fictional men who are super concentrated in their work but glance up, back down at their work, then up again when they realize that it is you 𼺠who greet you with a âhi, babyâ and smile wide when you kiss their cheek
do you have any hcs on how black mask would be romantic or show affection?
Youâre asking me about my Black Mask headcanons? Itâs been years since I talked about my Black Mask headcanons. Ahhhh. This kind of got away from me thereâs loads, don't mind me, just dumping. đ¤đ¤đ¤
Dropping under a read more cause long post, sorry đ¤đ¤đ¤
Romance
Roman is very caught up in appearances so heâs very much a gift giver. Likes to buy to expensive clothes and jewellery. If youâre not as financially well off as him, heâll pay for your haircuts, spa days, whatever you like to have done, so he can show you off, knowing that he has a aided the view, be it by dressing you or keeping you looking relaxed and cared for. Making you feel good about yourself, makes him feel good about himself. Youâre like his little toy .
Will also buy you personal gifts that are just for you though. If he sees you looking at things while out, on the spot, âwhat my baby wants, they get. No expense.â
Or if you mention wanting/needing something, heâll make sure he obtains it for you. (Or more likely someone who works for him goes and gets it for you.)
He often works long and late hours, so he brings you flowers if heâs been working later than expected. Reserves at least one night a month for you where he can take you out for dinner or whatever you want to do.
HOWEVER, while heâs kind of traditional in his ways of romance, heâs also very self serving. More often than not youâre going to the high end restaurants he chooses. He would never think to take you to a gallery or museum, or somewhere more eccentric unless it was for work.
Typically the gifts he buys, are to his taste. Unless you have picked it out, heâs buying something he specifically wants to see on you, something that matches the image he wants to world to see of you as a couple.
If you want different things youâd have to tell him, and if your tastes are different to his, he will struggle to adjust. Will out right tell you if he thinks your taste or ideas are bad.
Good morning and good night texts when heâs not around. Plus constant messages when he has a spare 5 seconds and is thinking of you.
Will get angsty and paranoid if you donât text back quick enough.
If youâre spending the night apart, heâll facetime with you until you fall asleep.
Has your preferred drink order memorised.
Also has your favourite flowers memorised for gifting purposes.
And has all your clothing, shoe, ring sizes memories, also for gifting purposes.
Probably doesnât actually have those things memorised, he has a guy who keeps note of that stuff for him - but you donât need to know that.
Like to share his food and drink with you, and vice versa.
After a long night heâll give you his jacket (and shoes if youâre a heels person) happy to carry your stuff, or even you back to the car
If your hobbies include something with an end product like food or painting or something to that effect, heâll show all his goons and/or business associates and intimidate them into complimenting it
Giving affection:
Roman is very handsy. Plus heâs hard or hearing so he just generally likes having you as close as possible, easier to hear, easier to feel up.
If you have long hair, heâll always brush any strays out of your face, want to get a good look at his best gal/boy/whatever you wanna be called.
Straightens your collar, folds away your clothing tags, tucks in your shirt, straightens your necklace etc.
Again itâs about keeping up appearances, but also having an excuse to put his hand in you.
Like, for a man who doesnât care what people think of him, he cares a lot about what people think of him, you know?
After greeting you with a kiss he always spins you around to get a good look at your outfit. âThis is nice, did I get this for you?â
Holds hand when youâre walking together, gotta keep you close and safe. Holds your waist when youâre sitting together.
In the rare occasion your chilling out together, having a lazy day at home, he likes you to be the little spoon, between his legs so he can play with your hair, rub your back, whatever makes you feel relaxed. (This is transactional however, you must return the favour later - he deserves it, heâs always so high strung, give that man a back rub)
When youâre alone together and he wants your attention, heâll playfully pull your hair, or poke you, or pinch your cheek. (These are like, low level warnings, if you donât respond appropriately, things will escalate)
If youâre smaller than him, he likes picking you up, twirling you around, comparing your hand sizes.
If youâre bigger/buffer, he likes arm wrestling. Like, if you both want different food for dinner, youâll settle it with an arm wrestle. Canât complain if he looses cause he had fun. âCome on then baby, show me whoâs boss.â
Probably also does this with smaller s/oâs cause he knows heâll always win, or youâll look cute when youâre high on victory (he let you win).
Good at aftercare, like heâll run both of you a bath, so you can take turns washing each other, then lay together, appreciate the warmth and aromas, enjoy the calm.
Makes sure any marks and bruises are properly tended to. He can be a very tender, gentle man, so long as itâs behind closed doors.
When he has the time, he likes watching you get ready. If youâre struggling to pick something, he will always have an opinion/pick for you.
Also enjoys getting ready together, like you doing up his shirt buttons and tie, him doing up the back of your dress/your shirt and and tie and putting your jewellery on for you.
Hi đ¤ do you have any soft/affectionate Roman headcanons?
Soft/Adjacent Black Mask HC:
When your time of the month is bad.
Romance & affection.
General dating HCs.
Shy person with a crush on him.
But you know I'll never shut up about this man so here's a few more:
CWs: Unhealthy relationships dynamics.
Please remember: You can admire others without questioning yourself.
Roman has a slide show of your photos as his phone screen. Pictures of you showing off clothes heâs bought you, of you sleeping, working out, eating. Man loves a good candid photo. No, you canât see. No, I wonât delete it, you look stunning.
Makes sure your âfind my phoneâ thing is always on and linked to him, so he can keep an eye on you. Itâs totally for your safety and not because heâs paranoid and possessive.Â
Texts/calls if he thinks youâve been somewhere too long, asks you to grab him a coffee if youâre passing somewhere he likes - yes he can ask a false facer to do it, but he likes when you provide acts of service.
Gets angsty if he doesnât ask and you didnât think to do it without being told, You should know better.
There are a few reasons he wears his gloves so often; one of which is to protect them and keep them soft for you. Deliberately moisturises for the same reason. Yes, he likes using them to hurt you, sexually of course but he wants them to feel soft on your skin in those calmer moments; bathing together, holding hands, soothing you to sleep in his arms.Â
A sharer. Yes, heâll spoil you rotten with gifts, but also, whatâs his is yours. His breakfast looks good? Here baby, take a bite. His chain looks good? Try it on for me babe, looks better on you, so why donât you keep it?Â
But donât take advantage of this, itâs a privilege for you only, heâs a selfish bastard by nature and wonât hesitate to pull the rug out from under you if necessary.Â
Donât move baby. Whatever position youâre in, whatever youâve been doing, sometimes heâll just collapse down on you, rests his head on your shoulder, chest, tummy. Youâre his favourite pillow to squeeze and run his fingers over. Your skin is so soft. Let him soak it in.Â
Heâs so on all the time, especially in public, give him those tender moments behind closed doors.Â
thinking about roman again and that scar beneath his eye and the way i want to kiss it. to bury my face in his neck and curl up there. to have him be a huge dick to everyone else but me and go out with me and and and
if this sounds self indulgent thats ok this is a reminder to myself and you
selfshipping is for you. its for your comfort. its not for anyone elses. its for you.
if you are getting back into selfshipping or starting to selfship, just know: it is ok to feel insecure, its ok to feel off, its ok to feel like what youre doing may be silly! but listen to what you want, listen what makes you happy and if selfshipping makes you happy, then go for it. start it again. enjoy the new things that is selfshipping if youre a newcomer.
if you had experiences that makes selfshipping difficult for you and you feel even worse, and question why you even are doing this in the first place, you are valid. its difficult to go back to something that brought so much comfort only for it to end poorly. its hard to tell yourself that doing this will make you happy, will make you feel better; its hard when perhaps selfshipping to you has bad memories but you wanna go back to it again.
selfshipping to some is a coping mechanism or perhaps it is to many, it can also just be a side hobby, it can be a fun little thing, a sweet comfort. selfshipping can be an escape to the real word and whats happening, and if it means writing the silliest goofiest things with your f/o just to make you smile, then is it really hurting anyone? no!
you have every right to enjoy something as much as everyone else. maybe some are way open about their f/os and draw, and write, and express it publicly. maybe you are different and want to express it privately, or maybe you want to try to express it more openly. whatever the case may be, this is your thing. its yours. no one will ever take it away from you.
no one will ever take something from you that makes you feel safe and comforted.
đ Oh, hi! Itâs been a little while since I created an ask game, so I decided to whip up a little something in honor of the newest Taylor Swift album!! TLOAS is such a special, lively & extraordinary album & I hope the questions below also reflect a bit of that terminal uniqueness. Have fun & remember to practice reblog karma!
The Fate of Ophelia - Do you feel like your F/O saved you or did you save them? In what way?
Elizabeth Taylor - What qualities within your relationship made it obvious that it would last? What lasting impressions did you leave on each other?
Opalite - How have you and your F/O experienced growth within your lives? Has knowing each other made you stronger? Are you proud of your past selves for getting you to where you are now?
Father Figure - What are the power dynamics like in your relationship? Is your F/O a good mentor? If so (or not), why?
Eldest Daughter - What are the most fulfilling parts of your relationship with your F/O? What comforts do you seek from your F/O to get your spark back?
Ruin The Friendship - How did you and your F/O âruin the friendshipâ? Was there a big confession of love? Who confessed first?
Actually Romantic - Do you or your F/O have any enemies? How do you handle conflict?
Wi$h Li$t - What type of life do you envision with your F/O? Do you want to settle down and start a family or is your relationship complete between the two (or more, if youâre poly) of you?
Wood - Do you or your F/O believe in fate? If so, do you think it led you to each other or do you make your own luck?
CANCELLED! - What darker elements (or flaws) does your F/O have that interest you? What makes those parts of their character appealing?
Honey - What are your pet names for each other? What is the significance behind them?
The Life of a Showgirl - If you had the chance to live within your F/Oâs world/universe, would you? Or would you rather have them live in yours?
Imagine your f/o listening to you ramble passionately about your hyperfixation/special interest for hours with a stupid fond look on their face whenever you talk about it. Itâs not even their interest, but they still remember every little detail because it matters to you. And the second someone talks badly about it? suddenly theyâre your hyperfixationâs number one defender
if you have a bad memory or just have an attention span/brain that you easily forget tasks (like me), imagine your f/o setting up notes for you about important events or chores. Like, they set up small sticky notes near your bed so when you wake up, youâre reminded that they deeply care about you, aaannndd you need to restock the fridge because you guys are running low on groceries. That too
Proship and variants PLEASE dni or repost. I am not comfortable with your content and would appreciate it if you blocked me, thanks /gen
MerMay is here yay! Yeehaw! Yahoo! Time to post mermaid x pirate at AU art đĽ°â¨ď¸đ
I've had this drawing sitting around for about... two years now? Finally found the right motivation to digitize it! I love Maxwell---- oops, I mean Captain Douglas here đ¤â¨ď¸đâ
Adding the taglist here before I must get up for day 2/3 of my 12 hour shifts at work ^^
Tag list -llet me know if you'd like to be added or removed âĄ
@secretsappyabode (thank you again Tiff for noticing already before i tagged you and sharing your sweet thoughtsâĄ) @sugar-and-pearls @polyamarhousgarden @knightfallships @obscureother @so-many-crushes @multiversal-selfshipper
My tail is based off a salmon shark! If you or your f/os were a merfolk, what animal if any (I mean Disney mermaids have gorgeous tails too so if you wanna go with a tail like that you could tell me a colour instead!) would you pick as tail inspiration?
shoutout to the selfshippers who struggle to talk about their f/o(s).
shoutout to the selfshippers who find it hard to put things into words, and most of their thoughts are never realised in any way.
shoutout to the selfshippers that cannot âgushâ about their f/o(s) with no prompt, or that find it hard even with a prompt.
shoutout to the selfshippers that feel guilty about talking about their selfships for whatever reason that may be, whether you feel like youâre being selfish, annoying, or any other reason.
shoutout to the selfshippers that want to talk more about their selfships, but feel like they canât, for any reason.
you are a valuable part of this community. youâre no âlesserâ for finding it hard to talk about things. it can be overwhelming. you are still incredible and your f/o(s) adore you so much <3
favourite selfship dynamic ever has GOT to be "this is an objectively evil character But What If I Was Their Favourite" . literally SO fucking real . and i AM their favourite . they told me so and they would never lie to me. sorry that they lied TO YOU but they wouldnt do that to me. im just built different
YES this character sucks and YES theyre manipulative and a murderer and overall just not a good person. but im making them a home cooked meal. so. maybe thats a you problem
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