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Amani • 25 • commie• a cautionary tale • • they/them/babygirl

[captvreme]

[throwupgirl]

aborted doechii: i mean fuck i wouldve liked pills i wouldve liked drugs i wouldve liked gettin money i wouldve liked strippers i wouldve liked to fuck i wouldve liked day drinking and day parties and hollywood i wouldve liked doing hollywood shit snort it probly would!

[boudhabar]

[kata4a]

try not to imply that vegetables can have redemptive relationships with god???

[satanfemme]

you've gotta be kind to yourself no matter what

[satanfemme]

this is twice as true in the winter

[satanfemme]

the world isn't ending and you don't need to kill yourself it's literally december. it's december. and you need to be nice to yourself.

[radfemart]

I appreciate the sentiment but I don't get all those "we made it to the longest night of the year! the light will start returning soon! it's all uphill from here & we're halfway there!" posts because like. Oct-Dec is the easier half of Winter. Jan-Apr is way harder. there's no big holidays or decorations, everyone is kind of over the whole Cozy Hygge Sweaters & Cocoa vibe so they're just tired & restless instead, and the whole thing is so drawn out & uneventful that it feels like it lasts 10x longer

[radfemart]

the cold season Oct-Dec:

the cold season Jan-Apr:

[smoothoperatorleclerc]

rb to have an extra gay 2026

[leviathan-supersystem]

internet politics and real-world politics have gotten so separated, and pretty soon all this internet weirdness is gonna come crashing into real life and politicians are gonna start throwing around words like “SJW” and “anime communist” and “dark enlightenment” and it’s just gonna be the most ridiculous fucking thing

[heritageposts]

date of origin: 13th of april, 2015.

[leviathan-supersystem]

happy 10 year anniversary!

[august--and-everything-after]

[headspace-hotel]

This post.

This fucking post.

It is in some ways, the only piece of evidence I have that there was a time Before.

[ashenmind]

“protect children” <- reactionary drivel basically every time

“be kind to children” <-radical thinking that causes way more arguments than you would ever imagine

[usefuljesbian]

"empower children" <- even more radical thinking that will get the "protect children" crowd claiming you're the one they need to be protected from

[studio-kiki]

[wholeheartedsuggestions]

you have proven again and again that you can survive. this is just more of that.

[wholeheartedsuggestions]

here’s to all the things you survived quietly and privately this year

[aropride]

first rule of december 26-31 don’t think about your life

[fridgebride]

sometimes you just gotta read something and say “i literally don’t care” aloud and move on

[galvanized-galatea]

This is an incredibly valuable skill. I've noticed an increase in my personal happiness by doing this.

[hagiomoto]

[anarchistmemedistro]

[imsobadatnicknames2]

I want slower packages delivered by transportation workers who are paid more to work less and I'm not kidding

[theparadigmshifts]

@mortuarybees​: #i think its deeply important for all of us to come to terms with the fact that its actually fine to be mildly inconvenienced

[anarchistmemedistro]

[depsidase]

[dandelionsresilience]

Just gonna drop these here as a starting point :)

How to identify, and then deal with, your emotions

Emotional regulation skills

Conflict resolution skills

Creating and enforcing boundaries

Dialectical Behavioural Therapy skills

Emotional intelligence ideals to aim for

Axes of self-care/wellbeing

Self-care self-evaluation (find out where you’re starting)

How to make a self-care checklist

How to start a self-care habit

Reparenting resources

Crash Course Psychology

KhanAcademy: Understanding the Self and Society (some units more relevant than others)

Emotional education activities for children and teens

Social-Emotional Learning activities for kids (information can be adapted for adults)