Neji Hyuga : What it Means to Love a Man Like Him
Anyone who watches Naruto knows Neji Hyuga. Although not always in the spotlight, our dearest Neji has a loyal following of fans who would argue, "Who cares about Sasuke when there's Neji?"
Yeah... well... about that...
No, it's not because he died. It's what if he did live and what it would mean if he did find a romantic partner he wants to marry.
Many people say, Neji should have ended with Tenten. Either way, whoever he marries would probably think twice before saying yes, including Tenten. And Neji would probably think a thousand times before he asks that question, "Will you marry me?"
I think if he thinks carefully, and I know he would, he would end in this one heart shattering question he must ask himself... "If I truly love her, would I condemn her to a life like this... with me?"
It sounds dramatic but really it's not.
The reality of Neji's quality of life is only slightly touched upon in the Naruto universe. A massive disservice to our beloved Neji who becomes an abandoned "side-quest" of Naruto's, and a forgotten character left to rot in the tragedy of his existence. As a member of the branch family.
I think it's common knowledge now that Neji comes from the branch family of the Hyuga clan. He lives his life to serve the main branch, who leads and must be protected at all cost. Including the lives of those in the branch family.
This devotion isn't freely given. It is instilled upon with a mark on their foreheads... that causes severe pain and if they be willing, death.
Neji lived his whole life with this knowledge; that he is there to serve, under strict rules, and even watched his own father, on the floor, in pain. I don't know about you, but that would be a core memory for me.
That being said, if you love and marry Neji Hyuga, it means you're marrying into oppression. Your husband is owned, and so will you. So will your CHILDREN. Marked at the age of three, unable to ever say no or refuse a request.
"We need someone to take this fall for us."
You see what I mean? That can easily happen to Neji and your child. Hell, that happened to Neji's dad.
You will have to live within the walls of the Hyuga clan, and you can not leave. Unless you want to leave without your husband and baby.
We can argue, if Neji wants to marry someone, that person needs to stand strong enough to fight the system and dismantle it from the inside out. Now that would be a great romance fanfiction. Until they decide to pop Neji's head. As a lesson to everyone else who's watching.
A real life example of this, would be Princess Diana and Megan Markle. Regardless of your personal opinion about them, they're also married into a system. Albeit it very different, but these two women fought in their own way for different reasons.
And that could be you. Only this time, you're not a princess... you're just a wife of a Shinobi born into the branch family.
If you marry Neji... you must really, really, love this man.
Would you marry Neji?
Yes, even if it means I see my kids be marked.
No, I love him but I love my freedom more.
Voting ended onJan 30