on the shoreline of something new— unsure of what comes next.

Unsure if I am ready. Unsure if I am strong enough to survive what life asks of me next.

But I know this:

I will never beg an empty well to love me again.

I will never confuse control for care, or charm for truth.

And if that smile ever finds me again—

it will meet someone who no longer belongs to it.

Because that cage—

it didn’t just hold me.

It nearly erased me.

And now…

I am learning, slowly, how to bring myself back.

To believe in my own voice again. To trust my own hands again. To accept that I am worthy of something that does not hurt to hold.

I don’t know where this path leads. I don’t know what waits for me ahead.

But I do know this—

I am no longer hers to abandon.

And I am no longer yours to keep.

Dear World,

It feels strange writing this after being quiet for a while.

The last time I posted here was January 24th, 2026. Normally I’m here every week—sometimes two or three times a week—and there were even stretches where I posted every day. So disappearing like that isn’t something I take lightly.

I didn’t forget about you.

I see the messages, the likes, the shares, the comments. I see the support and the kindness people send my way, and I appreciate it more than I can properly explain.

The truth is that life has been… chaotic.

Without sharing more than I’m comfortable with publicly, I will say that I’ve been navigating a very difficult period in my life involving domestic violence and a lot of personal upheaval. It has taken a heavy toll on my mental health, and lately I’ve been struggling with severe depression and overwhelming stress.

As an artist, I’ve always believed we have two choices when chaos enters our lives: we let it consume us, or we transform it into something meaningful.

Most of my writing comes from lived experiences, lessons, and wounds that eventually become words. Right now I’m still in the middle of one of those storms, and the thing that normally brings me joy—writing—has been harder than usual because I’m trying to hold myself together.

But I will come back to it.

I always do.

I just need a little time to find my footing again and to heal through some of what’s happening in my life.

I wanted to share this because I know many of you come here for the same reason I do—to express things that are hard to say anywhere else. This space has always been about vulnerability, truth, and connection.

If you’re going through something heavy right now too, please know this:

When it feels the heaviest, sometimes it means you’re closer to the end of the storm than you realize.

You are not alone in your struggles. I promise that.

Even if I haven’t been posting as consistently as I used to, I am still here. I see you. I appreciate you. And I’m grateful that my work has connected with so many of you.

Thank you for your patience, your kindness, and your continued support.

I’ll be back soon.

With love, J.C.

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