Marmite and Marmalade

Very curvy, bi, feminist, submissive, 40 something, poly, aspie. Yorkshire, UK. A collection of things I like, love, make me think, or make me wet. 21+ only - put your age on your blog. Empty blogs, bots, and minors will be blocked. I do not support minors in kink. None of the images etc are mine unless tagged #me. If an images is yours and not credited or you want it removed, get in touch. 😘

[quinnlane-moved-deactivated2018]

Reminder that James Deen the pornstar is a rapist.

[beyondplay]

If She Doesn’t Feel You For Days, You’re Doing It Wrong

I’m not talking just about the fucking and the sexy times and the scenes. I don’t just mean the slaps and pulls, bites and pinches, belts and ropes, licks and thrusts. Oh, the licks and thrusts. Wait, what was I talking about? Oh, yes! I am talking about all of the above, and so much more. I am talking about anything and everything you do. If you’re doing it without passion, if you are going through the motions, you’re doing it wrong. She’ll know it. Everyone around you will know it. Do you kiss her when you walk in the door? Do you lean over and plant a peck on her cheek as you toss aside your coat? Stop that shit. Stop it now. If you’re going to kiss her, grab her by the back of her hair, lick your way up her throat, and then kiss her like you’re trying to save her fucking life. Even if that entire exchange lasts only 10 seconds because you’re in a rush to hop in the shower and get to wherever the hell your ass needs to be next. She’ll feel that for days. Not everyone is good at putting pretty words down on a piece of paper. I get it. Go ahead and buy her a Hallmark card that says everything you feel about her in your heart. But fucking write something personal in it or go home empty-handed. Tell her about the last time she took your breath away. Tell her what you want to do to her the next time you’re alone. Tell her something that can only come from you because she’s yours. Tell her what you think of when you feel her hair in your hand or smell her shampoo. Tell her your fucking dick twitches when she calls you in the middle of the day and laughs into the phone. She’ll feel that for days. Don’t roll over when you get into bed. Grab her hip and pull her into you. Burrow your nose into her neck. It doesn’t matter if all you do after is go to sleep. Do it because she’s the last goddamn thing you want to feel as you drift off at the end of the night. Do it because you want her in your dreams. She’ll feel that for days. Don’t spank her because she asked for it. Spank her because holy shit, that ass. Don’t eat her pussy because that’s what gets her good and ready. Eat her pussy because it’s the only thing that will cure the cancer eating away at your soul. Whisper into her ear every dirty fucking thing about her that makes you crazy. Up your game a bit. Don’t ask her, “Is this what you want? Whose pussy is this?” Fuck. That. Lean over and fucking TELL her that pussy is yours. Because you’ve never felt pussy so good.
Because you’ll never stop wanting it.
Because all day you can’t wait to get in it. She’ll feel that for days. Long after the sun rises and the soreness wears off and the bruises fade, she’ll still feel you. She’ll feel you sinking into the cracks in her soul and hear the echoes of every whisper as it bounces around her heart. She’ll call you in the middle of the day and laugh that laugh that makes your dick twitch, but what you won’t see on the other end is her blushing and squirming in her seat because she can feel you. Whatever IT is, if you do it like you fucking mean it, like you cannot take another breath without doing it, she’ll know the difference. She’ll feel it forever.

[instructor144]

Damn. Just …. damn.

[just-shower-thoughts]

Rodeo must be quite simple to learn if you’re supposed to know everything by your second one.

[everythingstarstuff]

[thegingerpowers]

[thegingerpowers]

[thealfaguy]

She’s shy but she’s waiting for you to choke her anytime you kiss her

[daddybrad80]

⬇️Further reading from Kinkly⬇️

Hot Stuff: How to Have Fun (and Be Safe) With Wax Play

Interested in wax play? Here's how to have fun and be safe with hot wax!

As with anything new you plan on trying you should do research on it to find out what all it entails- do and donts, safety, peer reviews from friends and/or reputable sites. The information here is only a starting point. Many other things factor into wax play besides temperature and type of candle--- Area of the body, how far away from the body you drip etc. etc.

Something I've learned that doesn't seem important--- It is a damn nightmare getting it out of your hair, especially if you are tender headed. Imagine how much it would hurt other areas with hair. Just a thought. Also keep it away from your carpet--- meaning the actual carpet you have on your floor. Perverts. 😜

We get our candles from kandlesbykitten she is based in the UK, an active submissive, makes them and uses them herself. She puts a lot of time and care into it. Her inventory isn't large, however they are amazing. You can find her on Instagram and Etsy.

@firefairy76 @babygirl-1972 @magpie-69 @defiantslv @daddysbrattygirly @heartshapedbruises777 @delightfulsubgirl @itsshinycollectordestinyworld @wickedlysexy121 @the-mindful-kitten @reflectedtruthsblog @daddyandhislittleprincess11102 @instructor144 @dinodaddy @i-am-norasaurus @thecomicbookj @i-am-dubs @droppinby @alythedisobedient @louwho614 @youngkinkyandwild @widthofmytongue @goodhotwife @kittysparkleslove

[thepersonalquotes]

[marmalade79]

Not wrong

[5nullnull5]

[marmalade79]

God dammit!

*pouts, then does as told*

[sir-daddys-fun-house-returns]

ATTENTION:

This is a reminder to hydrate, eat something, brush your teeth, love others, and especially love yourself! Selfcare is super important!

— Sir Daddy

[invaderxan]

Heard some important information on Twitter today, and thought I’d post it here for anyone who may not have heard it. This is actually a thing, devised by human rights organisation called Karma Nirvana.

Reblog to save a life?

[theindependentconservative]

Reblog to save a life.

[libertarirynn-deactivated202006]

Sharing because it’s actually a verified and sourced thing and not one of those dumbass fake tip posts.

[gremlinstudy]

Pain.

[mindflamer]

[image description: a four panel meme.

1: a hand reaching out of water labeled “chronic illness patient”

2: another hand reaches down from above labeled “doctor”

3: the doctor hand high fives the other one and it says (quotes) “your lab results are normal!”

4: the doctor hand disappears and the chronic illness patient hand starts falling down into the water

/end ID]

[marmalade79]

Fuck, feeling this so fucking hard right now.

[brotherlysuggestion]

Remember: Resting isn’t transactional.

You don’t need to do anything special or extra difficult to deserve a break.

You don’t need to reach a certain goalpost of suffering and exhaustion before you’re allowed time off.

Resting for a day doesn’t mean that you’re obligated to work twice as hard the next day.

Humans need variety. Humans need quiet time. Humans need time to “shut off”, whatever that looks like for them.

You’re allowed to be human. You’re allowed a break. Don’t burn yourself out, okay?

[enbydreem-deactivated20201211]

Seeing terfs demonizing Elliot Page coming out and saying "we lost a lesbian" is an important reminder that terfs target trans men with their rhetoric too. They don't exclude one group in specific when it comes to trans people, they legitimately think being trans is a danger to everyone involved.

Cis lgbt are encouraged to reblog this.

[ridiculouslyphotogenicsinosauru]

I’m sorry I know I reblogged this before but I just can’t get over this shit, “we lost a lesbian” like he’s a fuckin soldier in your ranks who defected? He’s just a dude lmao he’s just a dude living his fuckin life, he’s not a part of the fuckin Gay Draft, he hasn’t fuckin deserted the 51st Lesbian Division you weirdos

We’re a community, not a goddamn army, and it’s really worrying when people talk about this shit in these weird militaristic terms. You didn’t lose shit, let the guy live. Christ.

[marmalade79]

Always reblogging this

[smallrooms]

[marmalade79]

Not sure I'd ever get out of bed

[ambermaitrejean]

[marmalade79]

I want to follow the water and see where it leads