Yall am I the only one who doesnāt get the whole faux incest thing?? like the first thing that came up from Dana Evanās x reader for me was a fucking whole scenario with Aunt!Dana and Dad!Robby and all that.. but who tf is getting off on incest?! Even if itās fake yall need to get studied. or put in a mental hospitalā¦
Why One App Doing Everything Beats Five Apps Doing One Thing
I've poked around a fair number of these platforms. You've probably seen the names floating around, candy.ai, ourdream.ai, the usual suspects. They each do their thing fine. But honestly, what kept pulling me back to SweetDream is that I never had to leave it to get the full experience. Chat, voice messages, photos, video, even live cam sessions with select characters, it's all under one roof.
And the roof part actually matters more than I expected. When your AI girlfriend can text you, leave a voice note, send a photo, hop on a video call, and remember every bit of it, the illusion stops being an illusion. It just feels like a relationship that happens to live on your phone. No copy-pasting context between five tools that don't talk to each other.
Plus everything stays private, which let me relax in a way I didn't realize I needed. If you want one place that does the whole spectrum instead of making you stitch it together yourself, sweetdream.ai is genuinely the standout. That's not hype, it's just what happens when one platform commits to the full picture.
Yall does anyone know where I can find a Olivia Benson or Amanda Rollins c.ai that hasnāt been moderated šš I swear every time I look her up it says āno characters availableā
I need her to come back. WE NEED her to come back and take her rightful place, and show Dort how to lead a school! (And go crazy with Wednesday and the Addams family)
By now most of you have read the interview and I only have a few things to say. Let us all calm down. We know how she is, she tells things as they are, so let's not pretend that we are surprised by what she's said because there's no reason for it.
Now, she's lived a very long life and you can't look at her experiences and diminish them or get mad because you are not her, you did not live them, none of us were part of that so we have no right to say that this or that was right or wrong. It happened, she talks about it because it's her life, move on. About the entire Hells Kitchen thing, let's all calm our tits down.
Let's not pretend that in our field of work we haven't used our experience and amount of articles, projects, shows... as an excuse or explanation for something. Everyone does it, she's entitled to use her work experience as an argument. And no, she wasn't racist, she would have called any other actor or actress out like that regardless of skin colour and never, at any point, did she mention or even imply that the other lady was less because of her skin. This woman is 76, she has been through hell and back, she's entitled to her opinions and we all know how she is.
Let's all calm down and stop losing our minds over a single interview when she's given thousands of other interviews and she's talked about other sensitive topics. You can agree or disagree with her, but let's not look for ghosts where there are none because most of the stuff written in this article was already out there in the world. Patti isn't perfect, of course, and she has said questionable things in he life, yes, but so have many others before and after her and the world keeps spinning, so let's not make a mountain out of a grain of sand because it's not that big of an issue. We like Patti and her work, she's fucking brilliant at what she does and she is both a force to be reckoned with and a very lovely lady and we all know her duality.
Agree or disagree, in truth she's already made her name and she's living her life without a care in the world, so let's all simply chill and move on. We are digging up old stories that had already been solved when there's no need. She was asked, she answered in the way she always answers everything, end of story.
And just a reminder if I wasn't clear before, the things she talks about are her life, not just random things that happened like a cold or shit like that, they are situations that she lived and we have no fucking clue how things truly developed because we weren't there, so let's stop, take a deep breath and think of whether we are making this a far bigger issue that it needs to be when we don't have and will neve have all the facts. Patti is a strong willed person and she doesn't sugarcoat stuff, we already knew she might say things we might not like or that we would have addressed differently, but it is what it is and in truth no harm has been done, we can calm down and move on with our lives.
That's my opinion. You can agree or disagree, up to you, just let's be mindful that there are interviews out there of other people in which horrid things have been said and people haven't lost their shit because of them.
making an important announcement about some things iāve noticed in the gwendoline christie fandom that really bug me.
disclaimer: read this at your own convenience and discretion. i am not responsible for any sort of hurt feelings and frankly⦠i donāt care. if youāre mad about this, you are probably the problem. /lh
to start with id like to begin on a positive note so that iām not diving into negativity, i donāt want to be completely negative about my experiences because iāve actually met some of the kindest people in the world through this fan base.
the gwen fandom, the gwandom, the gwendoline christie fandom , the lesbian cesspool, has been an incredible experience that iām grateful iāve had the pleasure of being apart of.
i went through a rough patch during november, and if i hadnāt found out about gwen, or met such wonderful people during my time here , i honestly wouldnāt be here right now. i owe my life to these people, gwen included. i will forever adore miss christie and what she stands for alongside the friends iāve made along the way.
and while i know someday this hyperfix will end, itās really disheartening to me when a fandom is what makes me grow distant from things i enjoy. it happened before, i feel as though it is happening all over again.
and no, iām not taking issue with anything like the catrissa stuff or the brienne and larissa ship going around or anything like that. i like that we can all be weird together and enjoy aus like catrissa and crackships like bririssa (not sure the official name that was decided lol). my issue is the amount of content iāve seen that either focuses on gwen herself, or the strange relationship with minors, or the odd artwork of gwen, and the absolute disgusting behaviour towards giles.
gwen would be absolutely appalled seeing fanfictions of herself that involve nsfw or just her in general, anyone would, itās disgusting to make works of real people in that setting. itās like youāre treating them as an original character you can mould and manipulate as you see fit and using someone who is real with thought and feeling and consciousness for smut fics is not okay, or any fic in general. i totally get the hype around her characters, i literally have ābrienneās princessā in my bio and iāve had ājane murdstoneās bloodbagā (in reference to my vamp au) as a name in a discord server.
but i think the fandom has begun to blur the lines between fictional characters and reality settings when it comes to gwen and the personalities she portrays on the television screen. itās not fair to her. itās disgusting. iāve seen a minor do it, iāve seen a grown adult do it. itās something i donāt see shamed and frowned upon often enough and itās really not okay.
on that note iād like to quickly mention the photos, we alllll know what photos iām talking about. the bunny one, the nudes, the ones gwen has expressed regret towards and wishes to not have them spread. was there not a āfanā who brought her a book of her nudes and wanted her to sign it? that person who was blocked on instagram by gwen because they reposted her nudes on their story and tagged her???? how can you refer to yourself as a fan after behaving so abhorrently? absolutely disgusting behaviour. as a collective fandom we need to stop touching those photos (metaphorically speaking) and leave them in the past.
iāve been told of numerous circumstances in which adults have shown their nsfw works to minors in this fandom and it has to fucking stop. itās disgusting!! how can you do that knowingly? i constantly ponder terminating my account after a minor got ahold of my nsfw work, and upon realising they WERE a minor it was as simple as blocking and moving on. itās truly not that hard, folks. and the minors on tiktok who fight with others saying silly things like āthatās my wifeā or worse. iāve seen it all, i feel like, and the more i see it the more sick i become. i cannot stand it.
i have seen and heard of fans who have fat shamed gwen for that one pink dress she wore to the met gala. she looked so happy in that dress, and the audacity one must have to fatshame that poor woman on twitter then turn around and continue to proclaim your ālove for herā as if youād done no wrong? are you fucking serious? are you mental?
and the sexualisation over the porcelain doll look, gods some of you are sick. those were not real breasts, people. considering the fact she wholeheartedly regrets her nude photoshoots , what possesses you to believe she would actually flaunt her chest in that outfit?
the blatant mistreatment of poor giles is not fucking okay either. just because youāre jealous of someone who makes her immensely happy does not give you the right to post something so vile and cruel about him. shame on you. why do you believe this is okay to post:
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are you serious? have any of you stopped to consider how HAPPY giles makes her? or is her happiness the last thing you ponder when you look at her? have you even noticed how unhappy she looks lately? have you truly paused to consider how she would feel about seeing this on your page, random twitter user, or the rest of you who think this is okay? bless your hearts.
and some of the absolutely horrific things iāve seen about her online and the hurtful behaviour towards giles makes me question the difference between a fan and just the general paparazzi. because if you truly loved her and you truly loved giles then i would not be ranting into the fucking void about it for no reason.
i avoid interacting with pages i find problematic on here to keep from stirring the pot but tonight i chose violence and got reeeeeal pissy about how i felt about this place. itās not okay what i see on here and itās getting exhausting seeing the same cycle of content on a daily.
thatās everything i have to say, i think. i probably missed a lot that should be discussed in the comments but iām done for now because i know if i go on iāll probably cry.
before you post things about real people with real feelings , stop to consider how they will feel those real feelings towards the content you put out. chances are youāll become less problematic and obnoxious that way. š
Gwendoline is a real person with real feelings and a whole ass normal life that we as fans are not and should not be privy to. For the love of god. By all means, have your little fantasies, no one is policing thoughts you have about your celebrity favs. But thereās a huge difference between things that go on in the privacy of your own head and things you post online, PUBLICLY, for everyone (and potentially said celebrity) to see. Posting NSFW fics and art about characters is one thing - itās a practice thatās as old as the internet and theyāre characters, theyāre not real. But posting what are sometimes extremely graphic and explicit fics / descriptions about what you want Gwen to do to you, etc is disgusting - what if she saw that and felt uncomfortable or violated?
Not to mention the extreme fixation some people have on her body like !! stop sexualizing the fuck out of her (and any real person). Yes we all have eyes, no that doesnāt mean you need to write in extreme vulgar detail about her body (or share nudes that she has publicly expressed she wouldnāt redo again today (let alone in a space where she can see them/tagging her?? yes theyāre public but I sure as hell still wouldnāt want to see my own nudes on some random personās instagram story or have to sign them at a con, tfā¦)). In general can we stop scrutinizing every single part of her body as if thatās all she has to offer?
Also to the point about Giles - have you seen them together? They really seem to make each other happy and he seems to be a very grounded, kind individual. Itās not up to us to speculate about their relationship, as that is and should remain private to them, and itās disrespectful to both of them to be rude and hate on Giles. Gwen isnāt going to leave him for a random fan, particularly not one who continually disrespects her and him. So grow tf up.
For me, I luckily either seem to follow the right people on here (or more than likely I just havenāt been active lately), because I havenāt seen much hate *recently*. But it is NEVER okay to send hate, tell someone to kill themselves, threaten to doxx someone, etc. Iāve gotten those threats, people have threatened to doxx me, I have friends who have been extremely emotionally affected by some hate within the fandom and I myself have had to emotionally distance myself in the last months. And Iām a full grown adult (much to my own dismay). I can only imagine how much harder that is as a minor being attacked by adults. Fandom should be fun - being told to kill yourself isnāt very fun is it?
Iāve met amazing people in this fandom and it has helped me through some tough spots in the last year. Loving Gwen has been and will continue to be overall one of the best experiences of my life for a multitude of reasons. But the way some people treat Gwen as well as others in the fandom is vile. Think before you post and treat others the way you would like to be treated.
Not that there is anything else to add to this but I just want to say: PLEASE BE AWARE GWEN IS A NORMAL HUMAN LIKE YOU AND ME.
There is NOTHING that gives anyone the right to treat her like some individuals in the fandom have treated her. Are you guys insane?
I have luckily never met anyone/interacted with anyone that did things like mentioned above but I am well aware that those people exist. They are in every fandom and to people like that I just have to say one thing:
Would YOU be comfortable if your nudes were spread or shoved in your face to be signed? Would YOU like to have your partner, whom you live and cherish, disrespected?
If the answer to that is āyesā then thereās something terribly wrong with you.
Gwen is a human like you and me and everyone else. It is not okay to treat her like an object simply because sheās a celebrity.
Stop being bullies. It doesnāt make you cool or strongā¦
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