xoxo

sideblog 25 she it

[kittymuppet]

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[greedysadistdaddi]

From "You're way too young for me" to "God your pussys so fucking tight for me"

[shareourspace-deactivated201510]

[nephilot]

"this is fetish art" okay ❤️ yay ❤️

[hungryrockgirl]

just because i moan when someone grabs me from behind doesn’t make me molestbait

[whateverimhthr]

i was just reminded that when we first started getting REALLY rough with it i would respond to his safeword with “would you forgive me”

[mas-o-kissed]

“This kink is problematic when you think about it” ohhhhhh shit ok lemme head on over to the kink store and trade these kinks in for one that make my jackoff fantasies morally superior

[lilyblisslys]

if you sound pathetic enough when you ask her to hit you during sex, legally she HAS to do it

[lilyblisslys]

she may ask you to repeat it a couple times, which is BULLYING and ILLEGAL

[lilyblisslys]

“You came so fast after I started hitting you” BULLYING and ILLEGAL

[iamfetish66666]

[exhilarative]

sex position called “please! i don’t want it! help!”

[newsmutproject]

“Sex is not a goddamn performance. Sex should feel as natural as drinking water. It should not require confidence. Sex should happen, because the moment is ripe. Ripening lips, ripening labia, ripening cock, ripening pupils, ripening state of being. Ripe and augmented and brimming. Your energy goes to your pumping heart, then to every external nerve, then to theirs, on fire. You bask, roll, play in it. You sigh, moan, laugh. It’s not about being “good in bed.” It’s about being happy. One should never worry if they’re doing it “correctly.” Sex is not factual. I don’t want your cookie-cutter sex, I don’t want your meticulously crafted, calculated, fool-proof fuck. I don’t want a show. I want you. Let your instincts, urges and whims define that. It’s enough. What do most girls like? Forget about it. Statistics are meaningless when there’s only one. Hello, here’s me. Here’s you. Don’t worry about taking it too slow. We got time. We got infinite rhythms, combinations, possibilities. Explore each fuck. Take our time. We can do a different one later. Don’t worry about making me come. I’m here. Right where I want to be. I am overwhelmed by wanting; you don’t have to convince me. I want you because I like you. So don’t put on a front. Don’t taint this. I’m frustrated—it’s just authenticity I want. It’s originality. It’s passion. It’s joy. Don’t say that something I like is ugly. Don’t compare yourself to the rest. You will live and die with and within your experiences like everyone else. If someone thinks you are amazing, they are not wrong. Their universe is as real as any other; it is forged through perception. I don’t care if you accidentally slammed my head into the wall, if you slipped out, if my arm cracked, if the delightful pressure of your wet lips on my anything made a silly sound. There is no right way and no wrong way. “Good in bed,” what. You’re good in my bed. I’m pleased you’re there. I feel it suits you. Shove your technique. Let your memory swallow it. Fuck me like you’d fuck me, fuck me like you feel. This isn’t a test.”

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(via nikolaiolivier)

WHOA. WHOA. WHOA. YES.

(via bitterherbs)

[peachpulpeuse]

love this one; hunted down the source, a 2012 post titled “Stream-of-consciousness on sex” originally by skwyrtle on reddit

[boobcareer]

you're "subbing" to watch a girl "stream" and "twitch"? ive heard enough

[innumerable-voices]

Domme pro tip:

Most people take a gag as permission to be loud. Either because they take it as a challenge "try to silence me, I'll show you" or because they think it's going to muffle noise so they're free to be noisy. They'll be unintelligible of course but they will make all types of pretty noises.

On the other hand a blindfold makes most people quiet. They still want to have situational awareness, they still want to track your movements, so they focus on their hearing and stop making sounds that would make it harder to hear you.

[innumerable-voices]

Domme pro tip:

Most people use breathing to regulate emotions and manage pain. Deep consistent breaths, in through the nose and out through the mouth. You can take advantage of this by either blocking their nose or mouth or by interrupting their breathing with will timed stimuli. Suddenly your high pain tolerance sub becomes a wimp, your composed and mature sub becomes a panicky baby

[innumerable-voices]

Domme pro tip:

Like in horror movies tension is important in scenes. You might think that to make your scene really intense you have to be serious the entire time but what you'll find actually happens is you wind the tension up to a certain point and then can't get it any higher and the scene becomes stale. But if you let yourself relax, loosen up, and make a few well timed jokes breaking the tension a little you can then wind it up again and make it more tense than you could previously.

[innumerable-voices]

Domme pro tip:

Expectation is an incredibly powerful tool you can make use of. People like patterns, people like predictability, they like knowing what's going to happen. So make rules and follow them, make patterns and keep to them, be predictable and your sub will feel safe and comfortable with you, they will trust you more if they know what you're going to do and how you're going to react.

And if you know what someone is expecting you can functionally read their mind, better than that you can control their mind, you don't just know the thoughts they're having you put them their. Plus now you have all of these opportunities to create wonderfully strong emotions and reactions by going against their expectation. Don't do this too frequently or you'll ruin both their feeling of safety and the effect this has but keep it in your back pocket and use it with precision.

[innumerable-voices]

Domme pro tip:

Your sub wants to impress you, they want you to be proud of them. So when they're approaching their limit if you point that out to them ("OK darling I think that's just about all you can take") they will try to convince you they're not ("no please I can take more for you please") and if you give them an opening to do so ("are you sure?") they will jump at the chance to impress you. Follow this up with praise so they know they did a good job. This will leave them feeling satisfied and proud of themselves in a way that reaching their limit and having to tell you they've had enough won't. If you're careful you can use this to gently push their limits and comfort zone so you can both experience more intense sessions in the future

[innumerable-voices]

Now you tell me some:

[femcelfag-deactivated20260521]

i really <3 just being smacked around like. Casually. im talking too much? slap me in the face. im taking too long trying to do something? slap me in the face!!! you’re bored? SLAP ME IN THE FACE!!!

[angel-in-your-basement]

Nothing activates my prey brain like someone grabbing the back of my neck. It doesn’t matter the context, I just immediately go a little limp and braindead, which is very embarrassing to have happen in a public place. Very embarrassing to get all weak and helpless and need to be led to wherever we’re going because I just forgot where we were for a second. Very embarrassing how easy it is to make my prey-coded ass docile.

[ace-trainer-alice]

I'd like to say something like "if desperate squirming and repeatedly asking me to stop wasn't supposed to be a good thing, why do you look so cute beneath me like this", but in truth the fact that you don't like it is part of why I find it cute, so it's a bit circular.

[sinforamin]

Subs who pretend to put up a fight before they get pinned down 🤝 doms who let the subs put up a fight because it's hot watching them struggle