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elgreytea

THE ONE THING I WANT

ITS SOMETHING I KNOW I CANT HAVE

BUT I THINK I KNOW NOW

HAPPINESS ISNT IN THE "HAVING"

ITS IN JUST BEING

ITS IN JUST SAYING IT

I KNOW HOW YOU SEE YOURSELF DEAN

YOU SEE YOURSELF THE SAME WAY YOUR ENEMIES SEE YOU.....

YOU'RE THE MOST CARING MAN ON EARTH YOU ARE THE MOST SELFLESS. LOVING HUMAN BEING I WILL EVER KNOW

is-destiel-canon-yet

Is Destiel Canon Yet ?

11/5/2020: Yes.

knifefightscene

stephenroot

klbmsw

fluentisonus

notes apps are like:

carrots

yoghurt

bread

history and fate = same force in opposite directions? fate as forward acting trauma??

flour

meds

femboy-genius-deactivated202407

this is what I do to the people who put unfunny additions to my posts

rnavka

wow uh violence isnt an answer hunty

femboy-genius-deactivated202407

YOU THINK I’M JOKING BUT I’M DEAD SERIOUS

dredsina

one day this comic will reach a million notes and then i’m going to quit my job and become a couch

dredsina

Huh? What’s this? I don’t remember ordering something that big.

Oh, it’s a sofa? I already have one, though…

Hang on, my job sent me this? Is this some sort of bonus or something?

dredsina

Huh??? It’s empty?? Then why was it so heavy…

Oh hang on what’s this?

I’m not sure I can reach it…

dredsina

Oh crap!!!!

dredsina

Everyone who isn’t reblogging this version is a coward and a villain

peanutworm

You, an intellectual: 9+7=16

Me, with ADHD: if you take 1 from 9 and give it to 7 thats 8+8 and 8x2 is 16

Someone, usually a Teacher: NOT LIKE THAT YOU HEATHEN

chiefmilesobrien

This is literally how I would have done it

thewildonion

9 is a hungry bitch and takes one from 7, making it 10+6=16

peanutworm

VALID

dankmemeuniversity

whitepeopletwitter

This is an actual tweet.

theselfcarelifestyle

There is never an excuse for abusive behavior. Apologise and do better.

openblogtomyabusivemother

YES.

technically we’re ALL, always LARPing, because the Self is only a construct,

2rsquared

I want a new character

theprettyboysclub

Then make one.

mundanemelusina

“Then make one” has the same energy as “then perish” but like. Opposite. Same and opposite.

omgthatdress

Putting these up for anyone who needs them today.

Toxic Parents: Overcoming Their Hurtful Legacy and Reclaiming Your Life by Susan Forward

Why Does he DO That: Inside The Minds of Angry and Controlling Men by Lundy Bancroft

superopinionated

Cannot recommend WDHDT highly enough. I’ve found it helpful not just for romantic relationships, but also for growing up w a “unexplainable/uncontrollable” dad.

IT HAS ALSO BEEN REALLY HELPFUL FOR UNDERSTANDING ONLINE MOB HARASSMENT.

So if you’ve ever been bombarded w threats to be raped/killed, (so…if you’re a minority and you’ve been on the Internet for a while), this book might be useful for getting clarity around the whole entitled, abusive mindset that drives certain kinds of people to behave that way. And by “getting clarity”, I mean (for me) being able to go “oh, that’s what’s happening” and not really feel scared anymore. Or angry, or drawn out into it, or anything.

And if you’re still standing around going “but how does something like GamerGate happen?” or “but why do men hit their wives?” or whatever – please read that book and learn something.

omgthatdress

^^^^ truth WDHDT is fantastic at cutting down MRA bullshit and calling it what it really is

kithnkin

Also recommending

swampseer

Please consider reading these. WDHDT is really, really helpful. And I know some of you are struggling with abusive relationships, friendships, families, etc. You’re not alone. There is help.

heysawbones

Yo. This family holiday, please, please take care of yourself. You aren’t there to be anybody else’s cushion.

robotsandfrippary

Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents

Reading any of these books does not mean you don’t love your parents or family. It’s just self care for helping you cope and not repeat the behaviors.