i have no idea what im doing

raven ♡ im kinda dumb ♡ 20 ♡ transfem butch ♡ she/he

[cafandnaps]

Princess are you ok? You’ve hardly touched your tall, brooding knight who looks at you with burning anguish as you entertain your suitors at court.

[uhhhhgay]

googled my symptoms and turns out I have to have a pretty girl kiss me

[bunniesrabbits]

going on estrogen will make you like men, going on testosterone will also actually make you like men, breathing and existing in the world will make you like men too actually . what ? you’re a lesbian ? don’t be ridiculous . have you considered that you might just not be far enough in your transition to realize that you’re sexually available to men, actually ? what about men ? have you considered transitioning into being a sex object for men, actually ? after all, it’s only natural .

[cybercerealkiller]

"you're a lesbian? well actually men can be lesbians so you like men actually"

[stygiancorvuscorax]

deleting this fucking hellsite app

[stygiancorvuscorax]

it's crazy how transfems will be "banned for sexual content" for literally nothing but meanwhile all the most extreme (and in some cases genuinely illegal) kink stuff ive had the misfortune of seeing on here has been posted by transmascs and that never gets removed or even talked about

[evilgirlbat]

"you're biased in favor of trans women" yes. i am. and i'm entirely right for it.

[transcendingirl]

give that tgirl hugs until she isn't afraid of touch, btw

[transsexual-feminism]

This is transfeminism!

[aliiiiiiice]

[monidoll]

you ever notice how "male crossdresser" and "femboy" are substantially more common in art than canonical trans women? even though in real life its the opposite and many of these "femboys" are just closeted trans women? notice how to certain audiences the crossdresser is still infinitely more palatable than an actual trans woman? notice how basically the only audience to whom a trans woman is "palatable" are trans woman?

[lesbx]

whenever theres a woman im like YAY. whenever theres not a woman im like meh. i’ve seen better

[bundleofstx]

How did we let this happen to feminism? During Trump’s first administration, even liberal feminism could still stage resistance. The Women’s March was massive, public, impossible to ignore. By the second, the energy was gone.

The outrage had thinned into isolation, and private despair. people still protested, but not with the scale, coherence, or feminist force that marked 2017. not that no one cares but that feminism no longer seems able to act like a movement when fascism is in our house.

[foxboytail]

As a young adult, I used to think what messed me up as a kid was having completely unfiltered access to things I wasn’t ready for, like NSFW content, gore, heavy discourse, and the existence of predatory adults online. But now that I’m older, I see it differently.

The problem wasn’t what I had access to. It was that I didn’t have access to a safe adult I could actually talk to; someone I could trust to help me without immediately cutting me off from everything and everyone. I remember getting messages from strangers on Skype. I didn’t even respond. But when my parents found out, they banned me from using it entirely. That meant losing most of my contact with friends outside of school. So what did I do? I went behind their backs. And once I was hiding, I couldn’t tell them when something actually dangerous was happening, like when I started being groomed. By the time things escalated, I was already alone with it.

I think about an episode of Scared Straight where a girl was dragged through a prison because she’d been talking to adult men online. She wasn’t doing that because she was reckless or malicious; she was lonely. Her parents weren’t present, she was being bullied at school, and these men gave her attention, told her she was pretty, told her she mattered. She was already being harmed. And the adults in her life responded by terrorizing her. Humiliating her. Calling her a slut. Telling her she deserved it. Breaking her to pieces.

What lesson does that actually teach? Not “this is dangerous, come to us.” It teaches: If you get hurt, we will hurt you more. Do you really think that makes her stop, or does it just make the predators look safer by comparison? They might as well have driven her straight into the jaws of those predators with torches and pitchforks. Because when every path back to safety is lined with punishment, kids don’t run away from danger. They run deeper into it.

If you want kids to be safe, stop treating them like problems to control and start treating them like people worth protecting. Stop ripping away their autonomy the second they make a mistake or encounter something risky. Stop teaching them that honesty will cost them everything.

Be the person they can come to without fear of losing their entire world. Because safety isn’t built through control, it’s built through trust. And if you aren’t safe for them to tell the truth to, then you aren’t keeping them safe at all.

[uhnonymoos]

"transfems can have sex life and maybe even talk about it and maybe even a lot to someone or somewhere" and "transfems existing isn't inherently sexual" is something that must coexist by DEFAULT if you see transfems as human as you see everyone else

[comrade-ashenov]

Well, have you?

[transsexual-feminism]

Every time I bring up my belief that a transfem is oppressed before she or anyone else realizes she's transfem to tme people, I universally get met with skepticism or even outright hostility.

Every time I bring it up to transfems, I get immediate positive acknowledgement. I have had so many girls tell me awful stories from their egg days, some more awful than I could have ever imagined.

Even those of us without stories from the beforetimes still wear the scars. Regularly I'll come across transfems who don't remember huge parts of their pre-hatch life. Regularly I'll come across transfems with self worth so low they see being objectified as a compliment. Regularly I'll come across traumagenic plural transfems who have had their psyche shattered from childhood trauma. (this is kind of a self report considering we are or have been all of these lol)

The reason TME people don't want to acknowledge this reality is because they are complicit in it. They were the ones traumatizing us, and they haven't stopped. Trauma is not inherent to transfeminine existence, it is a product of the transmisogyny these people refuse to admit exists.

[sailatina3]

The truth is the police do not develop their prejudice out of thin air or because they are police. They have the same prejudice that the grand majority of you do. It is obvious that most tumblr users truly have the same mentality as any pig and simply just don't have that job. This means you have much fewer resources to enact systematic violence. But it doesn't stop you from harrasment, doxxing, assaulting, lynching, etc. You justify it by saying you're protecting the community or children, that killing your "local pedophile" is good. But in truth, you are racially profiling people and subscribing to ancient transmisogynistic narratives.

[amelia-d03]

crop top + no bra is kinda peak cause then you can just kinda idly grope ur boobs