i’ve recently realized that i have never made an introduction post for my blog and have been on this site for way too long, so i thought, why not now?
psa: i also have an ao3 account under “justablonde,” and my one and only wip (well, published wip) features a character with the same name as my [former] username - daphne bowen - so that’s where the inspiration came from
for anyone interested: the life and lines of daphne bowen on ao3. it is original work, mine and mine alone! please check it out and let me know what you think :)
this is pretty long so everything you don't want to know is under the cut!
basic info:
🪷 female
🪷 she / her pronouns
🪷 straight
🪷 certified libra even though i don’t *really* believe in those sorts of things (but i find them entertaining)
🪷 proud texan (in the u. s. of a.) who overuses "y'all"
🪷 yes i do support the dallas cowboys
🪷 over 18 (but do i act like it… nah)
🪷 loves to read and binge watch obsessions (yes it affects me greatly)
🪷 oh and occasionally i will write (but most of it’s on paper)
🪷 researcher / know it all at heart (curiosity killed the cat)
🪷 i have made “rapunzel” my entire personality so don’t be alarmed (my car’s named max after the horse)
🪷 i try not to put personal opinions relating to views of the world on here, because in all seriousness, i should be putting it out into the real world. my blog is chaotic, it is random, and it is just for fun
🪷 i don’t curse in my everyday life so i won’t do it here and i often use wacky phrases to replace such words, sometimes it makes me sound like an idiot but i don’t care
tv shows / movies:
🌼 high school musical: the musical: the series
🌼 off-campus
🌼 teen wolf
🌼 my fault: london + your fault: london
🌼 z-o-m-b-i-e-s
🌼 descendants
🌼 julie and the phantoms
🌼 pitch perfect
🌼 tangled
🌼 star wars
🌼 harry potter
🌼 marvel, like, all of it (some favorite include tom holland’s spiderman films, the hawkeye series, captain america: the winter soldier, the loki series, the black widow movie, the thunderbolts* movie, and the avengers films)
🌼 high school musical (1, 2, and 3)
🌼 aladdin (both original and live action)
🌼 beauty and the beast (both original and live action)
🌼 girl meets world
🌼 stuck in the middle (comfort show)
🌼 pretty much any disney movie ever
🌼 the hunger games
🌼 journey to bethlehem
🌼 wonder
🌼 interstellar
🌼 tenet
🌼 inception
🌼 percy jackson and the olympians (the tv show)
🌼 a good girl's guide to murder
🌼 twisters
🌼 the maze runner
🌼 jurassic park / world
🌼 outer banks
🌼 to all the boys i’ve loved before + sequels
🌼 dancing with the stars
🌼 the voice
🌼 doogie kamealoha m.d.
🌼 certain random hyperfixations that will be few and far between (don’t we all have them…)
music:
🌸 olivia rodrigo
🌸 one direction
🌸 niall horan
🌸 midnight til morning
🌸 harry styles
🌸 louis tomlinson
🌸 zayn
🌸 liam payne
🌸 sabrina carpenter
🌸 taylor swift (occasionally)
🌸 jessica baio
🌸 benson boone
🌸 tate mcrae
🌸 gracie abrams
🌸 luke combs
🌸 morgan wallen
🌸 lady a
🌸 billie eilish
🌸 alexander stewart
🌸 joshua bassett
🌸 freya skye
books:
🌺 one of us is lying series + anything else written by karen m. mcmanus
🌺 a good girl’s guide to murder series + anything else written by holly jackson
🌺 the naturals series
🌺 the inheritance games series + follow ups and extras
🌺 scythe
🌺 we were liars
🌺 keeper of the lost cities series
🌺 the illuminae files series
🌺 the riordanverse
🌺 fairy tale reform school
🌺 if he had been with me + if only i had told her
🌺 the hunger games series
🌺 the maze runner series
🌺 the harry potter series
🌺 to all the boys i’ve loved before series
🌺 heist society series
🌺 all eyes on her
🌺 the land of stories series
🌺 code name verity
🌺 anything alan gratz
🌺 pretty much anything murder mystery / ya thriller
celebrities:
🍀 any celebrity / public figure mentioned above
🍀 malachi barton
🍀 dylan o’ brien
🍀 milo manheim
🍀 meg donnelly
🍀 mekonnen knife
🍀 josh hutcherson
🍀 chris pratt
🍀 tom holland
🍀 zendaya
🍀 sebastian stan
🍀 danny ramirez
🍀 charlie gillespie
🍀 trinity rodman
🍀 ariana greenblatt
🍀 jennifer lawrence
🍀 mason thames
🍀 mckenna grace
🍀 rudy pankow
🍀 walker scobell
🍀 leah sava jeffries
🍀 dior goodjohn
🍀 charlie bushnell
🍀 tyler posey
🍀 taylor lautner
🍀 chris hemsworth
🍀 chris evans
🍀 liamani segura
🍀 glen powell
🍀 anyone from the off campus cast
🍀 asha banks
🍀 jordan fisher
thanks for reading! i love meeting new people and bonding over shared interests so don't be shy! 🙇🏼♀️🥹🤞🏼🫶🏼
one of the best pieces of advice I've ever heard (for myself, at least) is that if you're in a terrible mood and NOTHING is helping, then start doing the chores/responsibilities/job stuff/etc that you've been putting off. Will it put you in an even worse mood temporarily? Probably, but you're already pissed off, so you might as well double up on it at that point 😭 there's no loss. It's not like finally getting around to cleaning the house and scheduling appointments is going to ruin the good day that you aren't currently having to begin with 💀 And then, when the bad mood passes, you'll have gotten shit done and you'll feel a lot better later, even if in the moment you're having The Worst Time Ever about it.
i have always loved the tom holland spider-man movies, but after watching brand new day twice (sorry i'm obsessed it's official!) and now going back and rewatching the first trilogy (specifically far from home) it's so... not real?
like obviously tom is wearing a cgi suit. and obviously the entire part where mysterio is tricking him into being run over by a train is a massive cgi mess that everyone knows marvel never does the best with. but as a kid? when that movie first came out? i thought that was so cool. now, it falls kinda flat. it's so... not cool. i'm weirdly icked out by the whole experience rewatching this. why am i borderline disturbed? you can't see peter's actual movements as well. you can't really see his face (apart from his eye goggle thingies widening whenever he's being particularly expressive, which, let's be honest, isn't a lot). it's so bland to me, in a very specific way i'm unsure i can convey in words.
maybe it's because you don't see as much of peter in spiderman during this fight. and obviously this is peter fully unrealized. he is a grieving, teenage, junior boy mess after the death of his mentor / father figure and saving the world from a giant purple alien. but tom is a brilliant actor, and i believe he did well with what he had to work with. it just sucks that compared to how it could have been (what we have now, with brand new day) we didn't have it as well as we should have.
i just kinda find it interesting. maybe it's the true evolution of peter parker's story. maybe its all about switching up directors. maybe it's tom having a very final, grown up vision for his character and seeing that an end may be near. maybe marvel has finally gotten their act together. maybe god sprinkled some magic into bnd that changed my brain chemistry. maybe i'm imagining all of it and this is a crazy post everyone will disagree with.
but i just find it really interesting. five years later, and this is my peter parker. pretty much exactly where we want him to be (and yes, we love to see him struggle, sorry tom)
Spider-Man: Brand New Day said it'll be hard and it'll be ugly and you'll essentially feel like it's so over but in the end love will save your soul and friendship and hope will prevail and we're so back and millions of teenagers worldwide said hell fucking yeah
saw this on Insta and the idea that people who are anti-AI are just using it anyway like... willing to give it up? I ACTIVELY AVOID THAT SHIT BUD! WHAT ARE YOU EVEN TALKING ABOUT?
ALSO
It's not as if this shit has been around SOOO LONG. We all existed JUST FINE before this shit became THE THING someone decided to shove in our face like...
charlie as troy means people finding julie and the phantoms which means people hearing unsaid emily and then making heated rivalry edits with unsaid emily and which means I’ll be fighting people for emotional damages