"trans men have male privilege"
- i close my legs when i pee in the mens room on my period just incase a man either looks thru the crack of the stall or smells my blood-wrenched pad.
- i do not have a reliable means of disposing my menstrual products. i usually just wrap them up and put them in my pocket, or use toilet paper. it is as bad as you think.
- i have been SA'd post transition. i had a mustache. was visibly male. guy told me i had the "soul of a woman" and coerced me through "we only live once" despite me pointing out his supposedly heterosexuality and refusing several times.
- i literally am treated like a dyke irl. there isnt any other way of saying it. nobody just sees me as a straight man like it isnt a thing.
- and this is the most accurate way of percieving me too, to keep it real. i individually experienced comphet for years. toys for cis men do not work for me, and i have to buy queer-centered ones. i get called slurs, experience homophobia, and the sort. and when my partner and i go to the doctor, we do have to clarify what kind of intercourse we do to some kind of extent.... and that certainly doesnt align with the cishet kind.
- i dont have access to T, like specifically due to trans exclusionary laws. which means that i dont look like your average cis dude, i look either perpetually 17 or like a lesbian. either way shit dont work out for me.
- i have been hate crimed multiple times now. threatened with gang beatings, SA, the works. called slurs in front of hundreds of ppl. only rsn why it didnt happen is cuz they were caught before it was planned.
- "are you a boy, or do you think youre a boy"
- always having to remind people i am a man.
- do i rly have to list anymore? like fuck. i have been out for 5 years. i am sorry that i am not fucking buck angel. i am sorry that i dont fit into ur perfect ideal of a straight trans man. this is me. i am a trans man, and considerably a dyke, and am barely into my physical transition due to LITERAL LAWS AGAINST TRANS PEOPLE and due to BEING POOR. i dont have male privilege! most trans men ik irl are in the same position, or even worse off, than me! stfu!
