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Call me Lex. I'm a mid-20s otter, switch/vers, aro-ace and more into kinks than sex. I'm some flavor of trans and that's all you need to know. People who themselves are detrans okay to follow but not if you're gonna get evangelical about it or co-opt me in – that means no reblogging from a detrans fetish blog. Anyone trying to detrans anyone else (outside of specifically solicited kink context) can fuck all the way off. I will block you if you harsh the vibe.
Speaking of vibes, info below.
Into:
Relationship anarchy (sharing out partners, showing off partners, participation by watching, group dynamics, co-subbing, platonic sex, other "what do you mean that counts as sex," getting funky with top/bottom dynamics, both parties forced, free use, nonsexual kink/+pale porn)
Genderplay (crossdressing, breeding, forced x-inization/omegaverse bitching, petplay, whatever's having fun with it)
Improbable insertion (autopenetration, strange penetration points, earfucking, bulging, all the way through, fisting, sounding)
Weaponization of the body (impregnation/breeding, expansion/inflation/cum inflation, lactation/milking, transformation, aphrodisiacs, heat/rut, bullying erotic weak points)
Domination/control (overpowering of wills/turnabout/domming the dom, domming as a sub, being made to submit/forcibly overcome, breeding, "you have no choice but to be good for me"/"See? I knew you'd be good," forced caretaking); subspace, dacryphilia, service tops
Hypnosis (dumbification/IQ-play, noticeable signs of someone dropping/being dropped into trance, intox, covert hypno, sluttification, fractionation, memoryplay, himbofication, dehumanization/dollification/altered states, common sense adjustment, mindfuck/mindbreak/instant loss); "X does y, you do y, therefore you are an x"/"X does y, you are x, therefore you y"
Warm humiliation (objectification, teasing, talking casually to a not currently involved participant over the sub's head about something unrelated, degradation as praise and vice versa, interrogation kink, forced exhibitionism in a safe space, forced caretaking)
Dubcon (ambiguous consent/eventual consent/"it's okay they liked it"; "white knight" dubcon, forced, cnc)
Nonhuman (tentacles, knots, wingkink, oviposition/eggpreg, object insertion, machines – erotic maintenance, wireplay)
Loyalty, service
Voice
Preferred terms:
Cock, dick
Sheath, quim, clit, wetness, sometimes cunt
Tits, chest
"Good": boy, girl, toy, blade, knight, cabur, kitty; potentially other pet genres if suitable
(Update: might be a dog now? Unsure)
Baby, sweetheart, (sweet/pretty/adj, + optional "little") thing, knight, cabur, slut, toy/boytoy, (kink-)slut, anything with a slightly mocking/sarcastic twist
Alpha, Sir (like a knight, not a tumblr dom whipping the bed with "You. Come. Now."), baby (said with reverence); potentially more but I won't know til someone whimpers it for me
Avoided terms:
Pussy, breasts ("breast" singular okay for total chest area), lower lips, womb, panties, taint, gock; Goddess
Not against it per se but it sounds weird: bussy, nipples, areola/e, boypussy, front hole, cheeks, pucker, perineum, scrotum, testicles; sweetness without a sharp edge
I prefer "dom" over "Dom" or "d/Domme."
Don't bring this up/not into it:
Scat, diapers/ABDL/messing, sex in public bathrooms
Slob, piggy, musk, spit; feet, armpits
Pain: bloodplay, knifeplay, yandere, snuff, guro, choking
Needles, tickling
Latex, dronification, GGMMGG/serial recruitment
Teacher/student, boss/secretary, master/slave, jailer/prisoner, nurse kink, maid kink
Human Domestication Guide
Permanent change
Dishumanization; malicious intention
Blanket sociobiological determinism; real-world prejudice: raceplay/+cucking, misogyny, sissification, gay/dykebreaking, etc
Genuine fear, obvious lack of consent/rape, jealousy, trust failure
Disgust from onlookers/unwilling third parties
Anything acknowledging a fetus; bodily parasitism/visible independent movement under skin
Irl: pregnancy, bestiality/k9, incest, underage, age gap (generation +), drug use
Obligatory "it's fictional" disclaimer. We are having fun. Play with me in this space – if you're curious about any of this, just send an ask. I'd be happy to give a (probably far too extensive) explanation.
Speaking of explanations, you may find more in my 101 tag. Current posts include: What's up with the emote tags?
Down to chat if you're cool. Don't assume I want pics. Almost always up to take on writing requests if they seem interesting, though.
May be updated later.



















