They/Them (most likely) autistic Kuni MINOR GO AWAY CREEPS genuinely need to learn to draw or some shit inactive here a lot - this app is on a separate page to all my other social media so 🤷
Hobbies: writing, baking, does ignoring revising french count as a hobby if it does I'm great at it
General boundaries: no inappropriate messages (unless ik you irl and know its your humour), be respectful, any hate messages or threats will result in being blocked.
Current irl roles: part time waitress and global ambassador (look out for competition promotions)
Now time for mutuals (very short list ik):
1) @tea-cake-and-corvidae suggested my online name! Brownieaholic. Great friend. Obsessed with clouds
2) @v1-x-3n great friend as well, also obsessed with brownies but mainly cause they like to eat whatever I've baked
3) @lara-prim07 another great friend, would win the award for the weirdest way they've made friends with me
There's more but I cant remember your users rn (sorryyyy). I'll add you in when I have time + remember to add in
I cant be asked to put tags on this. If you find it you find it.
I've lost my cecil bracelet (sorry ash) so I hurriedly grabbed the beads and string I need to make a new one on the train I am NOT seeing nightvale without my cecil bracelet
I've lost my cecil bracelet (sorry ash) so I hurriedly grabbed the beads and string I need to make a new one on the train I am NOT seeing nightvale without my cecil bracelet
the wisdom ive learnt is that becoming part of a friend group 1) takes a long time and 2) involves a lot of feeling awkward and left out at first. there’s nothing terrible about this but if you grew up chronically lonely or have any kind of trauma relating to social isolation this likely feels Really Wrong and activates danger signals. but both fortunately and unfortunately it’s just how becoming close to new people works most of the time
another thing that was not intuitive to me as someone who grew up an autistic loner: basically everyone on the planet is starved for connection all the time and almost everything people do is an attempt to reach out to another. most seemingly illogical interactions and behaviours can be explained by this. you have to take as many of these invitations as you can. even if you're wrong you still attempted to bring more warmth into the world
"it's you" "despite everything it's still you" except I present to you a version where it's Gerry looking in the mirror as a child/teen and later as an adult, realising no matter what he changes, he will always see her
i don’t know which autistic/adhd/any kind of neurodivergent person needs to hear this but: make a “just in case” bag
this is a pic of mine. it contains:
loop earplugs on the zipper
prescription glasses with a clip on sunglasses attachment
my public transport discount card
a pen
a glasses cloth + wet glasses wipes (which can also be used to clean my hands if needed!
wireless earbuds in case my headphones give out
tips for my apple pencil + silicon covers if i need a different texture/the sound is too loud
a sanitary pad (not for me, as i had a hysterectomy, but i like carrying one around for my menstruating friends)
a pouch with hair ties for when my hair bothers me
autism lanyard (not pictured, as i put it in after i took it)
will i use these every day? not necessarily. but it’s good to have these all in one place in a little pouch so it’s easy to throw into my bag as i use different ones for different occasions. that way i don’t have to think about all these things individually.
it might seem like common sense for some people, but i didn’t think of this until recently. so i wanted to share this in case it could be handy for other people. some more ideas for what to put in your bag under the break. you can make this as big or as small as you like so some ideas may seem a bit big
powerbank + cables (preferably a powerbank that has a LOT of charge)
snacks (do keep an eye on the expiration date)
painkillers/emergency meds (same thing about the expiration date)
sewing kit
deodorant/perfume
mini fan
hand warmers
scissors/nail clippers (for when tags/threads/your nails are bothering you)
tweezers
lucky charm (i have my lucky cat keychain. it just calms me to have)
plushie/stress ball/fidget toy
mints/a mini toothbrush and toothpaste
extra pair of underwear (for if you suddenly need to stay somewhere overnight or if an accident happens)
comb
band-aids + disinfectant
hand cream/soothing cream
soap/soap leaves
similarly, some mini shampoo or mini body wash (again for if you suddenly need to stay the night. there’s probably already some wherever you’re staying but again. this is a just in case bag)
q-tips
chapstick
makeup remover wipes
razors
hand sanitizer/general sanitizer
wet wipes/tissues
foldable bag
ruler/tape measure
this is a lot but keep in mind, these are just ideas. you don’t have to use everything, just pick out which things you think would be handy for you and make your bag accordingly. do feel free to add onto the list if you have any other ideas.
really love keeping up with my mutuals through their little tags and vent posts. getting updates on how they’re doing is something like: glad to know your job at the library is going well. i’m sorry you haven’t gotten that raise. glad your finals went well. i’m sorry your teacher is so unhelpful. glad your tv show got renewed. i’m sorry they killed your favorite character. glad that you scored tickets to see your favorite artist. i’m sorry they aren’t touring near you at all. glad your cat is doing well. i’m sorry your mom is sick again. glad you’re feeling better now that it’s your favorite season. i’m sorry your meds aren’t working. glad you’re married now. i’m sorry you have to step back for your mental health. glad you’re still here. i’m sorry life is so hard. glad you’re alive, i hope things get easier for you soon
I fully understand that every design of jon is purely hc but this gacha jon is white and its really throwing me off where is his melanin return it to them
