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stop waiting on men to validate you. you’re pretty. you’re smart. you’re interesting. you’re worth time & effort. you deserve to be loved. you need to know these things and truly believe them. don’t wait on some man to come along and tell you.
Guys, watch out for someone with the username Tomplym. They’re going around asking lifting blogs “research questions” then asking for your age and location and name. DO NOT ENGAGE!
The day I met my solemate
Pure post
Sugar Baby Update!
Ok so last night I went on a date with a 50 year old and he honestly is not bad looking for an old dude! Still has hair and a great smile! So we got italian and talked about what we wanted and we both felt an immediate connection, which he said “I’ve never seen this happen so quick before”. At the end of the night we kissed then I ubered back home, which of course he paid for by giving me his credit card number! (Risky for him damn but shows me he trusts me). Then he later texted me, “I deleted me profile ☺” so he wants to be my daddy right away?! AND he said to spend $300 at Victoria’s secret for lingerie, but I told him idk my Victoria’s secret bra size (my boobs have grown since the last time I had a bra from there) so I showed him my wishlist on dollskill.com (some lingerie, some clothing and boots) which totaled like $500 and he bought it all for me!! We are planning to go on another date tomorrow! Also, today, I went on a date with another potential sugar daddy but he seems ehhh and gave me $80 for an uber but wanted to only give me “$200 to $300 for the next visit” and that’s fine if we are just hanging out, but if he wants to do something a little more intimate he better pay up lol. If anyone who’s an experienced sugar baby wants to give me advice, let me have it! Also, just wanted to point out this because it matters in this situation: my body is a 10/10 (i work out 20 hours a week lol) and I’m “exotic” looking (half Vietnamese half white) so I know I should be able to find the richest, sweetest, sugar daddy ever and I’m not lowering my standards for anyone lol.
I’m her
Guys, watch out for someone with the username Tomplym. They’re going around asking lifting blogs “research questions” then asking for your age and location and name. DO NOT ENGAGE!
Never ever ever respond to messages asking for answers for “research” or agree to an “interview” Anyone asking for you info right off the bat is extremely dangerous and should be blocked immediately (this is a generally good rule to follow while interacting with strangers online, but is especially important for a community like this!!)
Personally I wouldn’t give out any info to someone even after talking for a while, catfishers are dedicated and will keep up the gig for months to get the info they want. But anyone who wants your private information from the get go is as dangerous as a guy following you down a dark ally wearing a hoodie and should be treated as such!
BE SMART, STAY SAFE
That euphoric moment when you pull the pin out of the tag. When you see that mother fucking pin release. When you’re holding a detached tag and in that moment you know that product is yours now.
Orgasm moment right there
Especially ones that took a Lil workin to get off
QUESTION~
What do these stickers mean?? Do the stickers themselves set off the towers (highly doubt it but just want to make sure) or are the stickers a warning? Like do the stickers signify that there is a tag somewhere on the item that will go off? Please let me know 🤗
I would like to know too!
there could possibly be RFIDS under the stickers
beep beep
how this cat go beep beep?
she just do
“[Vanessa Jackson] admitted to police that she intentionally set him on fire because shooting him would have been ‘too nice’.”
a true american hero
Her name is not Vanessa Jackson, it’s Tatanysha Hedman.
This is also not her mugshot. This is the mugshot of a Tulsa woman who was driving without a license. Lots of websites have replaced this fake mugshot with yet another fake mugshot… I have no clue why this is a thing, but this is what Tatanysha actually looks like:
Here’s a link to a news article about her.
http://www.news.com.au/world/wife-tatanysha-hedman-set-husband-vincent-phillips-on-fire-after-he-allegedly-molested-his-stepdaughter/news-story/40fe90869e273c68d24d9dd053482e48
She is a true American hero, I just don’t understand why her picture and name were changed. (Not the fault of the people posting it, I’m sure they didn’t know either.)
FREE HER
They wanted to portray that “Crazy Black Woman” character I’m sure.
Why do they punish women for protecting their own?!?!!!???
Damn I didn’t know
Finally the version with the correct info. Does anyone know if she has a go fund me or a way to support her/her daughter?
Her GoFundMe page is here.
she only has $30 raised so far. i’m so glad the correct information was posted. the website that posted the fake info is definitely a racist click-bait “satire” site. the site also has articles about blm members dismembering white women on it, so this picture was not made in good faith.
her goal of $1,000 has reached over that!
Where my introverts at?
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PSA about lifting pets
It is actually possible to lift a puppy. This is gonna sound insane. My aunt pulled this off at petco once during one of their big adoption events. I can’t believe I forgot to tell you guys this story. Holy crap.
There was a kennel crate filled with like 5 different newfoundland puppies and the store was PACKED with people. My aunt fell in love with one of the newfies that the SA let her take out. The SA was alone too. Her coworker decided to be a dick and go on her lunch during the busiest fucking hour.
Anyway. My aunt knew this poor guys were probably from a puppy mill or some shit. Or just breedjects (rejected stock from breeders) . So I shit you not. She just picked up the newfie and walked out with him when the SA was distracted. She grabbed one of the fliers off of a near table to make it look like she was holding adoption papers so other customers wouldn’t be suspicious. No one thought anything of it. Just a chick with a dog at petco.
She fucking stole a collar and toys for him too. Fucking most extreme shit I’ve ever heard.
This happened about 1.5 years ago and my aunt never went back to that petco ever again. But she still has the dog. His name is Kronk Kronk is the biggest fucking dork. He’s scared of ladybugs, guys. LADYBUGS.
But yeah. That’s the story of how my aunt lifter a fucking 40lb puppy
reblog for lifting aunt
reblog for the pup thats scared of ladybugs
Almost got caught
for the first time in three years i almost got caught, which has forced me to stop and re-evaluate everything im doing. i have had this post in my drafts for a few days as i needed time to re-group.
here are the mistakes i made:
didn't wear my wig
ignored my gut feeling that something was wrong
‘concealed’ on camera
re-usable bags don't always work
put my hand bag in the shopping cart
so i was at the mall, Christmas shopping so security was waiting and ready. i was unprepared, not dressed up and not wearing my wig. i had $500 worth of clothing in my handbag. $150 of Christmas gifts in shopping bags (that i swiped from behind the counter when the cashier wasn’t lookin so it looked like i bought them).
this happened in the supermarket i got a cart, put my bags from the previous stores and my handbag in it, got a couple of reusable bags, and set them open for my groceries. filled the bags up with food and drink, then proceeded to load up on vitamins and supplements, some more Christmas gifts, basically loads of stuff from the heavily monitored beauty isle. which i then proceeded to ‘conceal’ right there on camera (i was just putting them in the reusable bags which i normally do when i go to the supermarket anyway)
had a feeling i was being watched, not in person but via security and that they were alerting the cashiers (like a weird premonition). but like an idiot i ignored that feeling and continued. went to the self checkout bought a couple of cheap items. the lady that stands there to help with people who dont know how to use the machines was watching me. but i had $150+ worth of stuff so no way i paying for that (i only had $10 with me anyway.) i paid for the few cheap items with her watching me the whole time and as soon as she distracted helping someone else i left.
she followed me saying ‘excuse me, excuse me ma’am’ to which i ignored. she eventually caught up with me and told me i didnt pay for that stuff. i told her i did. there was a crowd forming around me and her, all these people watching this girl going red in the face as some old lady accuses her of stealing.
now here is what freaked me out the most, she said that ‘they told me to stop you’ referring to the security who had alerted her from what they had seen on camera (y’know that premonition i ignored). hearing that i knew if i didnt step up my game i was done. she asked me if i would come back inside with her. at this point i have $800+ of stolen stuff on me (not including every thing i am wearing.) and i was not going to risk it as where i am its something like one year in prison.
i reassured her that it was fine ‘oh no its ok because i paid for all of it’, turned my feet from her to the direction i was going to go, tilted my head that way slightly, gave a sort of apologetic look for wasting her time, just generally did all the body language to say im going to go now, sorry. she told me that they would look at the security footage and i just nodded as a walked off going ‘ok thats fine’ knowing exactly what they would find and that they cant do shit about it once im gone.
gave my self three minutes to get as far away as possible. i was actually counting the seconds as i left (just a tip 4 u). walked out of the mall, dumped the cart, picked up all my bags (this shit was so heavy) and as soon as i was out of sight from anyone i ran.
so i didnt get caught
dumb emotional reflection on the nature of guilt:
its been a few days now and i have completely detached myself from this experience. at first i felt horribly guilty about it. i keep having nightmares, and whispering to myself ‘shut up’ every time i remember it (which is making me look crazy) but i dont feel guilty about it any more, as i dont feel like it was me that did it. several days of mild dissociation has nearly erased myself out of the memory. i know what im doing is wrong. on one hand im glad it happened bc it has made me re evaluate what im doing here, and that this is infact illegal. and yet i dont know if im going to stop
Here's my: "What to do when you beep" guide no one asked for
I’ve beeped a couple times in the 8 years I’ve been lifting (I’ve only got myself to blame for not being careful enough lmao.)
Don’t just surrender yourself instantly you still have a chance to get away with no record AND keep your stolen shit.
KEEP. WALKING. I know you might freeze up when the whole store starts going “BEEP BEEP BEEP BEEP THIS LITTLE SHIT MISSED A TAG” But keep walking as soon as you unfreeze yourself. Because unless someone is RIGHT BY THE DOOR most of the time you can get out without much of a problem.
If they come to the door and ask you to come back?
Here’s my little Barnes and noble stand off from when this happened.
The whole store starts screaming and my partner stopped walking, she looked like this was The End™. I whispered keep walking and she started again. My goal after beeping no longer became “get yourself out safe” it was “my partner us way too young to have this on her record get her out.”
So we make it out without anyone calling for us. The manager was at The Edge™ of the store like he couldn’t come farther without breaking the company policy. My partner and I were like 10-20 feet away from the door at this point so I felt relatively safe. My partner looked dead scared and I felt really bad, but I can handle acting under pressure well (thanks @ anxiety for making me do that anyways) so I wasnt worried.
But the manager smiles (it was rlly cocky like he thought we would comply after we made it off the store property 😂) and calls after us. “Ladies, you beeped.” My first thought when he said this was ‘Im not a lady don’t assume my gender asshole’ which kind of gave me an attitude lmao.
But he told us we beeped again when we turned around to look at him and I raised an eyebrow like “So? You cant do anything about it.” But I didn’t say that because that’s rude and I tend to be a nice person. We both looked at the manager and I spoke up.
“I don’t have anything, and I don’t have to come back.” Now let me tell you, he went from 100 to 0 reallllllll fucking quick. You could see the joy of catching two young adults shoplifting drain from his face. The light left his eyes, his took a resting bitch face and tried to intimidate us (but just ended up looking rude and kinda stupid.)
He basically threatened us saying “well remember you” like everyone needs to go to Barnes and Noble and that hell catch us next time.
All in all though keep walking and if they call after you and you decide to turn around be in the parking lot and remember:
YOU DO NOT HAVE TO FOLLOW ANYONE INSIDE SHORT OF LP OR ACTUAL COPS.
A lot of lifters get scared and get caught when they beep but you can avoid it if you can handle pressure and remember to keep yourself calm.
This post ended up a lot longer than I thought it would be. Also the events described above happened within the course of 1-2 minutes.
If any of my darling children have questions about this (or anything else lifting related) mom’s ask box is open to everyone and you’re welcome to pop in with all your questions! ❤💙💚💛💜 Stay safe kiddos.
Yeah just pretend you didn’t hear them, I always just ignore and keep walking. Or when I beep, I look around (just a bit not long enough for anyone to stop me) shrug,and keep walking. If there’s security near the door, you do want to be careful, they will stop anyone and anything if they hear a beep.
I don’t wanna end up in my 30s saying I knew what I had to do but I just didn’t do it
I have to stop sleeping on myself. I have to stop second guessing myself. I have to stop doubting myself. I have to start believing in myself. I have to start encouraging myself. I have to start loving myself. I have to.