be over-stimulated or edged?
be a voyeur or have semi-public sex?
finger yourself or follow guided masturbation?
watch yourself in a mirror or listen to a recording of yourself?
sleep in lingerie or nude
receive a voice memo or nude from a mutual?
grope yourself or be groped?
cuddle under a blanket or sleep nude together?
airplane sex or elevator sex?
kitchen sex or shower sex?
pool sex or workplace sex?
watch porn or read erotica?
receive or send a dirty message while at work?
have your dirty thoughts shared with those around you or know the dirty thoughts of those around you?
hump a pillow or use a vibrator?
lose your virginity together or lose to someone well-seasoned
get fingered in the library or at a nightclub?
have “ok” sex daily or amazing sex once a week?
physical touch or quality time?
have someone remote control your vibrator or control it for someone else?