not everyone loves!

so many positivity posts and none for people that don't want to be called a sibling or be told there loved

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Hello hello and welcome to my blog!

Everyday I see tons of positivity posts that use words like "siblings" "brothers" "sisters" and phrases like "I love you" "your loved" when not everyone likes these things.

I see many feel left out or excluded because of these wordings and it hurts my soul.

The queer community is about acceptance but nobody seems to make the changes to "community" instead of sibling terms and saying care and respect instead of love.

You can love someone without caring for them or respecting them, and you can care for and respect someone without loving them.

This blog is NOT ment to inspire hate just a little less love.

I will be reblogging (maybe occasionally make my own post) positivity posts and adding afam and aplat accommodating language to it.

Please feel free to tag me and send it posts in screenshots or links and I will do the above to it as well!

This is not a discourse blog nor a "This is _____" blog this is a positivity blog ok?

[neonfretra]

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if you mind alternatives? :D

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Aw heck yessss

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Here is the second poll I wanted to do but instead of afamilial it's aplatonic!

are pets or farm animals your friends?

yes, im aplat

no, im aplat

yes, im not aplat

no, im not aplat

nuance, im aplat (care to tell?)

nuance, im not aplat (care to tell?)

Voting ended onJul 7

(If you answer nuance you don't have to explain don't worry)

(Afam ver <-)

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@isuggestaplatonicism get the fuck off my blog you seem like a huge creep and transphobe and queerphobe

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Here is the second poll I wanted to do but instead of afamilial it's aplatonic!

are pets or farm animals your friends?

yes, im aplat

no, im aplat

yes, im not aplat

no, im not aplat

nuance, im aplat (care to tell?)

nuance, im not aplat (care to tell?)

Voting ended onJul 7

(If you answer nuance you don't have to explain don't worry)

(Afam ver <-)

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I was talking with someone about cute animals and I had a thought.. does your afamiliarity affect how you view animals?

Like if your familial repulsed and a baby animal imprinted on you and thinks your it's mother are you repulsed?

So I wanna run two polls to see everyone's experience with this since I am so curious about things. (Non-afam is encouraged to answer as well)

are pet or farm animals family to you

yes, im afam.

no, im afam

yes, im not afam

no, im not afam

nuance, im afam (care to tell?)

nuance, im not afam (care to tell?)

Voting ended onJul 7

(If you answer nuance you don't have to explain don't worry)

(Aplat ver <-)

[runwrenrun]

loveless aromantic/aplatonic magical girl who uses the power of incandescent rage instead of the power of love or friendship is this anything

[pleasantpostpeanut]

This is your reminder this pride month to respect anattractional identities.

Be normal about anattractional people

Be normal about aromantic people

Be normal about aplatonic people

Be normal about asexual people

Be normal about alove people 

Be normal about afamilial people

Be normal about asensual people

Be normal about aphysical people

Be normal about a-alterous people

Be normal about aemotional people

Be normal about a-aesthetic people

Be normal about aqueerplatonic people

[thisisindeedasideblog]

less characters who are in platonic or familial relationships, more characters who are just Neighbors. They're around each other, they're civil/polite, they're company and whatever they got it's helpful and reciprocal but if you called them friends they'd do that "ehh" noise and say "well not really"

[neonfretra]

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[live-to-let-you-shine]

i love you, trans women,

i love you, trans femmes,

i love you, trans men,

i love you, trans mascs,

i love you, trans neutral people,

i love you, intersex people,

i love you, lesbians,

i love you, gay men,

i love you, bisexuals,

i love you, pansexuals,

i love you, aromantics,

i love you, asexuals,

i love you neopronoun users,

i love you contradictory label users,

i love you women who go by he/him,

i love you men who go by she/her,

i love you people whose identities 'dont fit',

queer people i love you,

i will always stand with you,

there is nothing in this world that can pull me apart from you,

i promise it will get better, i promise we will win,

i promise we won't always have to be afraid,

i promise, if nothing else, that somebody in this world loves you.

you have always been, are, and will always be, my family.

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Care for and respect X19 + community X1

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(Because the ask box says: "what needs less love?)

True!!!!!!!!

[platoriagf]

run in here and come get yall juice

[terfs dont interact, also: dehyrdate]

[pixification]

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I brought diet!

*pretend i edited the image to say respecting and caring for instead of "loving" im eepy rn*

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facebook mom take over /j

The only thing im a mother to is this baby chicken that thinks im its mother rn

[rcktpwr]

thinking about the plur lifestyle

[rcktpwr]

thinking about the plur lifestyle boys

[c3po]

whats plur

[rcktpwr]

PEACE LOVE UNITY RESPECT: THE RAVER’S CODE

[c3po]

*thinks about the plur lifestyle*

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*thinks about the pur lifestyle*

(Kitten below)

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Hello aplatonic and/or afamilial person!! Are you perhaps looking for a word you can use in place of friend and/or sibling that isn't as hard to spell and generally inconvenient as "acquaintance"?? May I suggest to you,

✨️Accomplice✨️??

[Pt: Accomplice /end pt]

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