slut in theory only

tila ☆ she/her ☆ 30 (under 21 DNI) ☆ ON SEMI HIATUS

[megan-thee-fox]

Under 21 and ageless blog,

please, for the love of Lord,

DO NOT INTERACT.

[gentlyevilvt]

the problem with hypnosis porn games made by straight people is that no matter how interesting they make the premise, a few hours in you realize that they genuinely think the hottest thing you could possibly do with hypnosis powers is have penetrative heterosexual sex with somebody who would otherwise not be interested

[depressed-kale3]

getting railed soo hard that i nearly pass out 🥴

[poseidonjnr-deactivated20190718]

[sunhatred-deactivated20220531]

Do you guys remember how kidnap fantasies were popular on wattpad because young girls and queer teens were both made to feel shame at the thought of their own sexualities, so the fantasy of being kidnapped totally against their will was a way for them to engage with a romantic or sexual fantasy without feeling morally in the wrong for doing so? Added bonus that the fantasy involved being whisked away from repressive environments like home or school, right?

Finding out that Bram Stoker was in a sexless marriage and that scholars believe that he very likely was closeted gay puts the entire book into perspective as to WHY it reads EXACTLY like a self insert wattpad Dracula kidnap fic:

“I TOTALLY love my wife and would never do anything that an upstanding Good Straight Working Man wouldn’t do but oh nooo, big strong man with broad back and strong enough arms to carry me back to bed like a princess trapped me and claimed me as his, completely against my will 👉👈 But he protects me against the bad evil sexual women (who I assure you, I am TOTALLY sexually attracted to, as any straight man with a choice would be) but trust me, I do NOT want ANY of this. What’s that? The Count is not capable of feeling love? Would be a shame if I had the special ability to change tha-”

[ardatli]

This is also the fantasy behind all those old bodice-ripper romances that people today like to mock or call problematic, by the way.

“Oh, my next forty years are going to consist of nothing but washing dishes and keeping house and bearing children for the disdainful man I married right out of high school because my parents said college was for men and I had no other obvious life path open to me? What if a pirate captain thought I was worth stealing away from it all? [what if I ran away but no-one could blame me for leaving]?”

[unclothed-i-shall-return]

#I read an article a long time ago about a woman who was raised in an incredibly repressive conservative christian community#where all that mattered was purity and virginity etc #She talked about how for a long time rape fantasies were the only way she could derive any pleasure from sex #because she couldn’t feel safe exploring the idea of wanting sex #it wasn’t really ABOUT rape or eroticizing assault or whatever #it was about creating a scenario where she was free from the shame associated with wanting #i think this is true of a lot of icky-seeming stuff in romance and erotica #it’s an imaginary scenario where nothing you don’t really want actually happens #but you can’t be blamed or feel guilty for it #you didn’t do anything wrong#anyway that article changed my perspective a lot #i think there’s also something to be said for people who have felt ugly and undesirable their whole lives #enjoying fictional scenarios where a hot alpha werewolf or whatever is so attracted to them he ‘cant help himself’ or whatever #because it can also be really shameful to want to be desired #when you feel like youre ugly and gross ( @headspace-hotel )

[zefram-cockring]

hit me close to home why dont you

[the-other-other-m]

Yea, your girl is a masochist, but have you confirmed the types of pain that she's comfortable with??

Sure, your lover is into petplay, but have you talked about whether you're supposed to yank on that leash??

Absolutely, she's into degradation, but do you know whether that name makes her think of a bad ex??

Mhmm, your girl is into getting choked, but do you know how to grab her without endangering her?? Do you even know if she wants you to stop her blood flow and/or airways???

I see, your darling is into rope, but do you know whether you're tying them up in a position they don't like?? Did you even remember your rounded edge scissors in case of emergency??

Okay, so it's into CNC, do you react with care and compassion if/when it safewords??

Yea, your Dom/me is hot and scary, but have you communicated your needs, and wants, and appreciation for them?? Are you ever making sure they're having fun?? Are you ever even using your safewords, if not why?? You might need to!

Just please, I'm so so tired of hearing people pushed away from/out of kink spaces whether, online or irl, because there are some kinksters out there that cannot practice safely.

[big-caring-daddy]

These talks are important, but also a wonderful chance to bond, to connect, show caring and learn to boost enjoyment of play.

If you have these talks and are vulnerable together then it grows trust and makes it easier to lose yourselves in play.

[sub-for-lean-dom]

[ashstfu]

[estrogirlie]

*bouncing and whining on it* do you like. actually like me?

[halobabyx]

i need my pussy DEVOURED. disrespectfully.

[scorpiiiho]

i love giving head. turning you on turns me on.

[bi-and-bratty]

Can we talk about how underrated it is to have someone touch you over your underwear? Like not even just to tease you, but actually making you cum without taking them off 😳 or using toys over your underwear so it’s less intense and less friction, making you squirm longer while you get fuzzy headed 😳

[yourmuse-ava]

I’m riding my own fingers imagining they’re yours. wish you could see me right now, bent over, desperately fucking myself, moaning your name.

I hope you’d take pity and fuck me into the mattress. give me what I want.

[gabethaoverthinker]

Literally all I can think about lately is getting to the point where I've bent a femme over and using them to chase my own orgasm. I don't care how many times you cum, I don't care if you're overstimulated, you're my toy and you said you were, so take it when I fuck you.

[yourmuse-ava]

what if you tied me to a chair with a vibrator on my clit until I’ve had so many orgasms I’m begging you to let me go. what then.

[megan-thee-fox]

I want to get dicked down again =/

[chubbyychocolate-deactivated201]

Suck the depression out my pussy if you a real one

[bruhmanfromthefifflo-deactivate]