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a happy thought: your favorite songs will always be there for you

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cats opening doors with their faces is astounding. you got four paws little fool.

asapwalky

Disappointing when someone you thought you was gonna fuck with long term turns out just as temporary as everyone else

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my boyfriend and I sometimes struggle to be on the same page when it comes to comforting- often i just want to vent and don’t need advice, whereas validation confuses him and he wants a plan of action

to counter this, we’ve come up with a system where we ask: “do you want advice, empathy, both or neither?”

if it’s just advice, i know to go straight to action points and not spend time on fluffy words

if it’s just empathy, he knows i want to be reassured and comforted and that’s all

if it’s both, it’s time for advice that recognises how hard the situation is and is perhaps gentler in nature

if it’s neither, just a hug is really good

i recommend trying to use this in your lives! it makes sure you’re giving and getting what you need, and reduces the risk of resentment or similar

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even on tumblr i’m the quiet kid that sits in the corner and doesn’t really know anyone

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forever that girl that gets really excited when the sky is in pretty colours

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“Love when you’re ready, not when you’re lonely.”

— Unknown

My new ink feat my fluff ball ♡

#my cat loves to photo bomb #@hudsontheadventurecat #selfie #tattoo #fresh ink #girls with tattoos #hummingbird #cute #like for like #follow

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One of the best scenes of Malcolm in the Middle ever.

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that fucking kid took one for the team

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If you’re just barely holding yourself together and you’re delicate right now, that’s okay. Great job on keeping yourself together, and keep going. Things will get brighter.