mannen i mitt liv

Welcome to the mess of a dumpster blog ran by a mess of a person. I'm not a spoiler free blog, nor do I tag things on a regular basis. It's a mess. Apologies (or not, if you're into it) for turning into a 75% Skam blog. whoops

[marvelsmostwanted]

but i still want to know how jack harkness became a giant face

[actuary-tattoo]

Someone: Hela is the female version of Loki!

Me, an intellectual: Loki is the female version of Loki

[dailydcheroes]

[boys-say-go]

when u scratch a cat’s chin and they lift their head up reblog if u agree

[hidden-suggestion]

when u scratch a cat’s cheek and they lean their head into ur hand reblog if u agree

[nyanbinyuri]

when u put your hand in front of your cat’s face and they gently headbut u reblog if u agree

[roughhewnends]

when ur cat runs just a lil bit faster to get to u reblog if u agree

[meloneons-deactivated20210423]

cats reblog if u agree

[ghosts-and-smokes]

Bex smoking is my aesthetic

[tv-s-e-r-i-e-s]

“Normal kids”

[ultrafacts]

[greatnorthernofficial]

This my bebe. Bebe is bigger than me. Strong bebe

[apolloadama]

ok friends i wanted to confirm this story’s accuracy before reblogging so i googled it and yes it’s TRUE 

AND ALSO the mom cat raised the lynx baby ALONGSIDE HER KITTEN so we have all these cute pictures of the lynx cub with the kitten please look at them

^^^ FAMILY PORTRAIT

[oniongentleman]

Stop that’s fucking adorable

[harrypottersmut]

That’s so adorable

[licensehaver-deactivated2025061]

bro my dad “went to dinner” at my favorite mexican restaraunt and said he’d bring me home a burrito and it’s fucking 9pm

[licensehaver-deactivated2025061]

my dad is having an affair

[licensehaver-deactivated2025061]

dad brought me the promised burrito just now so here’s my obligatory post exonerating him from infedelity

[licensehaver-deactivated2025061]

that burrito was fantastic. i’m inclined to think my dad has never had sex in his life

[abandonedandurbex]

Decommissioned kids rides on a scrapyard, Japan [4592x3448]

Source: https://openpics.aerobatic.io/

[personsonable-deactivated201908]

The Council sits in judgment of your transgressions

[kiaracarreras]

Three times Newt calls Thomas “Tommy”

[upsidedowneggo]

David Harbour is writing the fanfiction for us.

[keiths-stupid-mullet]

good things in this world: soft klance cuddles

[theweirdwideweb]

[worry-guts]

MY FAVE SHOW DID THAT

[florideae]

keith: hi, i need you to hold onto something really tightly for me

hunk: sure thing, keith! what do you need me to hold?

keith, wrapping hunk’s arms around him: me

[bears-again]

he needs lots of hugs 💖

[niknak79]

[blaruto]

I still think Moana deserved an Oscar for this part

[i-want-cheese]

To me, the moral of Moana is that only women can help other women heal from male violence. 

The movie starts with the idea that the male god who wronged Te Fiti must be the one to heal her. This seems to make a certain sort of intuitive sense in that I think we all believe that if you do something wrong you should try to make it right. But how does he try to right it? Through more violence. Of course that failed. 

It was only when another woman, Moana, saw past the “demon of earth and fire” that the traumatized Te Fiti had become (what a good metaphor for trauma, right?) and met her with love instead of violence that she was able to heal. Note that they do the forehead press before Moana restores the heart, while Te Fiti is still Te Kā. Moana doesn’t wait for her beautiful island goddess to appear in all her green splendor before greeting and treating her as someone deserving of love.

Moana is only able to restore the heart because Te Kā reveals her vulnerability and allows Moana to touch her there. Maui and his male violence could only ever have resulted in more ruin.

[smalltall]

…this is exactly what I was trying to say and you put it beautifully. @i-want-cheese This is why the scene makes me tear up every damn time. Women’s honest, ugly reaction to trauma is almost never even depicted in films, let alone honored the way it is in Moana. Te Fiti doesn’t have to “rise above” being violated before she’s allowed to heal. Moana sees her and says

I know your name They have stolen the heart from inside you But this does not define you

She utterly accepts Te Fiti’s rage, her fear, her lashing out at anyone who comes near the remains of her ravaged body island. Female ugliness isn’t punished, it’s mourned and loved. What an indescribably comforting moment.