When I say toxic monogamy culture, this is what I mean.
The idea that someone mistreating you is love.
The belief that masturbation after getting a partner means you're a ill behaved person.
The idea that you can't ever masturbate and MUST wait until your marrige partner touches you to ever be touched down there at all.
The fact everyone ignores that whole idea of marrige which stems from oppression and ownership.
The idea that you MUST throw away all your sex toys because "you have a partner now and don't need them "
The normalization of jealousy as a indicator of love.
The fact people think having insecurities makes you a bad partner.
The glorification of jealousy that turns into physical abuse as a indicator of true love and care.
The idea that physical abuse = love
The idea that you owned by your partner.
The fact people knowingly cover up their partner abusing their children cause their partner matters the most..
The idea that all attraction to anyone else just disappears when you put a ring on it.
The false belief that your partner should always know what you're thinking and feeling.
The falsehood that healthy communication is a indicator of failing love.
The idea that you should meet your partners every need no matter the cost.
The belief that your partner matters more then your children.
The idea that your children are your competition...
The idea that having a marrige and children is the only life that's worth living.
The idea that your partner no matter what should always matter more then your family and friends.
The normalization that your partner is allowed to dictate who you speak with.
The fantasy that boundaries stop existing when you get married.
The idea that disagreeing or judging your partner is practicality a horrible offense.
The belief that personal therapy is somehow offensive to your partner.
The idea that consent stops mattering when you're committed to one person.
The idea that your partners sexual trauma doesn't matter as much as your sexual desires..
The fact people think r×pe is okay as long as you're married..
The belief that couples counselling is somehow bad..
The fact people get jealous over character crushes..
The idea that partners should have no privacy at all.
The idea that you must talk with your partner before changing your body because their feelings on your body matter more then your own.
The belief that " true love " without work is a thing..
The falsehood that love =/= understanding
The idea that love =/= trust
The fetishization of taking your partner's virginity..
The idea that a piece of paper the government made = love
The belief that a mental ring = happiness forever.
The idea that breeding is the biggest sign of love and if you can't breed then it's not true love.
The idea that you'll never be unhappy at any point on your marrige ever and if you are then you're a bad partner.
The " you share everything and nothing is your own " belief.
The idea that love = giving virginity.
The idea that your children's lives matter less then the whims of your partner..
The belief that you'll know exactly who you are and will be completely whole just because you have a partner.
The idea that you'll never fully love yourself until someone else loves you.
The belief that your value as a partner should indicate how you value yourself.
The belief that self-care is selfishness.
The belief that divorce is bad.
The idea that you'll be whole when you're married.
The fact people think emotionally loving your children more or just as much as your partner is bad.
The falsehood that sex = love.
The idea that alone time is selfish.
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