kokokrispies

partially decent, mostly garbage. block button is my bestie for empty accounts.

[theta-scenario]

People with low spoons, someone just recommended this cookbook to me, so I thought I'd pass it on.

I always look at cookbooks for people who have no energy/time to do elaborate meal preparations, and roll my eyes. Like, you want me to stay on my feet for long enough to prepare 15 different ingredients from scratch, and use 5 different pots and pans, when I have chronic fatigue and no dishwasher?

These people seem to get it, though. It's very simple in places. It's basically the cookbook for people who think, 'I'm really bored of those same five low-spoons meals I eat, but I can't think of anything else to cook that won't exhaust me'. And it's free!

The Sad Bastard Cookbook by tRaum Books

by Rachel A. Rosen and Zilla Novikov || Food you can make so you don't die.

[drovenna]

SPREAD THE WORD THIS IS FUCKING GOD TIER OH MY GOD, SOMETIMES I HAVE SPOONS SOMETIMES I DON'T BUT NO COOKBOOK OFFERS LEVELS IN THEIR RECIPES THIS ONE DOES!

[hyakuemu]

[id: a black and white comic with maki and noritoshi jr. they’re observing as naoya finishes his transformation from a cursed womb, the wind are blowing their hair and clothes as they look at naoya in the sky.

noritoshi jr: [thinking] does he… he looks kind of like…

noritoshi jr: [stops himself from finishing his thought, shaking his head] no, noritoshi-kun…! this isn’t the time for that! focus! focus!

maki: [she looks unimpressed/bored/disgusted as she looks up at naoya] damn. he’s a huge cunt inside and out now. noritoshi are you seeing this shit

noritoshi jr: [mouth opens wide as he turns to maki, in shock at how blunt she was] /end id.]

maki saying what we’re all thinking

[nero-draco]

[caracuuw]

Daily affirmations:

-I can make my OC a worse person

-I can make my OC more miserable

-I can make my OC more repressed

-I can give my OC more issues

-I can make my OC more self loathing

-I can give my OC new fears and insecurities

[kokokrispies]

in the next three weeks i have five separate appointments. one of those will come with a big ass bill to pay. i usually start my holiday shopping now, and spread it out so that i am done by december 1st. not happening this year. one less person to shop for is also some shit.

mama’s own first annual check up appointment which is a can of worms as she’s 70 and was a multiple pack a day smoker from her teens til age 69. she is a shitty patient who rawdogs 90% of her problems via extra strength acetaminophen.

the two of us are still not getting survivors benefits from social security- as of right now our combined checks from them total less than $2000 (she has two additional paychecks for providing help for me and my more severely autistic nephew, so we’re not entirely fucked, only mostly) but hers is meant to go up significantly as compared to mine. she’ll be getting the bulk of what my dad earned, as he’d been collecting a paycheck of some kind since he was a child and had worked full time until he retired at age 75.

buttttt we got two letters on the same day last weekend- one saying she had been removed as my rep payee for reasons that were untrue, and one saying she had been appointed as my rep payee. two days later, another appointment letter arrived. with the shutdown, calling them to clarify and or find out about the above mentioned survivors benefits is not happening any time soon.

my brother is likely going to be told to live elsewhere for being a spoiled manchild and not changing those behaviors after being called out multiple times since june. the last straw was her cleaning up shit he’d left untouched for months, literally.

then there’s all the potential inter-family shenanigans coming with my dad’s memorial bbq. people i do not like, sore subjects, forced interactions, and only one of my friends can actually come support me. idk if anyone else has rsvp’d with my sister. the one i kinda sorta really need there is laid up and will be for months.

[some-pers0n]

How it feels being a little hater with your friends in private spaces and never actually going out of your way to harass or bully anyone

[kiilea]

and now yungi in acnh style 🐶🐤⭐️

[mariasklodowskastwixbar]

what's the first thing you think of when you think of the US state Kansas?

Kansas City

Topeka

Indigenous groups currently and formerly living here

civil war history

college sports (Jayhawks, Wildcats, Shockers, etc)

professional sports (Royals, Chiefs)

other cities

The Wizard of Oz

sunflowers

other media (Supernatural, Fallout Tactics, etc)

op how could you forget ___ (please leave in the tags!)

op what the fuck is a Kansas?

Voting ended onAug 31, 2025

Please reblog for reach. This poll is probably going to get passed around Kansas residents more than non residents but I need imput from both parties

[infectiouspiss]

violence and death and dying and blood and guts and gore and violence and viscera and fuck you fuck you fuck you fuck you fuck you fuck you

[kokokrispies]

y’all wish me luck, pls. two very different flavors of neurodivergence are gonna be clashing tomorrow with a very large portion of grieving.

mama has low grade cleaning ocd, and a more “if i keep busy then i do not have to sit and stew in my feels” mindset. she wants the belongings left unclaimed by us siblings and dad’s remaining siblings to be sent off to the thrift store that helps fund the local dvs- mama has supported them for years for deeply personal reasons. these remaining items are things others could benefit from, like multiple pairs of brand new shoes, shirts, belts, odds and ends electronics, dvd/blurays still in packaging, etc.

the act of cleaning up and out dad’s half of the room to where she felt okay with having my sisters over was a four day process that i helped her with- my brother was out of town because he had both: planned this out earlier this year, and because dad told him he should still go.. but it was for the best that none of them were here to see- it was all musty, tossed in with little to no care, or too much care for the stupidest fucking shit. we had multiple trash bags and bins that we removed.. it would have made already the complex feelings about dad and his passing worse, to see how poorly he valued himself, his belongings, gifts that were chosen with care.

this leads to the clashing i mentioned, with dario. the apple fell from the tree… but got wedged in a lower branch. dario, much like dad and many other tism laden folks hates the concept of change, of letting go. changes are constantly being made in how the house runs, in what he has to do, and when and why. dario has that same innate need to keep things, even though they have no use for him. hell, he keeps things that others cannot keep themselves.

he was supposed to start making drop offs at the thrift store this afternoon but magically avoided doing so.

it’s about to be unstoppable force (mama wanting her bedroom clear to start fixing it back up from the depression pit paul had dug) vs unmovable object (undiagnosed tisms and hoarding)

and it’ll be extra salty because dad would have turned 77 on 7/4.

[scretladyspider]

I mean

[furbearingbrick]

adhd is stored in the ass

[sunlitkoi]

the a in adhd stands for ass

[moonybyte]

What do the other letters stand for then?

[commodorecliche]

Ass Don't Have Dopamine

[theconcealedweapon]

I know this is supposed to be a joke post, but Ass Don't Have Dopamine is a much better name for it.

Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder sounds like it was named by outsiders who are annoyed by people not paying enough attention and being too active by society's standards. It says jack shit about how it actually feels to experience ADHD. It implies that punishing them in order to force them to pay attention and stop them from being hyperactive is successful treatment for ADHD.

Ass Don't Have Dopamine, on the other hand, describes it perfectly. It's caused by a lack of dopamine. If you understand what dopamine does, then you understand what it feels like to struggle to find things that give you dopamine.

If the condition were officially renamed to "Ass Don't Have Dopamine", it would lead to a much better understanding.

[sunnibits]

hey random ass post but in the tags can you tell me what’s your number one safe food. like not necessarily your favorite food, but just thee most quintessential “ol’ reliable” that you can always manage to eat no matter how bad your sensory issues or mental illness is acting up.

mine is microwave popcorn (and bonus points for a chocolate milk to go with it)

[littlestrangething]

The Lock Screen of the device you’re on right now is your therapist, how is it?

good

great

My trauma is cured!!!!

Oh no

Oh please no

*screams in fear*

Neutral

Voting ended onJun 18, 2025

[kokokrispies]

7/4/48 - 6/10/25

i take a lot for my dad. looks for sure, dna wise, too- i have a larger share of his combo of non-caucasian than mama’s portuguese, almost twice as much (ancestry tests are wild). mannerisms? for sure. we’re both quiet until we’re not- i learned my extensive vocabulary of ~sentence enhancers~ at a young age, and got to where i would beat him to certain responses- if i didn’t flip the offending car off, he’d rag on me for slacking. shying away from being the center of attention and preferring to be more on the side, people watching and listening to whomever has come to chatter away. similar senses of humor, as well. nothing quite says father-daughter bonding like watching friday or jackass. 

my dad, as much as he didn't like to acknowledge it, had a big heart. as much as he may fuss, he would be the first person to offer a hand. making it a personal goal to beat others to the check and saying another person’s money is no good with him. randomly purchasing things someone might want or need or even just like and just dropping them on laps or beds. not always knowing what words to use, but simply being there when things were bad. 

my dad was the kind of man who would make a six hour drive in four, commute back and forth between cities for weeks into months, and would do so at the drop of a hat if it meant he was there for family. (he would be offended if i asked someone else for a ride, without asking him first.)

and yet…my dad, who was so quick to put others first, to take care of them with all his heart? he didn’t treat himself with that same care. one of the last times i bickered with him was over his need to provide. i was going to buy us both simple fountain sodas. i had more than enough to pay for it. then he pulled out a ten, then a few minutes later a five, to cover it. i told him i was happy to pay for it with my own money- and his response was “you shouldn’t have to spend it.” the “on me” part wasn’t said aloud, but damn if wasn’t heavily implied. 

we lost him yesterday, and the last two months saw him go down hill quicker than hell. but the joke's on you, dad. i'm going to continue your ways of taking care of others. i'm gonna buy people their damn sodas. i'm gonna beat people to meal checks. i'll buy the shoes and peanut butter and whatever the hell strikes my mind, and i will do it because that's the kind of girl you raised. one who has as big a heart as her dad. i am my father's daughter, in all the ways that matter most.

[willgrahamscock]

I do the opposite of gatekeeping, I’m not going to shut up until you like this thing as much as I do

[willgrahamscock]

here’s a wet pathetic man in a gifset to get you started and then I’m going to send you memes as propaganda

[destinationtoast]

gatetossing: hurling the gate at passersby and attempting to capture them, regardless of whether they wanted to pass through the gate

[ihni]

[dogjpeg]

moe anime girls are brachycephalic that’s why they make those shallow snuffly snorty breathing sounds when they get excited or do any kind of physical activity

[dogjpeg]

I’m watching Clannad and the moe brachycephalic hypothesis could also explain why the girls have such dazed movements, slow soft voices, and glazed over eyes. They just aren’t getting enough oxygen to their brain.

[tangarang]

selective breeding has rendered moes biological abominations

[mythalism]

i actually need to know people's thoughts on this because at least in my experience the answer to this has drastically changed since i was on tumblr in the 2010s and its driving me fucking insane

what's the appropriate way to engage with a fandom take you disagree with on tumblr?

voice your disagreement in the replies

voice your disagreement in a reblog addition

shrug and move on

vaguepost and complain about it on your own blog but dont engage directly

send it to a trusted moot and vent about your frustrations about it in private

bald / nuance / see results

Voting ended onMay 29, 2025

*im talking about fandom takes specifically. not someone being horribly evil about a real-life issue or or blatantly factually incorrect. literally just harmless fandom disagreements or differing interpretations of a text/character/etc.

[mythalism]

i need you dorks to REBLOG this if you voted.... i already know my circle of moots and i have the same opinion i need this to spread across fandoms to get a real accurate sample of sufficient size COME ON!!!!!! and love and kisses to everyone reblogging and leaving their thoughts in the tags <3 muah muah xoxo