Control is Everything

Christian lesbian, they/them reader, writer, sometimes drawer

[kragehund-est]

problematic rage gap. one partner tries to bring nuance and understanding to a tough situation. the other wants to blow up the earth about it.

[foundonpluto]

human susie :3

[shetheyslain]

Trying to sleep during a heatwave is a great reminder that all oil executives need to die painful painful deaths

[dianawifee]

i am cursed to love a greek tragedy levels of doomed pair. someone save them i beg.

[starryeyedseraphim]

No Halloween for me this year, only sobbing over the Shibuya incident

[machinel1ke]

Being part of the deltarune community is so hard when you don't really gaf about theories. Can't we just talk about what's happened already in the story instead of what we think is going to happen?

[jessmiremollar]

On that tree.

[philcollinsenjoyer]

explained to an 8 year old that once a fruit is ripe you only have so much time until it rots so you have to eat it soon and she said so i'll never be able to keep it perfect like this forever? no and there are about a million pieces of art for you unrelatedly

[machinel1ke]

Not having finished a show sucks. All I want to do is post about those gay divorced bitches from jjk without catching a major spoiler

[cutecipher]

i really thought the point of "being lgbt+ doesn't absolve you of racism as a white person" was that white people arent absolved of racism by being marginalized but it really seems like people think other marginalizations make it okay. no being disabled doesn't do it. no being poor doesnt do it. we need to fight against racism actively no matter what.

[glimmeringpearl]

Snow would kill for Lucy Gray. Haymitch would die for Lenore Dove. But Peeta would (and did) kill AND die for Katniss, however, he only did it if necessary, he always chose to embrace gentleness and kindness instead of violence because he knew that that’s exactly what Katniss needs.

[dragon-in-a-fez]

actually I think you should be normal about ordinary citizens of authoritarian countries and yes that applies even to that country you're thinking of right now

[fluoresensitives]

"hey women aren't sex objects, this is basic feminism. there's nothing wrong with men desiring sex but the idea that a man NEEDS to have sex, he absolutely NEEDS it like air and women should be receptive to it constantly or else they're prudes and puritans is some of the most misogynistic shit ever" feels like a normal feminist sentence, but they're on tiktok finding new ways to make men objectifying a woman and trying to pressure her into sex after one date A Cool and Normal Thing. And queer people, in particularly, are twisting themselves in knots about how a man saying, "yeah, if you don't fuck me, there's no reason for us to hang out, I don't want to know you better unless we fuck" is actually praxis. Oh God, I miss when shit was strict.

[junglejim4322]

I live a very balanced life of noticing things nobody else does and not noticing the things that literally everybody notices

[urie]

stop calling it a girl dinner and call it by its formal name: Fend For Yourself dinner in an ingredients household

[sourcarmellia]

i can't be the only person who hates being called neurospicy. it's such a weird term. i'm neurodivergent. i'm disabled. call me that.

[kaylmao]

idk i would personally rather give up access to certain products seasonally or locally than have people enslaved to give me the ability to have any product any place any time. i think i can go without tomatoes in january.

[kaylmao]

i truly do think that most people if confronted with it and pressed on it would agree. but it's comfortable to gain privileges from someone else's suffering, especially if you don't have to see that suffering directly.