Gender Discussion Page

Talk about anything and everything… mainly dysphoria

[internettwink]

Transmeds: so…you don’t need dysphoria to be trans

Tucutes: ya

Transmeds: which means that anyone can technically be trans

Tucutes: I guess. All you have to do is say you’re trans! And just be happy as the gender you’re going to!

Transmeds: …which means you can choose to be trans

Tucutes: kinda? It’s more complicated than that but technically yes?

Transmeds: you..realize that transphobes say the exact same thing…that anyone can identify as trans nowadays and people chose to be trans.

Tucutes: shut up transphobe.

[livelaughloveme10]

this

[strawbee-s]

So according to transmeds/truscum, you need gender dysphoria to but trans, but that doesn’t make sense cause often times cis people don’t have gender dysphoria, so saying that you need dysphoria to be transgender is further distancing ourselves and implying that we aren’t “real men/women” which is overall not really progressive.

[tucutetufunction]

This this this! In fact, if you’re dysphoric and trans, you’re being transphobic against yourself because you’re saying you’re not a real man/woman. You’re not only hurting nondysphoric trans people by saying trans people have dysphoria. 

[transmed-rita]

I disagree on the basis that dysphoric trans people cannot control being dysphoric. Dysphoria is a disorder, being trans isn’t. I’m top dysphoric, but I’ve been less so since I became a tucute. Transmedicalism is unfortunate because tm’s are obsessed with hating themselves and tearing down others.

[tucutetufunction]

Well, I hope someday you can fully assymilate to the tucutes and then you won’t be dysphoric anymore :) 

[livelaughloveme10]

that's not how dysphoria works

[tucutetufunction]

this is your daily reminder that trans people without dysphoria are valid

(and cute!)

[the-discourse-knight]

This is your daily reminder that trans people without dysphoria aren’t trans

(and selfish if they try to get HRT)

[tucutetufunction]

🚫Read my DNI before you reblog from me and Stop gatekeeping ACTUAL trans people just because they don’t fit your personal definition of trans.🚫

[livelaughloveme10]

this is your daily reminder that no one is going to go out of their way to read your DNIs, especially since you didn't remind them to

(and also that DNIs literally don't stop anyone)

[antitransmedicalism]

You’re a dickhead, it’s not because you’re anti-transmed, but you just come off as the most narcissistic, holier-than-thou type person who is always right no matter what. Take a chill pill dude

OIDSHIDFJGBJGJNOBKTRK HELLO??????? HOW THO?????

Anon, I’m not tryna be “holier than thou”, transmeds are. I’m just challenging transmeds and their ideology. I honestly do not know where you are getting this shit from lmao

[boy-milf-supreme]

Dude you basically call transmedicalists mindless cultists. If you want to have an actual debate maybe you should stop calling the other side names. 

[antitransmedicalism]

Oh, so calling transmeds “cultists” is suddenly me being an “arrogant” person?? Wrow lmao I didn’t know challenging and opposing transmeds makes me an arrogant person

Stop acting like a fool. You have no right to complain about me calling you guys cultist, when last time, you literally kept calling me a tucute, despite me telling you that I’m not one. You transmeds actually start the name-calling by calling me a tucute.

[boy-milf-supreme]

Tucute LITERALLY means someone who believes you don’t need dysphoria to be transgender. That’s what you believe so that’s what I am calling you. Also calling transmeds cultists isn’t ‘’challenging’’ the other side, it’s you being a dick because you don’t agree with someone else. 

[antitransmedicalism]

Cool but here’s my opinion: One can believe that dysphoria isn’t needed to be trans, but doesn’t have to align oneself with tucutes. That is my case, and I’m not a tucute. Just like how a person can have some liberal opinions, but not have to align with the liberal ideology itself.

I actually have debates, and I do try and reason with transmeds, but how can I reason with transmeds that come into my inbox with their belligerence and invalidation of other gender-incongruent people? That’s not fair, like at all. So, since transmeds come and fling shit at me, I’m going to throw that shit back.

[livelaughloveme10]

you need dysphoria to be trans. Gender isn't a "feeling." if you feel uncomfortable with yourself, that's normal. that is not dysphoria. Dysphoria is what makes people transition, aka be trans. You can't transition just because you feel uncomfortable with a singular body part. Once his uncomfort wears off, you'll have ACTUAL DYSPHORIA and want to retransition. Transmeds reinforcing the fact that you need dysphoria to be trans is actually saving others a whole lot of time.

[cistrans-guy]

Being trans is not a simple life

For actual trans people (us dysphorics), it’s something that will always affect us, our choices, and our lives, whether we like it or not.

So please stop using my medical condition to validate how you “feel”.

It’s not as simple as a feeling.

It can fuck up your life.

[leftgender]

[livelaughloveme10]

dysphoria is a mental illness. and it causes people to be trans.

[livelaughloveme10]

sometime i just seriously want to sit down and have a long talk with a tucute. i think it would go either one of two ways: 1. it could change their perspective so they are more considerate when thinking about gender so they don't just toss it around for every personality trait, or 2. it would be hilarious as fuck to watch them freak out over me being "transphobic" and "not accepting." someone needs to make this happen

[a-cute-trans-man]

Trans people don’t have to wish we were cis.

Trans people don’t have to be sad we’re trans.

Trans people don’t have to think 24/7 about “how much better our life would be if we were cis”.

Trans people don’t have to fit an expected or ideal narrative to be trans.

[livelaughloveme10]

all trans people should think that their life would be better as a cis person, because cis people don't experience dysphoria or have to deal with the constant criticism of it. if someone loves being trans 24/7, they just aren't trans. sorry.

[troonofficial]

Do you believe there are gay aces/aros?

What about bi aces/aros?

Lesbian aces/aros?

If yes, then there are also straight aces/aros.

Asexuality does not inherently make you straight.

Asexuality does not inherently make you gay.

It is it’s own thing.

[tootruscum]

no no nooo if ur asexual ur asexual, u can’t be ace AND gay or ace AND straight ffs

not having sex =/= asexual

[hexaquarion]

I’m ace and gay. My attraction to other dudes is muffled by disinterest in sex, but that doesn’t mean I’m not invested.

Asexual does not equal 0 attraction, it just means zero sexual attraction. There’s still plenty of love to go around.

[troonofficial]

^^^ exactly hex.

Also @tootruscum dont you think it’s kinda fucked up to reduce gay people to their sexuality? You don’t have to have sex to be gay.

People can be ace for multitudes of reasons but what about people who are ace as a result of trauma? Is their gay card revoked because they don’t suck dick?

[tootruscum]

If u feel attraction, romantic or not, u are not asexual.

If you’re gay and don’t have sex, ur still gay, u just don’t have fuckin sex

what is hard 2 understand here

[troonofficial]

You literally are though? If u feel romantic attraction you can still be ace, and vice versa. While it is harmful to apply the split attraction model to non-aces, it makes perfect sense for aces.

You can be Aromantic Homosexual.

You can be Heteromantic Asexual.

You just don’t seem to understand how asexuality…works?

People can be aro/ace as well, meaning they experience no attraction, if that is what you’re thinking of. But gay aces exist and it is genuinely homophobic of you to imply that you have to experience sexual attraction, otherwise you aren’t a “true gay”, as homophobes reduce gay people to ‘sexual deviants’ all the time.

[tootruscum]

Asexuality is a sexuality in itself

If u don’t experience romance but u wanna have sex, ur not fucking asexual

If u experience romantic attraction but don’t wanna have sex, then u just don’t wanna have fucking sex

like omfg

[livelaughloveme10]

what is so hard to understand?

asexual: lacking sexual attraction

aromantic: lacking romantic attraction

you can be asexual and homoromantic. you can be aromantic and heterosexual. therefore, you can be ace and gay, aro and het, or any other combination.

hope this helps.

[queerlection]

[Image description - Images of the trans and the nonbinary pride flag with the text: I SUPPORT NON-DYSPHORIC NONBINARY PEOPLE. End description.]

[livelaughloveme10]

well i don't :)

[realtransfacts]

Fact #592: Non-dysphoric trans people who want to medically transition should 100% be allowed to do so. They should be allowed to do whatever they please with their own bodies.

[livelaughloveme10]

i like your name because it sounds like real trans fats :----))))

[trainwreckbisexual]

i rly dont understand that persons insistence that dysphoric trans ppl always have it worse. they really think a dysphoric trans person transitioning in a supportive environment has it worse than a non-dysphoric who has been kicked out for being trans & is now struggling just to survive? ur absolutely right that its not a competition, & im not trying to make it one, im just saying their argument is fundamentally flawed bc there r more factors to suffering than “dysphoric” vs “non-dysphoric”.

yeah

[livelaughloveme10]

non-dysohorics are cis so they don't have to struggle lol

[epahst-deactivated20210525]

⭐️ transmeds aren’t ugly ⭐️

✨transmeds deserve respect ✨

🌷transmedicalism isn’t a harmful opinion🌷

💐transmeds don’t deserve to die💐

🌻transmeds don’t deserve to be excluded 🌻

🌲dysphoric transmeds are amazing🌲

🍄cis transmeds are real allies🍄

🍀transmeds are smart☘️

🍂transmeds are beautiful🍂

If you believe you need dysphoria to be trans, this post is for you. Having an opinion like this can be difficult on a platform like tumblr, but you can do this! You have science on your side!

anyone can interact but if you’re just gonna tell me to die i wouldn’t bother because i won’t reply!

[low-or-no-dyspho-ria]

never feel dysphoria? cool! you’re still trans!

felt dysphoria once or twice? cool! you’re still trans!

feel weak dysphoria? cool! you’re still trans!

only feel certain types of dysphoria? cool! you’re still trans!

fluctuating levels of dysphoria? cool! you’re still trans!

i wish upon everyone seeing this post gender euphoria

[livelaughloveme10]

people who never feel dysphoria are cis, simple as that

[spill-the-gender-tea]

Take a fuckin sip babes.

[kuronislove]

Yeah what the actual fuck? You don’t have to experience dysphoria to be trans??

[livelaughloveme10]

yes you do??? sorry, but everyone that doesn't experience dysphoria is just cis and trying to be special

[officialmugi-deactivated2024071]

Just putting this out there.

[livelaughloveme10]

haha, this made me laugh because you're wrong

[maphatingcharacteroftheday]

reblog if youre happy “pedophile” is a “””demonising label””” and cant wait for pedophiles to get arrested! 

also reblog to make a pedophile have a TERRIBLE day full of bad news and ill health! likes charge, reblogs cast, and a ‘👊’ in the tags gives it a little more strength! 

[livelaughloveme10]

i meannn, I’m not going to wish a bad day on someone who hasn’t really done anything wrong (still not pro-pedophile, though. I’m just fine with it if they aren’t hurting anybody ig)

[maphatingcharacteroftheday]

Me: reblog to make a pedophile have a bad day

You, reblogging: #NotAllPedophiles

[livelaughloveme10]

i was just trying to make a point. not everyone reblogging everything is reblogging because of the reason someone said they should.