No, dude, you didn't trigger my abandonment issues when you did that. I'm so chill and well adjusted and normal about shit. It didn't distress me so much that I'm still weeks later having stress dreams about you leaving me or replacing me. That would be so lame lmfao. I recovered from it so quickly because there was nothing to recover from, it was a very normal interaction. It didn't at all reinforce my belief that I am always someone's second choice or backup plan. And I would of course never start over compensating in our relationship because of these feelings, that would be crazy, because I definitely don't feel like it's better to be something you use than nothing to you at all. Your life doesn't revolve around me and my feelings and it shouldn't and I have normal, healthy, well adjusted responses to that.













