Except Yoda and the Jedi didn't do any of that and you're just making shit up, which tracks with pretty much everything anti-jedis say about the Jedi.
Anakin quite literally only told Yoda that he was having NIGHTMARES- (aka bad dreams) about someone he loved being hurt, which again is something that is very likely to happen in the middle of a war---to be clear: NO ONE WAS HURT OR DYING at that point in time. Literally no one. It was a nightmare that turned into a self-fulfilling prophecy because Anakin literally strangled his wife and murdered a bunch of people, just to be clear on who you're trying to turn into a poor little meow meow here.
And Yoda wasn't "telling Anakin to suck it up," he WAS supporting him! He told him the truth: that everyone will die at some point, and it will cause him pain when that happens, but that there's no changing the fact that people die and so he should focus on enjoying them while they're here with him and celebrating their lives rather than spending all his time worrying about if/when they're going to die. It was in typical Yoda-speak, so it sounded all sagey and crap, but that's quite literally what he was telling Anakin.
I mean, what would you have rather had him say at that point? Did you want him to lie to Anakin? "Oh, don't worry Anakin! No one is gonna die ever and nothing will ever change!" -because that's what Palpatine did, except he tacked on a lovely- "everything will be fine if you kill a bunch of little kids" -on the end. Like seriously, they were in the middle of a fucking war, odds are people Anakin cared about would get injured or die, did you want Yoda to pretend that that wasn't something probable? Again, did you want him to lie?
And like I said before: everything Yoda said is quite literally taught in grief counseling. You're basically told that, yes, the death of a loved one hurts and it'll never fully go away, but that it's better to focus on the time you had with that loved one and the good stuff you did together rather than focusing on the fact that you didn't do xyz with them or that you didn't get enough time with them. Because that's unhealthy and it only makes you feel worse.
And you can go ahead and shut up about the- "I'm neurodivergent and so was Anakin, the Jedi were all neurotypical bigots who Don't Understand Us Neurodivergents" -because that's really just a bunch of crap.
I am also neurodivergent and have trouble with my emotions, and I think that 1. trying to paint Anakin as the Singular Neurodivergent Jedi is a bad thing and 2. the Jedi Order is absolutely NOT built around neurotypicals, are you fucking serious, have you ever actually watched the shows or movies?
On the first point: as someone who's neurodivergent, I don't think our one point of "representation" in SW should be the genocidal baby murderer who is repeatedly racist, misogynistic, and a literal fascist who strangled his wife the moment she didn't agree with him, went along with/assisted in several genocides, and assisted the Empire in enslaving several other races. Call me crazy, but I'd rather that guy not be singled out as "the only neurodivergent jedi ever because the jedi are all Evil Neurotypicals," thanks.
Secondly: I'm convinced you either never really paid attention to the shit you were watching or you haven't watched the Prequels or TCW in a while because exactly WHAT is giving you the impression that the Jedi are neurotypical? Please tell me.
Their culture is in complete opposition to literally everything neurotypical and heteronormative about our society: the Jedi don't have any pressure to get married or have children, the Jedi don't pressure anyone to be physically affectionate with each other (although there are moments of physical affection that we see from them and there's a lot of verbal affection), the Jedi's relationships with each other don't fit into the typical heteronormative family structure, the Jedi place value on constantly learning new things and changing whenever you need/want (no need to stay stagnant);
The Jedi aren't separated from each other as they all live together in a community of friends and teachers, the Jedi quite literally a job for every specialization (hyperfixations, you can literally be a jedi and specialize in your hyperfixation), the Jedi don't have to wear the same thing 24/7 but you also can wear the same thing 24/7 (no need to worry about wearing "the right outfit") + all their outfits are made to be comfortable and easy to move around in, everyone contributes something and everyone takes care of everyone, there's no pressure to be overly emotional or expressive either (although you can be, if you want to), and the Jedi's teachings are quite literally based around DBT---Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, which is meant to help people with mental illnesses, specifically people with BPD!
So this whole- "oh they're Evil and Neurotypical and Oppressing Us Neurodivergents with their terrible Buddhist teachings" -is complete crap, you are just pulling this stuff out of your ass.
The Jedi do have empathy and do succeed in supporting each other, we're literally shown evidence of that EVERYWHERE in the movies and shows---quite literally the first episode of TCW is Yoda protecting his squad of clone troopers, showing them empathy, and telling them that there's more to them than just their appearances, and the episodes after that literally have Plo Koon showing empathy to his troops and telling them that they're not expendable to him, and there's so much more evidence that I could add JUST IN THAT ONE SHOW!
Anakin is the outlier here because he wouldn't accept help, and you can't help someone if they won't help themselves. Obi-Wan, Ahsoka, Yoda, Luminara, Plo, Mace, Padme, EVERYONE gave Anakin every chance to change and do better and open up to them so they could give him more than just vague advice---but Anakin refused to change, refused to tell anyone anything, and refused to accept the help that was given.
And THAT is the point of the Prequels: that Anakin was selfish and refused help from everyone, which ultimately led him to Palpatine, the Empire, and the Dark Side.
He did that, no one else.
So why don't you stop making shit up to try and absolve Anakin of any responsibility for his actions.
If you like Anakin, go ahead and like him. If you think he's great neurodivergent representation, that's your opinion on that and no one can tell you otherwise. If you don't like the Jedi, okay that's fine.
But what we're not gonna do, especially on my page, is pretend that Anakin never did anything wrong and the choices he made were all the Jedi's fault. They weren't.
Anakin had options, many options, and he chose to do the terrible shit he did---and that is no one else's fault but HIS.
