Knotgonnalye

[squeegiii-deactivated20250529]

This is what colorism in media looks like.

K.C. Undercover: dark skinned men, light skinned women. the one dark skinned girl is portrayed as mean, apathetic, sadistic, and cruel.

The Proud Family: dark skinned men, light skinned women. dijonay, the only dark skinned girl, is portrayed as "ghetto" and "rachet" alongside her entire family. and suga mama, who can be argued is dark skinned, is portrayed as mean, cruel, and abusive. additionally, trudy, the mother, comes from an entire family of dark skinned people. yet she herself is portrayed as very much light skinned.

trudy proud's family (left) vs trudy proud (right).

The Hate U Give: the dark skinned main character starr on the cover of the book (left), vs. in the movie, where she is played by amandla stenberg (right); a light skinned biracial actor.

nina simone (singer, left) vs zoe saldana (actress, right), who played her in the 2016 biopic "nina".

stagecoach mary (right) vs zazi beetz (left), who played her in "the harder they fall".

ororo munroe (storm, center) vs the actresses that played her in the x-men movies (alexandra shipp - left, halle berry - right). and alexandra shipp, herself, is also colorist.

monster high: clawdeen wolf (right), vs. the actress that plays her in the upcoming monster high live action movie (miia harris, left). it also appears that they artificially darkened the actress' skin for the role.

strawberry shortcake franchise: orange blossom, who was lightened between her 2003 design (left) and 2009 design (right).

The problem is there. You see it. This whole "we're all black at the end of the day" bullshit is the exact mindset hollywood uses to justify the erasure of dark skinned women. None of this will EVER be okay. And the fact that y'all consistently find the same goddamn excuses to justify shit like this is exactly why dark skinned people don't fucking trust y'all.

[knotgonnalye]

It's my 3 year anniversary on Tumblr 🥳

[theconcealedweapon]

[knotgonnalye]

Create gender-free female/male fanfiction rather than fetishizing male/male fanfiction

Some women who prefer male/male fan fiction say they prefer it because there are no gender roles. My thing is, if you are creating a fictional world you don't have to use real life gender roles in it. Create and imagine heterosexual relationships without gender roles (or reverse it).

[knotgonnalye]

Lesbian radfem made the trauma from my fresh abuse worse.

I found radical feminism after dumping a very abuse ex and the trauma from being r@ped and was very confused about my sexuality. I thought I was bi and was told the most misogynistic slurs I have ever heard by lesbians and told it was "lesbophobic" to even defend myself. It was ongoing, I was in a radfem bi server and others would share the horrible things lesbians said about straight and bi women. Every online space where radfems gathered, I was never spared, I was an evil "bihet cumdumpster, cum brained, tainted by penis etc". That "there is no feminism without lesbianism" and to "get out of lesbian spaces" aka feminism cause only lesbians are the true feminists.

The straw that broke me was on ovarit and a radfem lesbian said basically just being around men, breathing the same air, just in the same room, "osa" women "absorb male energy and sexuality and lesbians can sense it". A bi woman argued this is just saying we are tainted by men like not being a virgin and the lesbian justified her stance. I just recently lost my father when I read that and was heavily mourning his passing.

(plus I was yelled at and berated ovarit admins for even asking for a bi only space)

Being in these spaces made me suicidal, hate myself, hate my body, be insanely hyper scared of any male, got sexually abused again this time by a woman, on top of freshly escaped a abusive relationship. I left all radfem groups, deleted my ovarit and left all radfem discords

After some healing (still in the process, day by day it's hard with my cPTSD) I'm straight and I feel so much more relief accepting being straight as normal and not a curse lesbians and lesbian influenced bisexuals made me to feel daily.

My unpopular take: lesbians were right. There is no feminism without lesbianism especially modern feminism. It's a Marxist cult which is destroying society. As a black women, 2nd wave feminism had a hand in the destruction of black America, influencing black women to "don't need no man", destroy the black nuclear family, created a baby mama matriarchal culture of where single mothers raised broken men(and women) and the demonization of black fathers, demonize marriage, demonize the nuclear family and even worse, planned Parenthood was run by a marxist racist Margaret Sanger who believed in destroying black people by aborting us in the womb, which in America, the most aborted unborn babies are black. So feminism supports the destruction of black people. Why would I take advice from a bunch of racist lesbian feminists who tell me I'm tainted because I like men?

Literally they proved to me they are the man hating feminazi that I thought wasn't real.

Take it or leave it but 2nd-4th(?) Wave feminism is absolutely Marxist filth. I know one may say my abusive ex is proof to "kill all men", but I love my father and maybe they just got daddy issues idk, plus it was a man who I was with who was so gentle with my abuse, flashbacks, was there when I wanted to off myself. Lesbian radfems encourage suicidal intentions by telling me I'm evil cause of my "osa". That I deserved my abuse cause I choose to be near men and deserve future abuse if I do it again, that I was looked at like shit in the sidewalk cause I said "I'm bi' and told I'm disgusting cause I dated men. It was lesbians feminists who made me feel worthless when I thought they "supported all women". They wanted "osa" women to worship them and their sexuality.

It's a Marxist cult. Modern qFeminism is Lesbian Marxism. A matriarchy is communism and it's beginning in the west.

It hates heterosexuality, hates the nuclear family, demonizes motherhood but worships the empty womb, practices sexual purity on women, blames women for their abuse, uses black women for their own agenda just like all woke ideologies.

I'm sure lesbians and other lesbian influenced feminists will twist everything l said like women usually do. , but I needed to get this off my chest and what better place is radbr, the garbage dump echo chamber that got me into this fucking mess.

Fuck modern feminism.

This is a lot. Ovarit is pretty tame, so I am not sure I believe you although I know many radfems are super weird and bigoted.

[depsidase]

[blackpilljesus]

Horny het girlies would be way more satisfied with a vibrator or her own fingers than with a moid

Apparently only 7% who sleep around get an orgasm

Real.

Also much safer, no need to worry about possibly dealing with a rape ape.

[knotgonnalye]

Stop telling "het" women/girls what to do with our bodies and stop using fake statistics. The low statistics for orgasms is via penetration not other sex acts like a man performing cunnlingus on us. Leave us alone bi and lesbians.

[moonlightredfern]

I’m all scratched up and I can still taste spray paint in my mouth and my husband almost fell out of a tree BUT THE GHOST SCULPTURES ARE FINISHED!

They’re finally finished and I’m so happy with them!!

Some progress shots:

[superghfan]

Here is an interesting fact: Chaing Wu (played by actor Aki Aleong) was a mob boss during the Asian Quarter story line. The Wu mob family was headed by Mr. Wu. He was part of a group that oppressed the workers on the waterfront cannery, forcing them to work for near slave wages as well as running an illegal drug running operation. He was also involved in the kidnapping of little Robin Scorpio. Looking for some valuable black pearls, he uses his grandson, Kim to find the girl and take the pearls, which were hidden in her doll. However, Kim was unsuccessful and the pearls end up in the hands of a man known as “The Ancient One”, who exchanges the pearls for cash and the Asian community purchases the cannery.

The Ancient One’s grandson Yank, falls in love with a girl named Jade Soong who is the granddaughter of Mr. Wu. Working with Sean Donnely to bring down Mr. Wu, Yank kills Kim, who had planned to blow up the cannery. Jade is devastated to learn that her lover has killed her brother, but soon forgives him when she learns the depths of her brother and grandfather’s crimes. Mr. Wu goes to jail and Jade and Yank marry, then leave Port Charles. The Asian Quarter storyline fades away. 

The Wu Family returns in 2015 at a Mob summit in New York City called by Sonny Corinthos. A representative of the Wu Family named Ms. Wu was present.

Later, in a meeting of The Five Families, the senior member of the Wu family, Selina joins in, representing her families interests. Selina has become quite a  presence in Port Charles, and uses her nephew Brad Cooper from time to time, having helped him get out of jail for kidnapping Wiley, Sonny Corinthos’ grandson. She has forged an uneasy truce with Sonny Corinthos and has brokered a deal with Curtis Ashford to run a poker game in the back of his club, The Savoy. 

It is unclear as to how exactly Selina and Brad are related to Chaign Wu, but I think it would be fun to see a return of The Asian Quarter. 

[knotgonnalye]

This is how many radfems view (human) mothers. I feel bad for them more than I am offended. (click embedded link)

https://archive.ph/SruFr

[knotgonnalye]

Maternal feminism and radical feminism

I realized radical feminism was shit when a YouTuber called Sekhmet She Owl literally said maternal programs like maternity leave and free day care are not necessary since women choose "to fuck."

Why people don't realize radical feminism is a misogynstic movement is beyond me.

[genderabolition4all]

I mean... Just say you don't know anything about radical feminism and go.

[knotgonnalye]

I have been reading radical feminist texts and blogs for over 6 years. Why did you ignore the specific quote I gave ?? It is not an unusual sentiment among some radical feminist.

[badandexrad]

it's pretty common for young and old women to have female roommates tho lol especially in this economic climate + men dying earlier than their wives

why call anyone who points this out retarded?

for college age women, sure. but that's not the same thing?? it's a temporary living situation to get by, not like a committed platonic life partnership

[knotgonnalye]

Can we also talk about how coercive this all is?? If women have roommates just for economic issues, how is that ideal. Let straight women live with or without a roommate based on our actual desires.

And yes it is rape culture to try to coerce a pseudo wife on straight women. Cause that is what these platonic non sexual life partnerships creepy radfems keep pushing.

[badandexrad]

Please calm down, it is not a “pseudo wife” when both people are women and being roommates and they are friends. 

I mean when I was a little kid, my best friend and I were both like “boys suck, lets buy an RV and live together in it and travel the country going on adventures” and that was our life plan until we hit puberty and grew up.

Think about your irl women friends, like you really think you would feel like a “pseudo wife” if you lived with one of them?

It’s just an unrealistic pipe dream because most people want a romantic life partnership so trying to find adult women who want to live with you and are also compatible as best friends is damn fucking impossible.

[knotgonnalye]

It is a "pseudo wife" when it is being proposed broadly by separatist feminist. Most heterosexual women don't want to co habitate with female friends long term. It is never proposed solely for financial reasons or just boredom but a way of bonding further with women in ways straight women don't have the capacity for or want to with a woman.

[badandexrad]

"Don't have the capacity for" like dude idk if you know this but there's a show you should watch, it's called the Golden Girls. You need some positive representation in your life.

Or even Grace and Frankie!

Women totally have a capacity to platonically love their best friends and live together without sex or romance and be happy. It's just very rare because you gotta find a best friend you vibe with like that.

Also none of those seppies are trying to wife you dude. You sound delusional

[knotgonnalye]

Why can't straight women have a great set of female friends without making them into life partners?? Like I said there is nothing wrong if women want to cohabitate with their friends(that is their business), but there is a lot of tone deafness in this. It makes my skin crawl.

by the way, there is/was a website for senior women who wanted to find other women to live out a "goldens girls" lifestyle (I think it was profiled on PBS Newshour). Nothing is stopping "seppies" from creating an app to find like minded women who want pseudo wives/platonic life partners. Female separatist make everything more complicated.

[lesbiansandgayssupporttheminers]

Americans stop assuming that because something awful happens in your country it must also be happening in the middle east challenge.

[knotgonnalye]

Why not?? Regardless of middle eastern abortion laws which I imagine vary, it is objectively Orwellian compared to most of the USA, especially post roe v wade. And Europeans and many non Americans always inaccurately compare themselves to the USA based on their perception versus the US reality.

[badandexrad]

it's pretty common for young and old women to have female roommates tho lol especially in this economic climate + men dying earlier than their wives

why call anyone who points this out retarded?

for college age women, sure. but that's not the same thing?? it's a temporary living situation to get by, not like a committed platonic life partnership

[knotgonnalye]

Can we also talk about how coercive this all is?? If women have roommates just for economic issues, how is that ideal. Let straight women live with or without a roommate based on our actual desires.

And yes it is rape culture to try to coerce a pseudo wife on straight women. Cause that is what these platonic non sexual life partnerships creepy radfems keep pushing.

[badandexrad]

Please calm down, it is not a “pseudo wife” when both people are women and being roommates and they are friends. 

I mean when I was a little kid, my best friend and I were both like “boys suck, lets buy an RV and live together in it and travel the country going on adventures” and that was our life plan until we hit puberty and grew up.

Think about your irl women friends, like you really think you would feel like a “pseudo wife” if you lived with one of them?

It’s just an unrealistic pipe dream because most people want a romantic life partnership so trying to find adult women who want to live with you and are also compatible as best friends is damn fucking impossible.

[knotgonnalye]

It is a "pseudo wife" when it is being proposed broadly by separatist feminist. Most heterosexual women don't want to co habitate with female friends long term. It is never proposed solely for financial reasons or just boredom but a way of bonding further with women in ways straight women don't have the capacity for or want to with a woman.

[badandexrad]

it's pretty common for young and old women to have female roommates tho lol especially in this economic climate + men dying earlier than their wives

why call anyone who points this out retarded?

for college age women, sure. but that's not the same thing?? it's a temporary living situation to get by, not like a committed platonic life partnership

[knotgonnalye]

Can we also talk about how coercive this all is?? If women have roommates just for economic issues, how is that ideal. Let straight women live with or without a roommate based on our actual desires.

And yes it is rape culture to try to coerce a pseudo wife on straight women. Cause that is what these platonic non sexual life partnerships creepy radfems keep pushing.

[badandexrad]

it's pretty common for young and old women to have female roommates tho lol especially in this economic climate + men dying earlier than their wives

why call anyone who points this out retarded?

for college age women, sure. but that's not the same thing?? it's a temporary living situation to get by, not like a committed platonic life partnership

[knotgonnalye]

Ovarit loves using "global south women" but still hates them

What I find funny is when western ovarit (a feminist alternative of reddit) posters will constantly use the oppression of women in the middle east, Asia, and Africa for talking points (period huts, FGM, breast ironing, etc.), but then will shoot down when those women talk about racism of western white women.

Like there have been many calls to have a Women of color/global south "circle" (they don't like calling it a sub forum, but that is what it is) but they always come up with a BS reason why they can't. Keep in mind they have circles for knitting and veganism! But claim they can't find people to moderate a women of color/global south circle. Even after people volunteered to monitor it.

And I definitely notice it is mainly the European ones moreso than the white american ones who do this. Europeans love pretending racism is just a US obsession as they engage in racism all day long and try to suppress anyone not white.

If you are not white you only exist to as a talking point, but don't you dare speak you for yourself. They would also for no reason close the comment section of stories about African women! They would claim it was because such and such post was posted in the wrong circle (another issue is the super vague circles and the constant banning and deleting of post placed in the wrong places).