HBCU Gradblr

A 20-something counselor-in-training ~ NCAT alumna ~ Bowie State grad student

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Graduation countdown: 8 days

last day of classes was Tuesday, I submitted all assignments last week. on the job hunt while I work on my LGPC application. ready for the next chapter of my life. thank you to everyone that has followed this journey and supported me. guess I'll have to rename this page after next week

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Countdown to Graduation:72 days

Just booked my graduation photoshoot. Taking drapes and cap + gown pictures next week

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when i titled my gradblr "lost in grad school" i didn't imagine the extent to which i could actually become lost

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I'm back!

Couldn't find my password and life happened so this blog kinda got thrown on the backburner. Don't even remember when I last posted but I'll give you a recap of the last couple years ~

soooo

- all classes went virtual March 2020, went home for spring break and didn't come back

- returned to MD in May because I got a job

- officially moved back home Sept. 2020 because school was still fully virtual

- started practicum Jan. 2021

- fast forward to August 2021, school was transitioning back to in person so I had to move BACK to MD; living on campus with undergrad roommates, working on campus as a GA

- now Spring 2022, finished my field experiences, and I'm set to graduate in May :)

- currently : my seminar class is kicking my butt trying to complete a thesis

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Black Healthcare | Healing While Black

Looking for black healthcare professionals? Healing While Black has an extensive listing of black professionals, such as doctors, therapists

An online directory geared towards the black community where you can find the black healthcare professionals you need. Trying to gain exposure so please check us out and share with your friends! Hope this helps someone that comes across it

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Proud to say I officially launched my website today! I’ve been working extremely hard on this project and it has finally come to fruition. Healing While Black - healingwhileblack.info - is an online directory that allows people to find black healthcare professionals they need. I hope you all love this website as much as I do. Share it with your friends, feel free to send in suggestions. New states and professionals will be added soon!

http://healingwhileblack.info

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hey everyone! with the start of the new school year right around the corner, i thought i’d make my first ~studyblr masterpost~ in an attempt to consolidate some tips & goals that i’ve found helpful or that i plan to use for online classes. honestly, these might be useful even for in-person classes!

1. DEVELOP YOUR STUDY SYSTEM

it’s very easy for me to download files into multiple different folders, take notes in whatever notebook’s closest to me, or jot down dates on the back of envelopes. then, when i need to study or double check a syllabus or instructions, i have no idea where to look.  

instead: choose one or two methods of storing information. you can go all-online (notion, google drive, microsoft word, etc), all physical (notebooks, printing out worksheets and assignment info, etc), or a blend (storing readings online, but handwriting notes, for example). consider making a list of your classes and noting where to find your work for each class, so if you store your work for architecture class online but your history class in 2 separate notebooks, you don’t waste time looking in the wrong place. 

2. PLAN YOUR SCHEDULE

no, you don’t have to make a timetable for every minute of every day. but creating a general study schedule will allow you to mentally prepare for busy days and quickly see when you’re free. 

use an online calendar or planner to block off class and study time. then, add other categories, such as: sleep, mealtimes, pet care, exercise, naps, writing, reading, clubs, or other regular obligations. i’m guilty of making mine too detailed and usually up completely blowing off my minute-by-minute schedule, so making a vague timetable and then adding categories as time goes on is probably your best bet. life happens, and you can’t account for everything. i also like to use post-its on my door or mirror to remind me what i absolutely need to get done at certain times!

3. DON’T IGNORE ‘OPTIONAL’ WORK

your professor records weekly lectures and assigns reading to go along with it. you’re tempted to do just one or the other - maybe you’re tempted to watch the lecture and skip the reading or take notes from the reading and skip the lecture. don’t do it!!! make it a goal to do both!!!

find ways to make undesirable work more bearable. can you listen to lectures while making dinner or going for a walk? how about taking notes while listening to your favorite movie soundtrack? for me, even getting cozy with some blankets, comfy clothes, and tea helps. anything that makes you dread schoolwork is a win!!

4. GET OFF THE INTERNET

i am SO guilty of spending most my time on either tumblr, instagram, or tiktok (endless fyp? no clock? yeahhh my screen time isn’t great). going on instagram when i wake up somehow turns into an hour of…doing what? i have no idea. 

set reminders to do something without your phone. by this i mean: do not bring your phone with you. leave it at home when you go for a walk, don’t multitask watching a movie and answering emails, don’t browse social media while you eat. pick one or more ways to practice completely disconnecting for a while every day!. whether all of your classes are online or just a few (or none!), your brain really does need a break from screens. at the very least, try to avoid blue light before bed (yeah, i know you’ve heard this one before). for me, the tide app is a lifesaver, and i know a lot of you love forest. otherwise, set reminders using a calendar app or your alarm clock!

5. MONITOR AND CARE FOR YOUR MENTAL HEALTH

obviously miss rona has thrown a wrench in many of our plans for school, work, and life in general. if not, there’s no way it hasn’t impacted you in some way or another. pay attention to your thoughts, energy levels, and how you’re coping with recent changes. now’s a really good time to reach out for help if you’re able to; if not, there are various online resources and communities that might help you until you can. mental health support is for everyone. 

some masterposts and resources that may be helpful:

 mental health masterpost by @adelinestudiess

self-help masterpost by @self-care-club

being a student with mental illness by @celeztialstudies

and these mental health resources and hotlines

6. STAY CONNECTED ONLINE IF YOU CAN’T IN PERSON

the first month of my freshman year of college will be online, the rest of the semester will likely be online (though i will be on-campus), and i’m not allowed to see most of my friends. i’m guessing i’m not the only one! regardless of your personal situation, it can be really hard but so helpful to stay in touch with friends, family, and faculty. the first few months were full of zoom calls and virtual hangouts, but they might be dying down by now. 

send letters, set up virtual calls with far-away friends, go to office hours, or video call family members. this might be the hardest one on this list, seeing as most of us are suffering from zoom burnout already. to avoid the potential stress of spontaneous socializing, try scheduling a call once a week at a regular time, asking your friends to facetime later, creating a weekly study group for your classes, watching netflix with someone using an extension like netflix party, texting acquaintances to check in, sending letters/emails to older family members, getting involved in an online community (this is studyblr promo :D) or making a goal to go to office hours once a week/twice a month, etc. 

hopefully these gave you a few ideas on how you might get organized and tackle online classes this year! 

some other studyblr masterposts to get inspired: 

school cheat sheet by @jwstudying 

school tips masterpost by @crimstudies

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Focus on what you can control, let go of what you can’t

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