Lenity Nexus

document.write(unescape("%3Cscript src='http://picuous.github.com/tumblrbox/tumblrbox.js' type='text/javascript'%3E%3C/script%3E")); I talk about popular controversial stuff and give my opinion. I am not a "tumblr feminist," I am an "individualist" and egalitarian. I care for the rights and equality of both females and males. The individual matters and can't be subject to stereotypes or assumptions about them by factors they don't control, be it appearence or sexuality. len·i·ty [len-i-tee] - noun, plural len·i·ties. 1. the quality or state of being mild or gentle, as toward others. 2. kindness; gentleness. I encourage you all to ask me questions and give me your feedback. If you're of a radiaical movement that desires to place blame on entire groups instead of the whole, feel free to give me your point of view. Though, I will never understand hate on humans based on uncontrollable factors.

[itsjustmyunpopularopinion]

Because, eventually, you get tired of having to repeat the facts over and over again.

Never change, June.  You’re a goddamn treasure.

[basedshitlord]

[mr-jim-jam]

I just wish egalitarianism was the norm instead of feminism.

[deepfriedmarshmallow]

I wish women had all the same rights as men.

[mr-jim-jam]

In most ways they do; in other ways they have more. Egalitarianism is the way to go when it comes to addressing inequalities that exist on both sides, and without making this a gender war, which feminism tends to do.

[lenitynexus]

An example of Feminist tactics:

rena-librarian blocked my from being able to reblog her last reply. Using common Feminist “Oh shit I was proven wrong!” tactics. Tactics Feminists use:

1) Call you a troll or tell you to “educate yourself” on their bullshit issues when you disagree with them.

2) Dismiss everything you said.

3) Block you / won’t have a conversation with you.

You know, the tactics exactly like most bullshit groups use when you point out their flaws. 

Well done! I’m sure the Creationists and Flat-Earthers would be proud of your tactics.

[theartofanimation]

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[lenitynexus]

Please give me an example of when I have harassed anyone? Considering you have been using #stupidpeople as a tag and you don't really debate, you make nonsensical analogies and then refuse to reblog the posts when they call you out for them. Also, you may want to chance your blog name if the word is supposed to mean gentle in any way.

Did you even read the original post where I tagged my reply with the tag #stupidpeople? Unless you’re the original poster (I don’t know, you’re a coward who asked this anonymously) it’s not hard to see how the post was stupid. Someone just said that Goldbond was stupid because their brand advertised what their product could do... And the poster claimed it was sexist and shaming them. That’s not mean, it’s an accurate fact. That person’s post is rather stupid.

I also do debate, I don’t make “nonsensical analogies.” Any analogy I make is perfect sensible. Tell me how they’re nonsensical? I think they’re rather spot on.

What blog post have I refused to reblog? I’ve replied (to my knowledge) to everything anyone’s ever replied to with me. Your lack of examples is staggering. What I have i ignored?

I am gentle. I am also caring. This isn’t mean I’ll nod up and down and blindly agree to your hate though. 

Pointing out your hate = me hating you? No, that’s not how it works.

[the-way-rain-falls-deactivated2]

Why are there anti feminist blogs on tumblr it’s literally known for its over the top feminism what are you hoping to do on a website where most active members want to rip their eyes out every time they see one of your posts

[lenitynexus]

The same reason grammar blogs exist. Speaking of which, you should look at a few of them.

[the-way-rain-falls-deactivated2]

What the fuck is a grammar blog

[lenitynexus]

http://grammarlyblog.tumblr.com/

My advice is add periods and commas to your posts.

[the-way-rain-falls-deactivated2]

You understand what I’m saying. You understand the meaning and the point is clearly perceived. By centering your argument around my grammar, you’re trying to use an ad hominem appeal, which is frankly upsetting, since it means you couldn’t think of a true argument and instead are attempting to attack my intelligence. Address the point or stay off my fucking post.

[lenitynexus]

Actually I answered your post quite nicely. I told you that anti-feminist blogs exist for the same reason grammar blogs exist. To educate. The second priority was having you actually insert some punctuation into your run-on sentence. You seemed to have mastered it, well done.

[the-way-rain-falls-deactivated2]

Why are there anti feminist blogs on tumblr it’s literally known for its over the top feminism what are you hoping to do on a website where most active members want to rip their eyes out every time they see one of your posts

[lenitynexus]

The same reason grammar blogs exist. Speaking of which, you should look at a few of them.

[the-way-rain-falls-deactivated2]

What the fuck is a grammar blog

[lenitynexus]

http://grammarlyblog.tumblr.com/

My advice is add periods and commas to your posts.

[a-gender-less]

Having the majority of your friends who don’t identify with feminism is really hard.

[lenitynexus]

Maybe you should join in the bandwagon and rethink your identification as a feminist? Also, how is it “hard” for you to not identify with your friends who don’t label themselves as you do? That’s rather judgemental of you. Please, tell me how hard it is.

[v3llichor]

It isn’t hard to have friends who don’t take the label if they believe in human equality and are open to learning, aside from the fact that it’s hard to swallow that they’re not intelligent enough to use words the way they’re defined.

And if they don’t believe in equality, staying friends with them is really hard, because they’re literally saying they don’t believe in my equal worth as a human. Sooner or later it’s just going to lead to frustration and heartbreak, one way or another.

[lenitynexus]

Defined words and they way they’re mutated, misused, and have evolved over the ages. Do the majority of people who identify with being gay actually mean they’re just REALLY, REALLY HAPPY? What about those who use it as a pejorative? “Wow, that movie I just watched was REALLY HAPPY!” Words fluctuate and evolve. Groups of people who use self-identifying words often change the meaning of them through their views. There becomes a point where you wouldn’t want to associate with the word anymore if the common misconception of it is something you don’t agree with.

I used to refer to the negative version of Feminists as “Tumblr Feminists” or “Extreme Feminists” until I realized that every time I tried to argue for their views not being what Feminism is about, they’d turn around and tell me it all just was feminism. So, if these people agree that Feminism is just Feminism and no other words should be used, then so do I... Thus, I no longer agree with their use of that word.

You can be for equal rights and not be a Feminist, because Feminism and their views and philosophy is NOT about equal rights. It can’t possibly be. Feminism degrades and alters the view and INSISTS how you can be a woman and what that entails. Feminism doesn’t actively try to balance out gender issues and misconceptions, especially when it says things like, “Men can’t be raped” or “Men have no voice in Feminist issues.” (IE. ‘Mansplain.’) If Feminism is about EQUALITY then why are they telling a particular gender what they can and can’t do? Why are they demeaning the other gender’s issues, and even harass and or make fun of them when they speak out about it? (Even when they speak up about it and make their own groups?) Do you really not see how that’s not equal and why that would have nothing to do with equality? When you view yourself as the lowest form of life and insist you are, victimizing yourself and blaming the other gender for your issues... That is not equality. Next time ask your women friends if they enjoy being a victimized helpless woman under the crushing arms of the patriarchy. If they disagree and say they’re strong and independent, (or simply ask what the fuck you’re talking about) they are not a feminist, and are for equal rights. Next time you ask your male friends how they enjoy being a privileged rapist and murderer, and their response is “I’m not?” make sure to reinforce the fact that you’re disappointed they’re not a feminist... because that guy’s most likely for equal rights.

[galvieplsno]

Galvie chooses not to shave because she likes to live life uninhibited

[lenitynexus]

I didn’t shave either. The question is exactly… Why are you posting this on Tumblr as if it’s an achievement? 

I also skipped breakfast this morning. Is a picture of an empty bowl tumblr worthy enough?

I didn’t think 2015 was the year the internet ran out of shit to converse about.

[galvieplsno]

Honestly, I could really dive into the story and tell you why it’s a big deal, but I won’t because it’s my blog and I can post whatever the fuck I want lmao 😂

[lenitynexus]

LenityNexus likes your attitude mate. LenityNexus is proud.

[queer-and-sunny]

Men's Rights Activist Subreddit

Somehow I stumbled upon the Men’s Rights Activist subreddit… and oh my god. The horrible things I’m finding.

http://www.avoiceformen.com/mens-rights/whats-the-difference/

https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/3ur30y/the_frisky_automatically_assumes_guilt_ends_james/

Like MRA isn’t bad, but calling feminists horrible and twisting stories? ugh.

[lenitynexus]

Most Tumblr Feminists are horrible people. Have you visited Feminism101 recently? Read any Tumblr posts? Searched the internet? Watched a feminist youtube video? Heard the names Zoe Quinn and Anita Sarkeesian? Feminists are bigoted horrible assholes who self-victimize women. The 2 I listed make a career out of lying and twisting stories. You’d think feminists were horrible too if you had a group of them treating you like sub-human garbage and when you argue back, told your opinions don’t matter because of your gender. Well actually, they do. Because if you disagree with them and you’re a woman, you’re just honing your “repressed misogyny” caused by the patriarchy brainwashing you.  So, either way to feminists you’re always wrong unless you’re a victimized woman.

[queer-and-sunny]

Hi there, I’m a feminist. Please get off my post if you’re just going to say feminists are horrible. There are people who do wrong, but really it seems like you’re trying to say that feminists are horrible. I don’t agree with radical feminists. But I am a feminist, so if you’re going to insult me please leave.

[lenitynexus]

There is no difference between “Feminist” and “Radical Feminist.” They’re both the same. Feminism has taken on the form of “Radical Feminist” and if you don’t think you’re like “Radical feminist” perhaps stop using the term “feminist.” You really think that harassing men on the internet and redefining words and twisting it so that women are constantly victims isn’t horrible? I can give you tons of examples of why they are horrible people. First and foremost, the fact that they don’t empower women at all and their whole thing basically degrades and victimizes them. Do you, as a woman, think you’re a helpless victim who needs coddling? Do you think other women and groups should speak on your behalf? If no, then you’re not a feminist, and most likely don’t share the views they do. How is anything I said insulting you? Claiming I “insulted you” by offering my opinion or going against something you said. That right there is a feminist tactic. Having a discussion is not “insulting” a person.

[fleurnorie-deactivated20160721]

Why is it impossible to fucking just have a conversation with someone all men want to talk about is fucking. Ugh I hate men

[lenitynexus]

Yes, the entire 0 men who contacted you within the 5 minutes between your last post showing your kik, and your new post complaining about all the men who contacted you. I contacted you and you haven’t even been marked as having read my message yet, and it’s been almost an hour. You expect people to believe you just got harassed in the span of 5 minutes? Highly doubtful.

[lenitynexus]

Shut the fuck up. You're not going for equality, you're just harassing people.

Please give me an example of when I harassed anyone. Thank you.

[lenitynexus]

Basically you have been going around and harassing feminist blogs. Please stop. You can believe what you want, but please don't search out feminists. Please don't belittle people. Being a feminist isn't wrong.

I search topics of interest of my blog and respond to them. Isn’t that how Tumblr works?What do you constitute as “harassment?” I haven’t harassed anyone. I simply reblog and add my reply to people’s public posts.How am I “belittling” people?

If you don’t want your posts commented on, don’t post them publicly.As for the question if being a feminist being “wrong” or not, that’s up for you to decide… and I’m here to offer the rude awakening of the negatives of it.Essentially you saying “being a feminist isn’t wrong” is the same thing as saying “Being in the KKK isn’t wrong” or “being in ISIS isn’t wrong.”Most hate-groups believe they’re right, don’t they? You even act like it, with the veil of anonymity by submitting this post anonymously.

[ana-longoria-blog]

Women who say they don’t need feminism can’t handle the responsibility that comes along with having a vagina.

[lenitynexus]

Yes because you telling what women should do is totally for equal rights. Make sure to victimize and shame the female gender some more until they agree with your views.

[ana-longoria-blog]

Sharing my opinion does not qualify as telling anyone what to do, let alone victimizing them. Also, my post comes from a personal anecdote. I’m not stating a general fact, or a scientific law. I respect the fact that you disagree with me, but it is wrong to go after a simple thought when you don’t know the context behind it.

[lenitynexus]

Your opinion implies that women should behave a certain way because they’re women. Whether there’s backstory to it or not is irrelevant, I was simply reading the single post at hand. Your opinion implied that you believe women who say they don’t need feminism can’t handle the “responsibility” that comes with “having a vagina.” – Perhaps you can tell the world of Tumblr what you ACTUALLY meant? Regardless if you’re actively telling people this opinion or not… Like you said, it seems to be your opinion, and it seems like an opinion on how women should react or “handle” themselves.

Sorry if I’m chiming into something that’s a longer string of thoughts and anecdotes, but you posted this publicly on Tumblr and without the context this is how it comes off and you decided to share it.

[ana-longoria-blog]

It may be irrelevant for you, but not for me. I completely  understand your point, and I thank you for pointing it out, but then again, this is merely a matter of two different people expressing different views.

[lenitynexus]

That’s already been established. Not your reasoning behind your opinion. Perhaps it’s just me, but I normally don’t share things with the internet or a blog without expecting some sort of feedback or discussion on the issue. At this point it seems like you’re convincing me that your post is a harmless thing you just felt like posting in passing and everyone should just look away. Kind of like when you randomly shout “what the fuck” in a crowd of strangers and when people look at you funny the reply is “nevermind.” Regardless, nevermind then about your opinion on thinking how women should react to not wanting to be labeled feminists.

[ana-longoria-blog]

Women who say they don’t need feminism can’t handle the responsibility that comes along with having a vagina.

[lenitynexus]

Yes because you telling what women should do is totally for equal rights. Make sure to victimize and shame the female gender some more until they agree with your views.

[ana-longoria-blog]

Sharing my opinion does not qualify as telling anyone what to do, let alone victimizing them. Also, my post comes from a personal anecdote. I’m not stating a general fact, or a scientific law. I respect the fact that you disagree with me, but it is wrong to go after a simple thought when you don’t know the context behind it.

[lenitynexus]

Your opinion implies that women should behave a certain way because they’re women. Whether there’s backstory to it or not is irrelevant, I was simply reading the single post at hand. Your opinion implied that you believe women who say they don’t need feminism can’t handle the “responsibility” that comes with “having a vagina.” -- Perhaps you can tell the world of Tumblr what you ACTUALLY meant? Regardless if you’re actively telling people this opinion or not... Like you said, it seems to be your opinion, and it seems like an opinion on how women should react or “handle” themselves.

Sorry if I’m chiming into something that’s a longer string of thoughts and anecdotes, but you posted this publicly on Tumblr and without the context this is how it comes off and you decided to share it.

[thequixoticreverie]

Feministic Real Talk

Okay…I hate how some guys find it attractive when girls act like “damsels in distress”. Like, are you serious, you need ME to need YOU just so you can be attracted to me? What is that. Why can’t a strong, capable woman be effective in being seen as attractive instead of this child-like naivety and making a guy feel like you need him to be successful in life.

[lenitynexus]

I literally know of 0 guys who find this attractive. I do know of a lot of people who do want themselves to feel needed by their partner. That just seems commonplace in a relationship I believe though. Otherwise, what’s the point of a relationship if you don’t support each other?

[thequixoticreverie]

See, I can understand having a balanced relationship and needing each other. What I don’t understand is how a guy could be focus on one girl and then immediately divert all of their attention and energy to another girl who pulls this stupid act, and then find that more attractive than someone is fully capable of doing things on her own. Has that primitive instinct of needing a man to do things for you, still not left our society? And what for! I think it’s just this article that got me all fired up: http://www.psych2go.net/10-psychological-tricks-to-get-someone-to-like-you/10/ @lenitynexus

[lenitynexus]

I think you misread the article slightly. I’m not sure that’s what it implied. It’s also not implying that this works only for girls and specifically for them. The article is mentioning an actual psychological technique to get someone to pay attention to you. It works too, regardless of gender. Drop a bunch of books or papers in a public place where people notice you, or in front of an acquaintance. As odd as it is to believe, helping others is human nature and usually another person will want to help. It CAN be used as an opening to start dialog or get someone to like you... But I’d take this article with a grain of salt. Not all psychological tricks are guaranteed to work. I don’t see the part where a guy is focusing on a girl and then prioritizing another girl because she’s acting helpless implied in this article at all. Sorry but I think you’re getting more out of this article’s #10 tip than what’s implied by it. I’m not reading any of the extra things you’re stating in your posts VS this “tip” / article. The article simply states that if you play the victim or act like you need help, most likely others will come to your aid.  I’m not finding the “Men would rather have distressed women instead of an empowered woman” in this. Sorry.