We Are Not Things

Formerly SPN blog 32 // minors allowed but don’t engage closely keep a distance pls i am not comfortable with it

[lilliryth]

Fuck, man. Neurodivergent love. I’m never going to get over it. Depression love says “I will do my best to stay for you.” DID/OSDD love says “Every face of this brain is endeared to you.” Autism love says “I will do anything to reach you, to give you the understanding I never got.” BPD love says “You are a vital organ of mine, and I am one of yours.” Bipolar love says “Wherever I may go, I will come back to you.” Post-traumatic love says “I will always show you gentleness in this reckless world.” ADHD love says “I will try for you, no matter the obstacle.” Anxiety love says “You are my safe space and I am yours.” ASPD love says “I choose to, on purpose, for you.” OCD love says “I will stand guard for you.” Neurodivergent love. Neurodivergent love. Different brains in love, oh my G-d. These colors are uncountable and they are my religion.

[s1ck-pup]

half of me is reaching for you, the other half is waiting for you to leave.

[s1ck-pup]

i keep looking for proof that i’m loved but keep finding reasons i’m not.

[pup-purgatory]

[bestpupaku]

no i love forming relationships and thinking were closer than we actually are! i love knowing that in too much of a depressing fucking loser for people to actually want to be around me! i love feeling like everyone will leave eventually so i try to cling on like a fussy child who doesnt want their parents to go!

i love it!

[thatborderlinequeen]

I constantly want to run away but I have nowhere to run to.

[brdrlneprsnltydsrdr]

[borderkic1a]

I hate being reminded of people I no longer talk to

[spillurgutzzz]

don’t ask me about my problems because i will avoid talking about them

[coffeeandthoughtspoetry]

How come when I look for love, it's not there...

[trophywife-vent]

We were such a cute couple. Why did you have to fuck everything up?

[s1ck-pup]

there’s a special kind of sadness in knowing someone can make you feel safe while still having a life that moves without you.

[s1ck-pup]

abandonment issues are turning “i’m going away for a few days” into “this is the beginning of the end.”

[stitch-away]

i always forget i have bpd, bc i self isolate like crazy, until i get triggered and then im oh yeah that's there too

[pup-purgatory]

i don’t know which is worse, being the one with the fear of abandonment or being the one who causes it

[brdrlneprsnltydsrdr]

[userboxes-mostly]

Some BPD userboxes