JoMaSays

📸Photography, 💭Thoughts and some NSFW so 18+ only 31/F/🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿/ Neurodivergent

[softgritspoonie]

[jomasays]

And the worst part is, this is mostly from the Medical community! The amount of times ive been told that I shouldn’t be taking as much pain relief as I do..

WELL THEN HOW DO YOU PROPOSE I GET THROUGH MY DAYS, KAREN?!

I dont want to be on opioids the rest of my life, I dont enjoy the way they make me feel, but they do bring my pain to a tolerable level where im not curled up in bed, crying. I can get through my work day at least.

So until you have another bright idea for pain management, stop treating me like a junkie.

[somesillywriter]

being so angry at your body, for its cold betrayal, but being so, so tired, and your limbs are so heavy, and your body fucking hurts, and you want to scream into the sun, but you can barely even move your body enough to function at maybe 60% on a good day.

[v3rsi]

just a kind reminder to please be kind to the people you know with gastrointestinal disorders/conditions! they're embarassing, often very painful - sometimes debilitating - and very hard to talk about without oversharing a lot more than most are comfortable with.

if someone you know:

- spends a lot/long time in the restroom

- has a colostomy bag

- requires diapers or similar implements

- experiences a lot of gas and/or bloating

- requires tube feeding or other alternative methods of nutrition

- has food restrictions (e.g. cannot handle a lot of spices, certain proteins, etc.)

- eats a lot, or only a little

or other similar factors of their life...

please be patient and understanding, it's hard having guts that really like disagreeing with you!

[emptymasks]

Another set of stickers and badges are done! This is another set promised during the donothon back in spring. These are for one of my favourite films, Vampire Hunter D: Bloodlust! It's so beautifully designed and animated.

Characters available: Bengé, Carmilla, Caroline, Charloette Elbourne, D, Leila Marcus, Mashira, and Meier Link.

I can’t link to my Etsy without risking Tumblr hiding the post from tag search results, but the link is in my pinned post, my carrd, I’m emptymasks on Etsy. Reblogs help support artists more than likes ❤️

[ID: Individual pixel art chibi drawings of 8 characters from various European musicals (listed above) that are available as stickers. These drawings are also available as badges where they are placed inside circles to show what they will look like as physical button badges, some of them with plain colour backgrounds and some with 1-3 different pride flags as examples of how you can customise the backgrounds.]

[alexwilltellyouthings]

Hi queer fans of queer stuff! How are we feeling with today's TV industry? How about really bloody angry?

Look, the recent cancelation of Dead Boy Detectives is obviously personal for its fandom, but it's also one more nail in the coffin and I think we have to start doing something about it together.

I went through this with Sense8. With Our Flag Means Death. With smaller but also amazing shows like The Bastard Son and the Devil Himself. Not to mention when it's not cancelled yet but it's boycotted with seasons cut in half or zero marketing. *I am tired*.

If you are too, I ask you to join the campaign. This is specifically about increasing views and attention, not because Netflix is necessarily going to change their minds (we know that's unlikely), but because we want to prove that we exist as a group.

So even if you don't feel like actually watching right now, we ask you to give it a stream if you have a Netflix account, with headphones connected or low volume. If you don't have a Netflix account, and honestly good for you, you can help by boosting us in social media.

I do recommend Dead Boy Detectives for real, it's REALLY good, but this is more about joining forces. They want numbers, so we give them numbers in the most petty way: after they cancelled so that other networks will get interested. At the very least, the crew and creators might get some royalties and they deserve it after busting their asses for years to give us this season.

TL;DR: stream dead boy detectives as a community to shove it in their faces

[jomasays]

Abso-fucking-lutely.

I am not making excuses.

I am trying to make my thought process known, because I gurantee it is different to yours, but that doesnt make it wrong, or make me evil, just different.

[nerodivergentgrimreaper]

ERIKKKKKK DROP A SICK COMFORT AUDIO WITH MILO AND MY LIFE IS YOURS

[emptymasks]

Another set of stickers and badges are done! I had to restrain myself from drawing every Vocaloid, but hopefully at least some of your favourites are here (as well as a few Utauloids and Fanloids). Making these again was a reward from my Twitch donothon from the spring, slowly making my way through those rewards.

Characters available: AVANNA, BIG AL, CUL, DAINA, Defoko / Uta Utane, DEX, flower, Camui Gackpo / Gackpoid, Galaco, GUMI / Megpoid, Yowane Haku, MEIKA Hime, IA, Nekomaru Iroha, KAITO, Hiyama Kiyoteru, Aoki Lapis, Kagamine Len, Lily, Megurine Luka, MAYU, MEIKO, Merli, SF-A2 miki, MEIKA Mikoto, Hatsune Miku, Macne Nana, AKita Neru, OLIVER, Utatane Piko, Prima, Kagamine Rin, Tone Rion, SeeU, SONiKA, Kasane Teto, Luo Tianyi, Tonio, Otomachi Una, VY1, VY2, YOHIOloid, Yuzuki Yukari, Kaai Yuki.

I can’t link to my Etsy without risking Tumblr hiding the post from tag search results, but the link is in my pinned post, my carrd, I’m emptymasks on Etsy. Reblogs help support artists more than likes ❤️

[ID: Individual pixel art chibi drawings of 44 characters from various European musicals (listed above) that are available as stickers. These drawings are also available as badges where they are placed inside circles to show what they will look like as physical button badges, some of them with plain colour backgrounds and some with 1-3 different pride flags as examples of how you can customise the backgrounds.]

[spooniestrong]

📷: neurowild

[fibro-memes]

[jomasays]

My bones constantly itch, and burn.

The cold hurts my hands.

The heat makes my head feel like its going to explode.

My body often feels bruised without showing bruises.

Fibro. Fucking. Hurts.

[free-my-mindd]

[naamahdarling]

YES.

Strive to learn this, it is an INCREDIBLE skill to have.

If people want to be weird and shitty...you don't have to fix that or bridge that gap or take that negativity into yourself. You can learn to just go "Wow they're acting strangely and negatively, this is very much about them and not me. I'm not going to invest in this any further. The way they are behaving towards me is not consistent with wanting a mutual resolution, this will not make a home in me," or "They're being really passive aggressive and nasty, but I'm not playing their guessing games, I'm going to respond only if they say something out loud, like an adult; I asked if they were all right, they said they were fine, I will take them at their word, and not respond to the snide tone they used," or "This person's nasty personal attacks or negative political remarks are unfounded and unkind. Their feelings are real but I am not responsible for them and I'm not going to accept their thoughts and opinions about me/this issue as valid. I don't even need to respond."

You can improve your life by refusing to respond to subtext in a way that satisfies them.

[jomasays]

THIS. If you choose not to communicate with me, that’s on you.

[fibro-memes]

[fibro-memes]

[emptymasks]

After years of saying I will make cute lil chibi European musical stickers I have finally done it! Forgive me for drawing more Der Tod's than any other character, I'm biased towards him. Hopefully I covered most of everyone's favourite Euro musicals.

They're spread across 2 listings because Etsy only lets you have a max of 70 options in the drop down. Volume 1 has German and Dutch musicals and volume 2 has French and Russian musicals.

All the musicals here: 3 Musketiers / 3 Musketiere, The Count of Monte Cristo / Der Graf von Monte Cristo, Der Besuch der Alten Dame, Elisabeth das Musical, Demon Onegin, The Last Trial, Ludwig2, Master and Margarita, Mozart das Musical, Mozart l'Opéra Rock, Notre Dame de Paris, Rebecca das Musical, Roméo et Juliette, Rudolf Affaire Mayerling, Schikaneder, Tanz der Vampire, Vivaldi.

I can’t link to my Etsy without risking Tumblr hiding the post from tag search results, but the link is in my pinned post, my carrd, I’m emptymasks on Etsy. Reblogs help support artists more than likes ❤️

[ID: Individual pixel art chibi drawings of 70 characters from various European musicals (listed above) that are available as stickers. These drawings are also available as badges where they are placed inside circles to show what they will look like as physical button badges, some of them with plain colour backgrounds and some with 1-3 different pride flags as examples of how you can customise the backgrounds.]

[ash-rigby]

"incubi are male and succubi are female"

you're weak. you're WEAK

[sufferingandasense]

[chronicillnesshumor-deactivated]

[disabled-bug]

I’m so proud of people living with chronic health conditions. That shit is HARD. Idk who needs to hear this, but if no one else has said it: I’m proud of you. You’re sticking it out through so much pain and grief. That’s no small feat.

Every small thing you do for yourself health adds up. The grief is heavy and it comes from a place of love. The grief knows the pain is wronging you.

I’m proud of you. I hope on the good days you can be proud of yourself.

Keep going.