this is the first, and hopefully the last post i'll have to make regarding everything thats been going on lately.
if you don't know what i am talking about, this post doesn't concern you, and i encourage you to move along as to not drag it all on further. regardless of who's reading, please tkae care of yourself and have a nice day.
okay, now time to start actually talking...
there's been a lot going on involving my friends and some other people i've never even talked to before. if you're involved because somebody else dragged you into this, please just leave it alone for the sake of yourself and everyone else involved.
involving other people is not going to make anything better. what happened is between us to figure out, and having extra people has only made things harder to resolve and caused more harm for everybody.
i really am disgusted by what i've been seeing going on. from everybody. death threats are not okay to send, especially from somebody who doesn't even know the full story of what happened.
i dont even know eveyrthing that happened, which is why i have not spoke about this very much, because most of what happened isn't my business and if i dont know everything then the points i have to make are redundant and not useful.
what i will say, is that no matter what side you're on, no matter who you believe or think is right, harassing the other side is not okay at all. it literally has only made this whole situation longer and more paionful for everybody. being petty won't get you anywhere, even if it gives you some quick relief in the moment.
internet drama like this shouldnt lead to people having to contact laywers out of fear for their own safety. attacking the other person is not the point and it is not the right thing to do no matter if you think its right or not. if you're doing this, please ask yourself, what is your motive? what are you truly wanting to get out of this? what i want out of this is for it to be all resolved in a calm and respectful manner, with everybody feeling understood and like their boundaries weren't crossed. purposefully hurting people gets us farther from a calm ending to all this.
i'm not mad at anybody, and i dont hate anyone. im disappointed and sad. disappointed because i know this couldve been handled better, and because this is not how i expected things to go. sad because underneath the anger and pettiness, what it really all stems down to is a bunch of sad people thinking the only way to feel less sad is to hurt others. i know everyone in this situation is hurting, and it makes me feel sad because i also know that we could all help each other stop hurting, but instead its come to "how can i prove that im right? how can i make the other feel like shit?'
its an endless cycle of hurting and being hurt. for it to end, you have to realize that making the other feel bad isn't the point of a conflict. the point is to end the conflict.
o hope this post made sense, its kind of vague because i dont have every detail, and i wanted it to be applicable in similar situations
i hope this helped somebody, anybody
and remember, i love you, and take care of yourself.
