When the pain is hitting again, they come to understand each side of your being in such a way that opening up to them will be something you’d love to do.
Cancer Rising: The reliable healer
The heavy memories of a pure heart forged the mask with which they face around them. The experiences of the past live rooted in the native and play a crucial role in the evolution that has led them to be the person they are today. People who often wish they were more rational than they feel they are. They have a very deep perception of the feelings of the people around them. It seeks to show the sympathy and attention that they would have loved to have. You seem to understand others perfectly and create such a relaxing environment in which they can open up with confidence, but you seem to hide and protect those wounds that are difficult for you to verbalize.
Security is something important for them, both material and emotional, they strive to be at a stable point in their lives and not let themselves be tormented by the variability of what they have experienced and their own emotions, this need comes from Leo in the 2nd house. Many of these natives, no matter how insecure they feel, will seek to project themselves as stable and as people who have things under control, because they do not want to see their ego collapse before "the need to depend on someone or need help / protection from another person." This placement makes the native have a very unstable self-esteem at the beginning of their lives, but this later becomes strong, as they actively seek to pamper themselves and do everything to see themselves in better eyes. Self-love will always come first over another person's love for the natives with this house placement. They will seek to do what is best for themselves and those they love whenever they can. They want to achieve a lot of economic stability and can become very skilled at managing finances and excel in this field. Leo in this house makes the native have a generous and shared heart at the same time, it makes them very protective of those things that they consider theirs or of great importance to them, they will not hesitate to defend everything they see as special. Their father plays a huge role in their self-esteem, be it for the better or worse.
Endowed with great intelligence and great observation skills, Virgo in the 3rd house makes them mysterious and extremely interesting people. They are not interested in small talk, they would always prefer something meaningful, but they have no problem following one of these talks. They are very astute socially, because they observe and listen carefully to analyze the kind of person with whom they are interacting, and from there they decide if opening up is optimal or not. They may seem quiet at first, but at the end of the day, Mercury is ruling this house, which makes them excellent communicators. This in turn influences that they can be somewhat nervous or anxious, which can make it difficult for them to fall asleep or calm their mind in stressful situations. These natives take their time to make a decision and evaluate the possibilities. These natives are drawn to live with or have close to responsible, rational, reliable and as supportive people as they can be. They are very reserved and regardless of whether they get along with their siblings or not, there will be things that they will not share and prefer to keep to themselves. They have no problem helping whoever needs it regardless of the proximity, politeness and attentiveness is something crucial for them. They stand out for their good memory, especially if you have done something good for them, no matter how small.
Their emotional world is complex, but beautiful at the same time, it is intense, but sensitive. It seems to be impossible to define it with just one word and this is thanks to Libra in the 4th house. The quality of a water rising is a very deep and variable personality, which many times these natives can feel as emotional turmoil, these are very difficult to understand by themselves, which makes them need and seek balance, harmony, balance but above all purity and love, this not necessarily in other people, but rather within themselves. For them comfort is a priority before other things, but good aesthetics contribute to that feeling of comfort, it is not surprising to note that many of them are interested in design, they constantly change the looks of their room or home, because after They all have a keen eye for aesthetics. Many of them seek harmonious relationships full of tenderness, loyalty and support, they are people with a truly romantic and detailed soul, they will always see not only for their own well-being and comfort, but also for that of their partner. They are soft lovers who know how to really make someone feel loved. Being ruled by Venus, this can show us one of two scenarios (or both in some cases), either having a loving family with whom a stable and sweet relationship is enjoyed, or having grown up in a very superficial environment in which the flaws of the native were highlighted. The female figures may have played an important role in the moment in which the natives developed their form of emotional expression or their needs.
The intensity with which they give themselves to their relationships, as well as their magnetic and sensual appeal are things that I like to associate with Scorpio in the 5th house. In love they will express their most devoted side, they have a ride or die mentality and although at first they like to take things slowly to get to know the person better, once they discover that the person is what they want, they give everything without hesitation, they put absolutely all of their focus on making the relationship memorable for their loved one and for themselves. They love the game of seducing and pushing their partner to the limit, of diving together into the transforming seas of love and becoming one, uniting and being one against the world. Another point to highlight is their beauty, because they have that something that attracts the eyes of others to them like magnets, they call attention to the mystery that surrounds them and the strength with which they seek to project themselves. As this is a house that represents children, they may have some emotional wounds from their childhood that they struggle to heal, becoming very protective of their inner child. This in turn makes them be protectors of children, they seek to help children and make the world a safer place for them, regardless of whether or not they want to be parents, or even like them or not, they know the importance of the period of childhood in a person and they can become very protective of children and their safety, which makes them admire them.
They are people who in their free time, alone and even in the workplace are very creative and can enjoy being active or doing something, however, many of them can start projects and have difficulty finishing them, all this is reflected in their personalities by Sagittarius in the 6th house. These people, even without realizing it, can easily help others to lift their spirits, to feel more positive about some situation no matter how dark it is. Similarly, this position of Sagittarius in the chart makes them people who are not very open with their sense of humor, however, they can be very funny and sarcastic people. At the work level, they have a lot of energy and desire to continue learning, it is very likely that their work environment is noisy and they can make many friends with their co-workers, especially those older than them. This placement makes it very likely that the native will travel a lot through their work. Their mind operates in a very unique way, they are always able to see beyond what is perceptible, they also stand out for their curiosity and inquisitive personality. They can be excellent advisers and be a teacher to those around them, especially in the workplace. They have the ability to open the mind of people and make them see things more beautifully or simply from other perspectives.
And so, without realizing it, they become the pillar of strength of those they love the most, their Capricorn in the 7th house makes them be that strong and reliable figure on which others rely, they become a person of great importance in the life of their partners, because the commitment they show is enormous and unbreakable. They take their relationships very seriously and can be very selective with the people they decide to have by their side, as there is already a lot of emotional turbulence in them. Due to this, the natives look for a person who gives them emotional stability, someone who makes them feel that no matter the day or the circumstances, they will always be there to lend them their support and that feeling of being completely protected. As this house is ruled by Saturn, some of them fear not finding this person and may have a not so positive vision of their own desires, a somewhat pessimistic vision regarding their love life and a fear of dreaming very high. They often deny themselves the desire for a dream relationship due to fears of being vulnerable or betrayed. The beauty of these natives lies in the amazing couple they are, the purity with which they approach matters of the heart and the seriousness with which they take the relationship. They want a reliable person, many times they can attract older partners either in age or maturity. Many may perceive them as very reserved and difficult to open up, because these natives fiercely defend that beautiful emotional world they have. You do not usually look for fleeting romances with which stability does not exist, you know very well what you want and over time you have learned that you should not settle for little either. One-night stands are not your thing and you prefer to choose the person next to you wisely, because you hate wasting time on people who are not worth it. You crave for emotional depthness and a strong and loyal connection.
Having Aquarius in the 8th house makes them fear the idea of being pointed out as weird people, a fear of being left out and being made to feel forgotten or ignored by the more eccentric sides of their personality. They control this fear by showing themselves as people who do not need others and who know perfectly well how to be on their own. These people can have problems with large groups of people and very strong experiences for them in terms of their friendships. Despite how chill they may seem on the outside, even somewhat indifferent in the eyes of other people, they are extremely interesting lovers who will seek to take you by surprise. They are open-minded in sex, they love to experiment in all possible ways and fill their partner with new sensations, being with them will always have something special regardless of whether it is the first time or the twentieth. They are creative in sex and dislike always doing the same thing. They are a rebellious lover who does not think much of the place, they only think of making you taste the forbidden fruit that you have been tempted from the beginning. A bit of a teaser, will always get your attention in unique ways. A touch of mischief under the sheets, mischievous and motivated to discover each of their partner's fantasies. This curiosity is not only sexual, because they also feel an enormous intrigue for everything they do not know or understand well, they love complexity and love to be mentally stimulated by the mysteries that lie in that which is not easily perceptible to the naked eye.
The dreamy Pisces is in the 9th house, which makes them yearn and deeply desire to connect with everything that is distant or unknown to them, especially other cultures. The idea of travel can deeply fascinate them, and they are likely to take and benefit from foreign trips, especially spiritually and emotionally. They dream big and can have varied interests, art can be something that really brings out very positive feelings for them, whether it's seeing it or doing it. These people want to grow spiritually and love the idea of exploring different fields of spirituality. They can feel a lot of empathy for controversial issues that occur in other countries, and can be emotionally affected by the problems of others. Their empathy and emotional intelligence allow them to connect deeply with others and make them feel well understood by the native. They may decide to study or have the desire to study something that allows them to support others, from something like psychology to understand and help others in their most difficult moments, to something more methodical like financial science to help manage and control income and expenses of a company. In their college days you may have been very confused about practical goals.
It is curious how these natives with such a sweet and tender heart do not usually give that impression at first, since many are slightly intimidated by them and the subconscious force with which they project themselves, we attribute this to Aries in the 10th house. They are ambitious people, fire runs through their eyes and an aura that directly asks you to respect them makes your skin crawl. These natives are true hard workers, full of inner fire that moves them to achieve everything they long for in the bottom of their huge hearts. Aries in this house makes the native usually have differences with people older than them, even ego wars in which they seem to be more capable or mature than the rest. They are people who can easily reach important positions in their work, and being a fire sign in this house, makes the work environment of the native very active and angry, which will ask him to develop a quick mentality that respond astutely to what is happening around you.Their goal is to be someone who stands out in their work area, their high self-esteem gives them the mental strength to realize that their hard work is worthwhile and worthy of admiration.
Loyalty is of the utmost importance to them and I would dare to call them the living representation of it, I decide to attribute it to Taurus in the 11th house. They are very cordial with people, after all the charm of these natives is guaranteed by having Venus ruling this house, however, despite being polite and lovely they are quite selective with the people they surround themselves with, because for for them, the theme of friendship is very important and they only seek to be with those who can provide them with a sincere, constant and beautiful friendship. They usually play the role of supportive friend, they love being there for their friends and that they know they can rely on them. They are very attentive people with their friendships and will easily and quickly notice when there is something wrong with their beloved friends. They usually look for friendships with which they can last a long time and in which everything operates harmoniously, who receive exactly the same as they give, since balance is crucial when it comes to showing affection and attention. Being also the house of ideals, they are people who dream and aspire to tangible and realistic things, they always try to keep their feet on the ground without losing that dreamer spirit. They fight and work hard to materialize their desires and dreams and some of them can be somewhat stubborn when someone tries to make them change their minds, as they are deeply rooted in their way of seeing things. The venusian quality of this house makes them be accepting with others' ideals though.
When the nights arrive, thoughts absorb every bit of vitality in that heart that stands firm trying to keep beating, a heart that despite its wounds and those chains that tie it to the past struggles to stay stable, not only for itself, but to support and be there for their loved ones. Doubts invade your mind like rivers of rapid currents, it seems difficult to get out of alive from those suffocating currents of water that prevent you from breathing properly, the fear that your voice when asking for help will be forgotten or ignored the pull backs of being able to ask others for support. "I want to be for you the home that I felt was taken from me." The words that they say and the affection that those with Gemini in the 12th house emanate make them unforgettable, since they achieve that task that they feel is very far from fulfilling, they give you comfort, they make you feel completely understood and supported, they offer you an unparalleled companionship, and before you know it, both become one, you no longer carry your heaviness on your own, your voice begins to have value and your words are suddenly the most effective medicine for that misunderstood heart. They have a peculiar and unique as well as beautiful and empathetic way of exploring the emotions of those around them. There is something healing in their presence, there is something magical, sublime and comforting in that smile they give you, easily giving some light to the darkness of your soul. "But what about me? Who can do that for me? Will I always have to feel alone when I walk into a room full of people?" Not everyone deserves to enter and have even a drop of that delicious concoction that is your love, but you doubt it. That's why you build so many walls around you, the fear of being stabbed in the back, that whoever loves you the most hurts you with words heavy as iron. You doubt whether to say what you think, or even what you feel, because when you did, many did not value it. Don't hesitate anymore, my darling. You are not the problem, do not let your valuable mind and sweet heart be corrupted by the harshness of that dark part of the world.
