I am so sick and tired of seeing the trans women around me being slowly hot coaled into the closet and into essentially being forced back into "Men who would really love being women but Can't because they Aren't". It is so painful stop fucking doing this to our trans women. Stop forcing them to be "Fine" with being called dude bro man he and biologically male stop it stop it stop it you are killing her. You are killing her.
Re-adding this bc some editing fuckery broke the post. Anyway. This is the most crucial addition imo please reblog this version
Every irl trans meetup I see at least one insecure transfem person whose name is "I dunno" and whose pronouns are "um, whichever you think are fine"
Which I assertively interpret as she/her because to be clear that's the most important pronoun to tell her that she can have.












