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A big part of the reason I don't want kids is simply that I don't think I would be a good parent. I'm short-tempered and can be vicious when I'm angry. I hate loud noises, repetitive noises, sticky sensations, and being touched when I'm not expecting it. I like getting drunk and high. I like doing things quickly and efficiently. I always have to be at least 15 minutes early to everything. I have horrible sleep as it is, and that's living alone and having a big comfy bed all to myself and never having to get up in the night unless I need to pee. I love being alone and doing things by myself.
Other people have always rushed to console me when I say this -- "you can learn to get good at it! I was the same way before I had kids!" But like. I don't want to change. I like my life and I like doing things the way I want to do them. In many ways I'm a lot like the woman who raised me, who I can best describe through the anecdote that she didn't let us have balloons on our birthdays because there was a chance they could pop and make a loud noise that would hurt her ears. I love her and I always will, but there was a lot of warmth and comfort I needed that she just wasn't able to give me and I know I would probably be the same way. It wasn't her choice to have to raise me. I get to make a choice that she didn't.
Women in particular are shamed for possessing the qualities I've listed above. It's seen as morally wrong for women to not be intrinsically nurturing, endlessly self-sacrificing, interminably patient. I get that we will be shamed a lot for admitting that we aren't. But I hope that those of us who lack those qualities can just accept that, because it's a terrible thing to bring an unwitting child into the world just to prove to the haters that you're not a cold mean b*tch.
people say it "reduces women to biology" by defining a woman as an adult human female. but that argument only works if you already think being female is a something reductive.
it's not. there's nothing reductive or shameful about having a uterus, ovaries, a vagina. it's just a body.
saying "woman means adult human female" isn't reducing anyone. it's not an insult.
the people getting mad about that definition are the ones adding the shame to it. we're not the ones treating "female" like a slur.
they think they understand the difference between gender and sex, but they prove themselves wrong every time when it comes to this argument because you can tell the actual reason they think femaleness is reductive is because they believe acknowledging femaleness forces women to think of themselves as a current or future birther and nothing else. thinking that you have to become a mother is a gender role if anything has ever been, but they have internalized that message so deeply that they would rather deny the whole existence of femaleness than challenge the gender role itself.
what's also funny is that they will continue with "well I am so much more than just my sex", but then fail to explain in detail why and how this "so much more" separates them from men. like if our sexes don't matter, do you actually mean to tell me that all the billions of women on this planet have personalities that are, in their entirety, different from those of men? different enough that we can actually, meaningfully, categorize people into two clean-cut groups just based on that? because that's what you just said. if your womanhood is so much more than just your sex, that "so much more" has to be different from all that "so much more" than makes men men, or why else does the differentiation need to be made in the first place?
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It's 2026 this needs to be stopped
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"Female socialization" and "sex based oppression" are just a cover for privileged women to act like they are in the same situation as women in places like Afghanistan, despite their race, wealth, ethnicity and the laws of their state.
"FGM is happening to females!"
You are a female so did it happen to you? No, it is actually banned in your country and you share zero of the violence those girls who actually suffered.
Did you actually get socialized like that? No, you were never forced to cover your head. Your family supported your education.
Many of the sex based events and oppression you describe change through time, place, race, culture, laws, wealth... and other socioeconomic metrics.
Typical man who is unaware that fgm and being forced to wear hijab happens here in the u.s.
men LOVE telling women that they should just be grateful that they aren't treated even worse. "just be glad that i let you vote! just be glad i didn't punch you too!"
like fucking stop pretending it's a PRIVILEGE that a handful of women in the west aren't treated like absolute dogs in their day-to-day lives, or that at least some of their very basic human rights are respected to an extent. stop fucking pretending that we don't have anything in common with mistreated women. and stop fucking pretending that you even know what's actually happening in our lives.
if an individual woman has not experienced female genital mutilation in her life, she still knows it happens to other women and girls solely because of their sex. it is a mere COINCIDENCE that it's not her. and as long as such practices exist somewhere else, she is not free. she is more than entitled to talk about it, to scream about it as long as she thinks is necessary.
you do not fucking get to silence her.
You know what's funny? He knows he's wrong. They all know they're full of shit. They know. Always have, always will. Can't expect a man calling himself an adult human female to own the terves on a blog with "yuri" on the username to be reasonable, though. This is a men's rights movement indeed. "Western women don't need feminism because they're not oppressed like the women in Afghanistan!" is the type of bullshit I grew up hearing conservative males spew. The sentiment here is the same even if the wording is different. I've seen your posts about transmascs and NBs. Haha, I wonder what that was about!
"Did you actually get socialized like that? No, you were never forced to cover your head. Your family supported your education."
Does that change your reality in any way? Does that make us alike, though?
How exhausting it must be to constantly try to come up with excuses to validate what you know in your bones is a lie. You know women and girls are socialized differently, but that truth is too painful for you to accept because it further highlights all the ways in which you are different from us, so you spend your time being obnoxious online. You'd rather build an argument around a lie to protect your feelings than reckon with the truth. I'd feel sorry for you, but seeing how your entire movement is more than happy to silence women, the only thing I can spare you is contempt.
I'm very fortunate that my mother supported my education, but this only happened because she was denied one herself. And so was her mother, and her grandmother, and her great-grandmother, and so on and on and on. Underage girls are still being forced into marrying strangers. I'm exactly one generation removed from having to go through that myself. Marital rape wasn't recognized as a crime until fairly recently. Yet even with all that privilege I was still made to endure things boys my age weren't. I still move in this world with a caution no male will ever truly understand. I still experience things you can't possibly fathom. All women do. And you know this, or else you wouldn't be here trying throwing a tantrum about how you are indeed just like us, when we all know you're not.
I'm far past the point of politely asking men like this one to please understand that they don't have to erase our experiences and silence our voices in order to live life however they want to, we can all co-exist as long as you give up the delusion that there's no difference between us and respect our spaces. I don't know that I want to reason with entitled men such as this one anymore, or any man for that matter.
"Many of the sex based events and oppression you describe change through time, place, race, culture, laws, wealth... and other socioeconomic metrics."
And yet misogyny prevails. Rich white women living in developed countries still face misogyny. They faced misogyny a thousand years ago. They face misogyny even when the law criminalizes it. Having privilege in one axis doesn't mean you don't face any misogyny. Hell, Taylor fucking Swift was groped by a DJ, had Kanye West show a wax figure of her naked body in a music video, had hundreds of pornographic AI-made deepfakes of her spread online, and she's as privileged as it comes -- billionaire, white, blonde, blue eyed, american, famous.
Women across the world have so, so much in common. Talking to women from different backgrounds, from different continents, from different races has made me realize we have a lot in common. Coming together and discussing just how alike we truly are poses a risk to men, though, because we're much stronger united and organized. Men know this, because of course they do.
Women are all keenly aware that we're one tragedy away from being stripped of our rights. Every time a natural disaster happens, men rush to abuse women and use the chaos as a cover up. Soldiers rape civilian women during times of war.
This is probably the harshest post I've made thus far. I've been perfectly polite for a long time, but after getting almost two hundred death and rape threats in the last week alone I don't think kindness will accomplish much.
I can't imagine being a woman who grows up to actually want to have children. What a weird desire to have