Hereâs why I still canât 'hate' the Diaz parents - not even as fictional characters
Watching s8Ăe12 âDisconnectedâ right now: and oh man, that kitchen talk between Ramon and Eddie? Makes it hard for me not see rl family dynamics. And to not think that the show failed Ramon here (unnecessarily).
Itâs when Ramon says, âYou donât need to buy his love, Eddie. You already have itâ Along with the rest, thatâs pretty much what Eddie needed to hear. So for me, that was the signal that Ramon was acting as the mediator here, trying make it easier for all sides & to find common ground.
Letâs be clear: that rarely ends well when it goes on for too long. And yet, even irl, there will always be situations where we try just that. Even though itâs not an ideal solution. Even though no one acts at their best.
It is likely that Helena at least made the suggestion and that it wasnât all Chrisâs idea. Still, it would make sense that (when it started) they just didnât want to "argue" with him. To prevent Chris from closing off even more. Thatâs also why it was ârightâ that Eddie let him go.
Eddieâs parents, especially his mum, still believe they have to protect Chris. But they donât realise that all theyâre doing by now is replaying their relationship with Eddie. Trying to do better, yet just making things worse.
Long story short: after that scene, I thought that Ramon knew that. And thatâs what actually frustrates me about this whole Kim-TX-feverdream.
Because that heads up in the kitchen? Wouldâve been consistent with what happened earlier. That Ramonâs the one who actually realises, that he wasnât the type of parent he always wanted to be. That he hurt Eddie and wanted to do better in future.
What happened at the chess tournament, tho? To me, that seemed more like Helenaâs 'style'. My point is: This BS was mainly frustrating because, from my POV, it (on a few key points) just didnât fit the characters at all. (huff) đđ