Big Handsome Man

Im a straight early 30s ssbhm looking to find community, acceptance, and share some of my experiences. Looking to connect with FFAs as well, feel free to DM, ask questions. Minors DNI. Stats: 6ft/600lbs+/independent https://throne.com/kinkyssbhm

[kinkyssbhm]

Hey Everyone, I’m interrupting the fun as it has been brought to my attention that someone is using my pics to catfish others on Grommr. I am not on Grommr. I have included the screenshots provided to me. If you use the app please report the account “Thefattestfur”.

Also I didn’t think this needed to be said but please do not screenshot, repost, or redistribute my pictures/videos/posts in any way. Reblogs and comments are ok.

I also wanted to thank the Tumblr user who brought this to my attention. I appreciate you reaching out and reporting.

Happy Tuesday, now back to our regular scheduled programming.

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[kinkyssbhm]

Unless the pain, problems, and stress keep you awake….please sleep come back to me let’s be in love again 😩

[kinkyssbhm]

Come and lay your head on my soft belly

Let me hold you, we can be tired together

How long have you been strong with no one to hold you?

[kinkyssbhm]

never gets old playing with my belly, just how soft and wavey it is…guess they weren’t lying about motion in the ocean 😎

[thefatzone-deactivated20180426]

The advantages of having a fat boyfriend:

1. His fat face is the cutest and is extremely kissable, so you should take advantage of that. 2. His belly is the perfect resting pillow for your head, and I believe it evolved exactly for that purpose. 3. If he was a fatty throughout his teen years than he most likely had to develop a nice personality because he wasn’t “popular”. 4. With all the hours that he doesn’t spend trying to look thin he probably has so many hidden talents that would blow your mind. 5. If he is nerd than you are one lucky son of a bitch. 6. His chubby body is a cuddler’s heaven… and as we all know, fatties do it better. 7. Moobs … need I say more? 8. He probably has a great sense of humour about himself and his body, especially if he was a gainer. 9. Easy to handle:          i. You wanna reward him => food       ii. You wanna make up with him => food      iii. You wanna apologize to him => food        iv. You wanna show him that you love him => food 10. He probably emits a lot of heat, so in the winter his body is like a customized heated squishy sexy pillow that will keep you warm. 11. If you never got over your childhood, your boyfriend’s body can serve as a human sized soft teddy bear that can actually talk, if he’s hairy it’s a plus.   12. If you’re a handsy person, your boyfriend will provide you with a various assortment of places that you can fondle, with different thickness, softness and levels of accessibility. 13. He would never ask you to lose weight or join a gym, but you should do it anyway if he was into that. 14. He is easier to find in a crowd. 15. He is almost impossible to kidnap. 16. He can’t run very far from you… but let’s hope it never comes down to that.

[kinkyssbhm]

Im not biased at all but these are all great factual points.

[vexheart]

The fine line between wanting to say so much and knowing that it's better to say nothing.

[mpotato]

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[kinkyssbhm]

This popped up on my fyp on a day that I found some old videos and have really been missing my boy. I’ll take it as him sending me a sign he’s still around. Miss ya buddy 🫶

[with-practice]

Cooking for someone as a form of intimacy.

[kinkyssbhm]

My favourite way to practice feedism 😍

[dogpuppy]

[funnier-as-a-feedist]

Posts that are funnier as a feedist

[kinkyssbhm]

Chocolate chip cookies are my weakness but an hour is too long. Give me a glass of milk and they’re gone in 45 min. A little encouragement goes a long way though, might get it under 30 minutes…could make a game of it.

[kinkyssbhm]

What are your favorite books, if there are any and why?

To be honest I’m not a big reader, I prefer movies or podcasts. When I do read it’s usually Business, self improvement or Athlete Biographies, I enjoy the real stories from the sport.

But if I had to pick a favourite from what I’ve read, probably The Alchemist.

At first I remember thinking…he went through all that just to end up where he started…what was the point?

Then it clicked, I realized that was the point.

Sometimes the journey matters more than the destination. The experiences along the way change you, they give meaning to where you end up. Otherwise its just a finish line.

That perspective stuck with me more than I expected.

[8nin]

Buy her books.

Read them to her.

Eat her pussy.

Fuck her.

Adore her.

[kinkyssbhm]

This sounds like a fun time. Foreplay can be browsing the bookstore while whispering sweet nothings to her. But she’ll have to agree to do the reading… my mouth will be a little preoccupied ;)

[eyegifs]

Grilled cheese for anon <3 (1 • 2 • 3 • 4 • 5 • 6)

[kinkyssbhm]

The way my mouth is literally watering right now. I can’t decide which one I like best so I have to eat them all right? 😋 And the links to the recipes attached…brb going to the store 🏎️ 💨

[peachy-ffa]

Sometimes I just wanna take a step back and not focus on the chase of constant gains, I want to admire fatness as it is, no matter how much there is of it.

I desire to show them just how much I love the softness that covers their body. I wish to demonstrate them just how beautiful I think their round belly is, how I adore that it sticks out compared to mine and just how pliable and delightful it is to sink one of my hands on it and be able to grab rich doughiness rather than feeling firm muscle.

I need to tell them how exquisite their plump arms are, how wonderful they look when they stretch and fill nicely the sleeves of their shirts and sweaters, such a lovely sight seeing them jiggle with any simple task, and even more lovable when I get to give them a gentle squeeze.

Their thighs so luscious and enticing, looking almost hipnotizing when they sit down and they spread out, how much I adore that they seem to constantly rub against each other when they walk, a very adorable sight that only serves to make my poor heart swoon.

I yearn to express to them just how much beauty there is in their fatness, it's charm both undeniable and irresistible to me, almost bewitching and so alluring. It compels me to adore and cherish every single inch of their heavier body and I would do it in a heartbeat without any hesitation, because such sweetness deserves that and so much more, with my passion overflowing in every sense towards this kind of heaviness, it's not a sacrifice to express my fondness, it's a need for me to give this reassurance and appreciation 💖

[kinkyssbhm]

Yes more of this please. 🥰🫶

[kinkyssbhm]

Reflections of a SSBHM: One year later

Today marks one year since I started my blog and made my first post. I wrote about what it means to take up space in a world that doesn’t always know where to put you. Since then I’ve met a lot of great people and made connections I’m genuinely grateful for.

A year later, some things haven’t changed.

I still live in a big body.

I still feel the quiet moments more deeply than most.

I still want to be chosen, openly and without hesitation.

But this past year has also taught me:

I am not invisible.

I am not too much.

I am not waiting to be worthy.

It has brought conversations, friendships, laughter, and people who saw me in ways I didn’t expect. It has brought new confidence to be me.

And while loneliness still visits sometimes… it no longer defines the room.

It doesn’t hit the same way anymore. Now I know there are people out there who see me, who value depth over surface, and warmth over perfection. And:

I’m still hopeful.

Still open.

Still looking for the right person.

Until then, I keep living, loving, and taking up the space I was meant to.

I’m proud of the man I’ve continued to become this past year, and excited to see how I’ll surprise myself this year.

In case you were wondering this is my first post.

Tumblr is a place to express yourself, discover yourself, and bond over the stuff you love. It's where your interests connect you with your

[kinkyssbhm]

I would love to get to know you, if you're open to it 😊

Sure, shoot me a DM, always nice meeting new people. :)

[kinkyssbhm]

Valentine’s pre-game energy…the rest is classified 😏

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[kinkyssbhm]

Just finished a plate of cookies…somehow still hungry for more 😏