* WARNING: THIS POST CONTAINS MENTIONS OF FETISHISM*
I'm a lurker on tiktok but I've been seeing posts from this one page called bbwpearadise and it's kind of weirding me out. On the one hand, it's showing a lot beautiful fat women having fun together but the man who runs it all is a fetishist who is framing this as a "body positive " commune. Here are some screenshots to tell you all what I'm talking about.
See how the image is very much in the style of bbw fetish art.
Also, though he says the place is open to any race, size, age, or gender, I don't really see any other men on his videos.
This is super sketchy to me because this is clearly the fetishization of fat women by a thin white man under the
I still see this dude on my fyp and I still feel the same way. I'm only reblogging this because he changed the picture in his linktree and I feel like that could be setting fat women up to be fetishized without their consent.
The women who go there have every right to do so. Some of them are SWs and if this helps their business, then more power to them. My concern is for people who don't realize this man is a feeder and might be put in bad situations if they engage with him
Also, his repeated emphasis on "body positivity" is actively associating body positivity and fat positivity with fat fetishization. Go look at his profile and and look at the comments. He's got a lot of engagement, with a lot of fat women saying they want to party with him. This is concerning to me
An hbo doc was made about this guy. I figured I'd reblog so people know this was being talked about in the body positive community at the time.
