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some advice on what makes a rest day feel like an actual rest day to me (for those of you struggling with stress or burnout):
1. it’s hard, but i limit my phone time to things i actually want to do. i hate instagram reels, so i don’t open instagram. i like tumblr, so i scroll to the end of my feed. i watch a youtube video or two. but i keep things light and try to snap myself out of doom scrolling when i can
2. i indulge in hobbies instead of social media. even just an hour or two out of my day reading or painting or writing or playing instruments instead of scrolling on my phone makes me feel more present and stretches the day out longer
3. i do only small things to prepare myself for the non-rest days ahead. for example, tomorrow i’m going to be going to work very early, so i’m going to lay out my uniform and make my bed so it’s ready for me when i go to bed very early tonight. i’m also going to do laundry and pack a lunch, because i’m in class all day the day after and i know i won’t have the energy to do it after work tomorrow.
4. i try to spend ~20 minutes just being bored. i find a nice place to look at with no other stimulation if i can manage it and just set a timer for 20 minutes zoning out. it helps me feel more present.
5, i turn my phone on dnd and only talk to people when i want to. if you can, isolating yourself for a bit is totally ok and can help you decompress.
6. i make sure my space that i’m resting in is truly restful. for me, this means making sure that it’s quiet, there’s natural light and white noise, it smells good and it’s relatively uncluttered. this really helps my anxiety and stress to have a room that feels good to decompress in.
anyways this is what has helped me a lot with stress from school and work and anxiety!
Social Skills for Cluster B, Autism, Anxiety, Selective Mutism, and anyone who needs them!
If these don't work for you- don't worry! The fact that you're trying matters most.
-Don’t insult people, even jokingly
-Compliment things they have complete control over—> rad/cool/awesome/ shoes, clothing, hair, jewelry, kindness
-Always assume the best out of people; everyone experienced today differently
-Reread and reconfirm the rules of any space/community you enter and do not break any rules
-Do small favours
-Smile at people (mouth closed) if in US, Canada, UK, Australia, or New Zealand
-Always say ‘hello’ and ‘how are you’ before asking questions, favours, work-related concerns
-Think about your present (80%) more than you dwell on your past (10%) and plan for your future (10%)
-Always say ‘please’ and ‘thank you’
-Turn jealousy into admiration and self-improvement—> if you are jealous of an employed friend..find something that works for you! Volunteer, work online, start a small business
-Eye contact for 4 seconds, away for 1 second and repeat
-Remember that the validation of others will never matter as much as your own self-validation
-Do not beat yourself up for not being perfect, it’s everyone’s first time living and we all struggle!
I forgot to upload this here, haha. Just a gravity falls doodle :)
You were standing in front of the mirror when Enjin wandered into the room, towel slung around his shoulders. At first he wasn’t really paying attention. Just talking about something stupid that happened during a mission.
Then his voice stopped. So did your heart. You weren’t at the point in your relationship to see each other naked. So… you immediately crossed your arms over your stomach.
“Don’t.”
“Don’t what?”
“Look.”
That only made him look harder. Your face heated. The pale stretch marks along your hips and stomach suddenly felt ten times more obvious under his stare.
For a second Enjin said nothing and that made it worse.
You were already preparing yourself for awkward reassurance when he suddenly barked out a laugh.
“Damn,” he whistled. “Didn’t know I was dating a fuckin’ tiger.”
“What?”
He pointed dramatically at your side. “Look at these battle scars.”
“Those are stretchmarks.”
“Exactly.” he stepped closer, squinting at them like he was examining something fascinating. Then, because he was Enjin, he growled, “Rawr.”
You stared. He shrugged smiling. The silence lasted all of three seconds before you smacked his shoulder.
“You’re an idiot.”
“Yea, but I’m your idiot.”
Before you could roll your eyes again Enjin dropped to one knee.
“Enjin—”
He ignored you completely. Instead he pressed a gentle kiss against one of the marks on your hip. Then another and another and another. He couldn’t understand why you were trying to hide something he thought was beautiful. You felt your throat tighten.
“They’re ugly,” you whispered.
His head snapped up immediately. “Who told you that?”
“No one.”
“Bullshit.” Enjin sighed and rested his forehead against your side. “Baby, I spend every day surrounded by garbage.”
That got your attention. He tapped one of the stretch marks and then needed to kiss it again.
“This ain’t garbage.” another kiss. “This either.” he wrapped his arms around your waist then and squeezed. “These are just parts of you.”
Kiss.
“And I like you.”
Kiss.
“Nope, love you.”
Kiss.
“So naturally I love those too.”
You felt your eyes sting a little and your bottom lip wobbled.
“Oh, don’t do that.”
“Do what?”
“The emotional thing.”
“You started it!”
“I was making tiger jokes five minutes ago.” that had you giggling and your man smiled all big. “There she is.”
And, because he was physically incapable of ending a sweet moment normally, he buried his face against your stomach and growled again. “Raaawr.”
“Enjin.”
“Sorry.”
Kiss.
“Rawr?” 🐯🩷
It’s him🙏🙏🙏
A little Pierrot sketch cause I was feeling off about my body…. So why not have your favorite give you a compliment (˵ᵕ̴᷄ ˶̫ ˶ᵕ̴᷅˵)
Healthy people will never understand what a massive achievement it is to do your laundry AND cook yourself a meal in one day.
Getting ready for another long day of work 🎟
one of my favourites of her jumpers
As an autistic/adhd person going through the job search process I’ve learned to phrase my autistic/adhd traits as corporate friendly things. Here’s some examples:
I have trouble reading between the lines and picking up on implicit information? Actually, I’ve learned the importance of giving and receiving precise, specific instructions in order to avoid time consuming miscommunications.
I’m easily bored with only one task? Actually, I have a curious mind and thrive in places with a wide range of tasks as I prefer dynamic environments where I can contribute to many projects.
I have trouble with white lies that are merely social niceties? Actually, I prioritize a transparent work environment where we can tackle issues head-on.
This way I don’t have to lie, but rather just spin my truth in a way that’s palatable to them.
It's her!! 💖 And yes, that is my most confusingly written speech balloon ever, I also glazed over while rereading it.