*digs my claws into you* #myclaws

she/it | TMA | white | "adult" | neurodivergent | mentally ill | probably many other things I'm currently unaware of | transandroterfs DNI | this blog kills men

[satanfemme]

question prompted by therapy

can you think of any activities that make you feel *energized* afterwards, rather than drained?

yes, and these are activities I do regularly

yes, and these are activities I do rarely

I can't think of any off the top of my head, but I may have experienced this

no, there are definitely no activities that make me feel energized after

Remaining time: 6 days 12 hours

[satanfemme]

btw my therapist made it sound like it's normal for people to have at least a few energizing activities they regularly do (or at least have the ability to regularly do if they chose so), and was kind of stumped when I expressed confusion at this concept itself. take that how you will if you're also going to be self reflective about this concept

[filmphotofranz]

[doyoulovethewayzeylily]

does anyone know how to talk to girls

[kayla-denker]

Fuck ever news outlet for naming the murderer and blasting his face all over the internet, but the trans woman he murdered is never shown and only referred to as "transgender woman."

Her name was Juniper Blessing, and she was just doing her laundry.

[kayla-denker]

lately there's been a lot of Men's Rights people marked red on shinigami eyes that post endlessly about how totally real "transandrophobia" is sharing this post, and it makes me absolutely livid!

You did this! You fucking pieces of shit spread the ideology that did this to her! You don't get to fucking contribute to systemic transmisogyny all day every day and then turn around and say how sad you are when we get murdered. You are just as bad as people who oppose gun control and then offer "thoughts and prayers" to the parents of children killed in school shootings!

I hate all of you, and I will never forgive a single one of you!

[firem4ge]

Reminder that shinigami eyes is one of the best tools to have as a trans woman. It helps mark people that are transmisogynistic through community consensus. The green labels don’t mean much but the red labels are accurate most of the time. If anyone is trying to convince you otherwise, they’re a bigot.

[strawberry-crocodile]

"transandrophobic exorsexist and intersexist" is always the most telling lineup because it's basically a list of labels that are genderqueer while not being strictly transfeminine. just a childsh mimicry of social justice language used as a bludgeon against transfeminism. a clear statement that you see transfems as a "them" opposed to the "us" of tme queers.

[daughter-of-sapph0]

these deserve to be part of the post i think

[agateaggregate]

Shes so me

[mutualaidgarden]

🏳️‍🌈Help your Queer black girl out🏳️‍🌈

Rent is past due, my hours at work were cut, and my electric bill is $1,934.80. I’m just trying to keep a roof over my head. I am drowning this month. Just trying to keep my apartment safe and the power on. Any help or shares mean the world to a Queer Black girl right now.

Electric: $0 / $1,934.80

June rent: $450/ $900

CashApp: $Queenloki89

Venmo: Queenloki89

[the-bitter-ocean]

The amount of nonblack tadc fans I’ve seen on Twitter jumping to defend the tadc cast members who joked and giggled about saying the n slur on accident when they were fully grown by saying “it was years ago and they were both only 231!1!1!1! Stupid n- I mean *AMERICANS* this is just drama and you’re cancelling an innocent artist 🥺 we forgive you” is the craziest thing in the world to me. Like buddy this is not your apology to forgive. Please be quiet. Nobody cares if this is your favorite cartoon in the world or if you’re a mega die hard stan for the characters. You’re not black so stay out of black issues. Hello. This show cannot be this good for y’all to be acting like you don’t have a lick of common sense or decency.

[the-bitter-ocean]

Like I’m sorry but if you’re repeatedly doing this over and over, friends with people who enjoy doing this and are still willing to employ them and keep them in your inner circle and defend them that’s.. weird. Full stop. It’s hard to believe it as a “sincere mistake” if you keep over the course of your life making the jokes and downplay your black fans genuine concerns or disappointment. It costs zero dollars to not be racist or enable/being pals and actively collaborating willingly on creative projects with people who claim that having a racist phase is normal. Please do background checks. Holy shit.

[spaceshipsandpurpledrank]

TLDR: this white queer person tried to hold other white queer people accountable for their racism and they DID NOT LIKE THAT

[coldbrewpup]

being a dork and making your girlfriend laugh is worth a sillyion dollars

[mel-cottoncloud]

@tagsan-manek-far

[tagsan-manek-far]

YAYYYY meeee :333333333

[coldbrewpup]

being a dork and making your girlfriend laugh is worth a sillyion dollars

[mel-cottoncloud]

@tagsan-manek-far

[fellator]

this fetish stuff is getting out of hand what the fuck is word play

[posthumousprincessparts]

cuz it got wiped from the internet: transfems it's so cute to want to be cute. do what you think makes you cute, it's ok if you feel awkward that's cute too. you can be yourself, even if you don't think that's very cute, you will still be the worlds cutest girl. i love you

[esthermika]

one of the best parts of transitioning was been the freedom to be a little silly and cute. before, if i tried to act that way, i'd get hit with a wave of disgust and self-hatred so strong i'd get a pain attack. today, i was chatting with a coworker and made a pouty face without even thinking about it, and it was so natural. i feel like a human now, i don't have to remember what emotions i am feeling to express them, they just happen.

it's wonderful. it makes me smile, and thinking about it makes me giggle.

[goldcrescent]

I also think that the strength gap is at least partially manufactured women would in fact be stronger overall if little girls were encouraged to do physically taxing games and activities and eat their fill while they’re growing vs having to constantly diet and be sedentary indoors (or god forbid do intense cardio while under-eating). The amount of adult women honestly afraid to lift weights bc they think they’ll get bulky as though bulking isn’t a full time job that athletes have to spend all their time on and anyone on earth gets shredded from just using their adult muscles for their intended purpose, girl your bone density 🥀

[goldcrescent]

if you say women are intentionally nerfed from birth in 2026 people look at you like you’re insane and start condescendingly telling you about how women are just better at different things (but not during their periods haha) but this was a completely basic feminist talking point I grew up with like “girls can do it too! [shot of little girls climbing and running with boys]” nickelodeon commercial tier base level I hate it how is everyone suddenly dumber than the average 7 year old

[antlershade]

i have a mission for you

Lily and Nico are two trans women who are very dear to me. They've been having to live all alone in a world that is getting more and more hostile and scary. You have the power to help. If Lily can move in with Nico, they both will have an easier time surviving. They are both struggling to make it on their own.

It's a long journey, so it will be an expensive one and Lily can't make it happen by herself. Every little bit helps. I know times are tough for all of us, but even if you can't donate, sharing helps a TON!

Donate to Help two trans women move in together for safety, organized by Brett Peters

Dear friends and community, My name is Lily, and I need to ask for y… Brett Peters needs your support for Help two trans women move in t

[antlershade]

this is time sensitive. we've all been going through hell. you have the power to stop it. use the power you have.

[closet-keys]

Wonderful news! My dear friend Fadel (@fadel-dani) was able to present his graduation project at his university and received his Bachelor's degree in Information Technology! Anyone who would like to congratulate and bless Fadel can do so by donating so that he can get medical treatment and study for his master's and doctorate in a safer place.

[closet-keys]

Fadel's project was about creating an integrated system for managing the water desalination plant in Gaza electronically. This is an incredibly important project, because Israel has systematically destroyed Gaza's water treatment infrastructure, blocked repairs in countless ways, and targeted workers. It is extremely brave to be working on this project. Please donate so that Fadel can one day lend his skill to rebuilding Gaza. From the river to the sea, Palestine will be free.

[closet-keys]

While Fadel shared this happy news with friends, he was interrupted by Israeli helicopters bombing nearby. There were four strikes on Gaza City last night and at least ten people were martyred. As we text today, @fadel-dani is still in the hospital receiving treatment. To maintain hope in the future, he must survive the present. Please donate so he can afford his hospital bills and medication costs.

[fadell-aldany]

Thank you so much to everyone who congratulated me and shared in my joy. I hope to be able to travel soon and have my surgery as soon as possible to be free from my pain, and to be able to complete my master's degree. So, my friends, you are our last hope. Please help me and be by our side before it's too late. Please donate and stand by me.

[tamamita]

While you sit there being excited about your video games, I'm watching Iran bomb Tel Aviv again

[el-shab-hussein]

Happy pride month