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The Murderbot Diaries are a power fantasy about being aromantic and still developing extremely important dedicated emotionally intimate partnerships where you are a top priority in a person's life, equal to their other family or romantic attachments despite your own emotional difficulties. And having guns in your arms

littlemissminu

hmm i will maybe touch you but i am not committed

littlemissminu

Full Metal Touch You Bitch

caspercryptid

I feel like not enough people realize that people under enormous strain act really really fucking Weird

caspercryptid

If someone is doing things that don't make Sense, try to understand that it is entirely possible that their brain is probably under an enormous weight and fracturing under the pressure. People who have been stabbed will sometimes talk a circle around the fact that they've been stabbed because stress and shock prevent you from recognizing the distress you are in and what you need to do to seek help for it. PTSD will do this also. You will find yourself repeatedly jamming a bag of frozen fruit into the same spot in the freezer where it doesn't fit and keeps falling, over and over and over, focused on nothing but that bag. You will decide that a beanbag chair is 10000% necessary to your life. You will lose your entire shit because you stubbed your toe on a table and that means the whole setup of your furniture is wrong. These are largely harmless examples. People under strain will also hurt themselves and others. Cornered animals bite. And it doesn't heal the bite to go "Hey, are you okay?" But it might get you to an animal that stops biting, so you can start to heal. And before you had an animal that bit, you probably had an animal that kept doing shit you didn't understand as stress signals

birdwarde

Pigeons! Some of our oldest friends 💚

rederiswrites

Just watched Adam Conover (of Adam Ruins Everything) make such a solid point that I think we should spread far and wide. Yes, having AI write your emails is lazy, sure, but people love being lazy. We need to really emphasize that sending AI emails (or using AI responses on social media, or publishing AI flyers, or or or) is rude.

It's rude. You're making someone take their time to read something you couldn't bother to write. You're telling them they were so unimportant you couldn't be bothered to actually take the time to say something yourself. And frankly, you're lying about it while you're at it.

It's rude.

rolameny

the belief i have in my ability to carry any amount of stuff home if i am equipped with my backpack and two reusable totes is hubristic to a degree that the achaeans fighting at troy could only have dreamed of

decompose1

neovaginas can get wet naturally

a neophallus can get erect with an implant (this will either be a bendable rod or a device that inflates with saline at the press of a button, usually in the testicles)

both can feel sexual pleasure and experience orgasm

most neovaginas will be able to tolerate larger insertions with enough dilating/training

the nerves in neophalluses take a while to regrow but it is incredibly rare to experience no sexual nerve growth

both can look and feel "normal" if that's what you want, just take good care of your scars and look at your surgeons' results portfolio (and don't be afraid to be picky! its your genitals, you get to decide!)

in fact it's possible for many people to stealth and for their sexual partners to never know. even for phallo, some people with natal penises have erectile implants too, ED is common. neocaginas are often indistinguishable from natal vaginas

many surgeons are starting to offer preservation options for patients who want a more mixed look/don't want to lose what they have

YOU HAVE OPTIONS! demystify bottom surgery

deerbrain

you can also have nothing, if you want!! nullification is starting to become available alongside vaginoplasty and phalloplasty

you can have nothing and retain sexual function, even! it's called nerve-preserving nullification. similarly to other bottom surgeries, they use the most sensitive tissue (glans/clit) to create a subdermal pseudoclitoris

yes you can pee like normal. urethral reroute leaves a small hole at the perineum (taint)

all the advice about scars from OP applies here too!! take care of yourself well and it can heal well

(also, for people interested in the "mixed look" OP mentioned: the magic words are "penile-preserving vaginoplasty"/"phalloplasty without vaginectomy"!!)

her-aurora-doll

As someone who has had nullification done, my inbox is always open.

jaubaius

🔥 A giant curious moose inspecting a wildlife photographer 🔥

mornington-the-crescent

Never forget: Moose are legit Ice Age megafauna that never died out.

dr-falcon-fox-and-coyote

He just….just….pet the wild moose…the bravery, the hutzpah

thegreenmeridian

The forbidden snoot!

vaspider

If I could pet a moose

I would be very happy

freekbugg

headspace-hotel

Normally I would say you shouldn’t pet a wild animal, but the moose is already right there. If you’re that close to a moose’s snout you might as well pet it. If the moose wants to kill you, you’re going to die, so you might as well.

northern-moose-deactivated20221

@paran0rmaltexas

go-drink-the-kool-aid-deactivat

A giant moose, OP says when that is just a normal size moose

genderkoolaid

maybe this is controversial but you don't need to correct other trans people who describe themself as a "transwoman" or "transman" as one word, anymore than you need to "correct" someone for calling themself a transsexual or FTM/MTF just because those terms are now often considered "outdated," or describing themself as a male woman or a female man.

the lack of a space IS often a red flag for TERFs (and now TRFs too as apparently some people are using "transman" while referring to trans women with a space). you should side eye it's use. but at the same time, many trans people have been using the no-space versions for years. many trans people DON'T think of their gender as "equivalent to cis wo/men but with a trans modifier" and prefer the no-space version to signify that their wo/manhood is fundamentally trans. & a lot of times context or a little bit of research into the person can tell you whether it's likely a dogwhistle or a trans person applying the term to themself because it's their preferred language.

if you KNOW someone is trans and is describing their own gender, you don't need to "correct" how they express their gender because it makes you uncomfortable. it makes sense to say "hey btw this isn't a term that should be applied to the community as a whole!" if they seem unaware of how the community often feels about these terms and use them very broadly. but ultimately if someone calls themself a transwoman or a transman that's actually none of your business. trans people do not need to describe their gender in ways that are objectively (or grammatically) "correct" or most politically expedient. & unsurprisingly trans gender policing always ends up being a tool of exorsexism to ostracize trans people who have very little interest in being seen as or describing themselves as similar in gender to cis people.

beardedmrbean

kabber

localcryptic

taking antidepressants and listening to nine inch nails so the effects cancel out and my libido comes out perfectly normal

hortensius-deactivated20240909

the novelty of having pets really does never wear off i’ve had my cat for ten years and i still look at him strolling around like can you believe this. a cat. is everyone seeing this. he’s alive he has bones and all. unbelievable

mollymerula

we need to normalize a tradition where nonpartnering aros are like "hey, i'm officially never getting married, please come to this party and give me whatever kitchenware you would have bought me for a wedding"