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my spread from last week; a rare occasion when itās sunny/dry enough in Seattle to sit outside! hope your term is going well. remember the importance of checking in with yourself and listening to your body in times of stress xxx
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me & you together song- the 1975
ā¢Men wearing nail polish ā¢Men wearing skirts/dresses ā¢Women not wearing makeup ā¢Women not shaving ā¢Treating teenagers like human beings/not overloading them with homework ā¢MORE REPRESENTATION IN MEDIA OF P.O.C, AND LGBTQ+ ā¢Talking about periods/stop period shaming ā¢Talking more about mental health in positive ways ā¢self love and self care
so women Not wearing make up is not normal? āshes not wearing make up. ugh. does she think shes specialā and self love and self care isnt normal either? āew. shes taking care of herself. fit in and hate yourself like the rest of us normie!ā š ok. and we out here gonna act like formula milk doesnt exist either?
your reblog is so full of ignorance, what the absolute fuck are you even talking about???? did you not read the post or you seriously misunderstood it?
itās normal for some women to not wear makeup, just not very acceptable. our culture constantly pressures women to wear makeup & to look perfect at all times. if you donāt wear makeuo you get told that you look sick, or look like youāve given up, or that youāre not feminine enough. the makeup industry constantly pushes makeup as an essencial & hygiene product when itās not. if you just take a quick look at hygiene ads on tv, youāll see a bunch of women washing their faces & then looking at the camera with a flawless skin, perfect eyebrows, & weāre told that this is what a woman without makeup is supposed to look like. those women in ads like that have a face FULL of makeup - foundation, concelear, powder, mascara, lip balm, lipstick sometimes, blush, eyebrows filled in.Ā
theyāre not saying self love & self care are gross things or whatever, theyāre saying the exact opposite, you dumbass. theyāre saying ppl SHOULD practice self love & care but donāt. those 2Ā are extremly hard things to do & itās not normalized. self love is the easiest to explain, itās related to the beauty industry that constantly shames ppl - women in particular - for having normal bodies - for havinf acne, for having scars, for having stretch marks. in our culture is hard as fuck to love the way you look & also to love yourself. depression & anxiety rates are incredibly high nowadays, mental illnesses affect your self esteem & in cases like depression, keeps you from taking basic care of yourself by doing simple things such as taking a shower everyday.Ā
the formula milk thing is just straight up ignorance. formula milk DOES exist but it doesnāt have all the nutrients babies need, breast milk is way better for the baby. not just bc of nutrients but bc a motherās nipples can sense, from the babyās saliva, what nutrients the baby needs & produces more of it to keep the baby healthy. formula doesnāt do that. breastmilk is also easier for the baby to digest than formula milk. also the skin to skin contact with the mother is very important to the babyās development in the future & that plus eye to eye contact with the baby forms a stronger bond between mother & child & makes the child feel safer. & itās also best for the mother, bc breastfeeding releases oxytocin which helps the uterus return to itās pre-pregnancy size, reduces uterine bleeding after birth, & lowers the risks of breast & ovarian cancer. & also, shaming women for breastfeeding is very sexist. breasts werenāt made to be anyoneās sex toy or a symbol of sex, it was made for feeding babies. itās a secondary sex characteristic. if you want to censor them, you have to censor menās facil hair & adamās apple too bc they are also secondary sex characteristics.Ā
while perhaps a bit cliche/dramatic, this empty table of contents truly describes my life at the moment. i have so much passion, so many ideas and plans for the future, yet despite how hard i work, nothing seems to result from my efforts. all that i am doing now is consuming and stressful, but it brings me no closer to my goals. everything is unfinished. i am losing sight of the dreams i once ran towards.
(not giving up though !! just writing to clear the confusion)
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This is literally me rn too. Like i am doing a ton of things and completing a bunch of tasks and yet i have nothing to show for it š
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How I finished my first year of law school with a first - Starting law school advice (pt 1)
Sooooā¦Iāve been spending the past few days replying to people on all platforms asking for advice on starting Law at university so I thought Iād give my experience and methods on how I finished my first year of university with a First (which like the top grade for people who donāt understand the system). Itās a long post but Iām going to include FAQs and my top tips.Ā (Ps: Iām in my second year of university now)
FAQs:
1) I didnāt study law at A-level, am I at a disadvantage?Ā
Fun Fact, I actually went to Medical school for a week before deciding it was too much for me, meaning my A-levels were centred around science and medicine. This meant I started Law school having no experience inĀ āessay basedā subjects such as Law. I had to completely adapt and adjust my way of learning and from experience was at no disadvantage to my peers who had studied law. If anything, I noticed my teachers preferred it when students have no law knowledge, so they can start Uni level content without needing to dwell on the difference between A-level and Degree level content (obviously, at A-level law wouldnāt be in as much detail as it would be at a Degree level).Ā
So no, you wouldnāt be at a disadvantage, and no matter what you studied before starting uni, you just need to be able to transfer the skills you picked up during your pre-uni studies to your degree. Plus, many people wouldnāt have studied law at A-level, at least, I havenāt met many anyway.
2) What is the difference between a lecture and a seminar?
This one is pretty easy to explain. A lecture is when there are hundreds of people in a big lecture theatre having the teacher explaining the content and teaching the syllabus. Iām not sure at other unis but at mine, you donāt really get to ask many questions during lectures because theyāre not long but this may vary from one university to the other. So generally, a lecture is where you learn the information from a professor. A seminar is much smaller, more like a normal classroom where you will be applying your knowledge; this will be where you are likely to be trying exam questions and problem questions and this is where you get to ask all your questions.Ā
3) Will I have any time to socialise?Ā
YESSSSS!!! The legal profession is a veeeeeery social one; you will be attending things like law fairs and events where you will be meeting lawyers, judges and other important people (known as Networking events) where you need to be able to charm them and make them know your name. If youāre looking at becoming a lawyer of any kind, you need connections especially for after graduation, and this means loooooots of networking events, lots of parties and dinners and lots of socialising. Your studies, if managed well, will not hinder you from having a social life with your friends, and you need that aspect to help you with the professional side of things (awesome right?!). Fun Fact: I managed to get work experience from having won over a Barrister at a Networking event; and if they ask for your Linked In at any fairs, you make sure they get your username! That social networking site is a Godsend when you need to learn about someone or want to gather everything about yourself.
4) How do I make notes?
I will be making a whole post about how I personally take notes, but briefly, it is all trial and error until you find what works for you. Some chapters will be a lot more content heavy, others can be summarised in bullet points; itās all a matter of figuring it out as you go.Ā
As for whether you type or hand write your notes thatās totally up to you, I do both so I have the information multiple times: First I type full notes (which I sell, meaning if you need motivation, just remember you can make money off your notes thatās enough to motivate me sooooā¦). Next, I type summaries, then I hand-write the chapter summarised further (which is my favourite part because I can make those pretty notes that you see on here). I do like to also make flashcards, but I tend to do that closer to assessments or between chapters (so Iāll finish Chapter 1 and start Chapter 2, midway, Iāll review my knowledge on Chapter 1 and make pretty flashcards.Ā
All of this sounds really long, but I promise, as long as you work efficiently, itās actually manageable plus I do everything as I go along - I will also be making a post on this in more detail soon too :D.Ā
5) Aside from studies, what else should I do during law school?
Well, the only thing I want to put emphasis on here, is that whilst law school is supposed to be enjoyable, and you are supposed to have some fun, it is important to work hard so that you can find a job after you graduateā¦
The legal profession is suuuuuuper competitive, itās not enough to just get a first anymore, you do need to have a CV that stands out from all the rest. My top tips:
Get work experience - apply to things like Pro-Bono, help at the Citizenās Advice Bureau, shadow lawyers, attend court hearings, etc. Experience is absolutely crucial in the field!Ā
If you speak another language, GET A QUALIFICATION IN IT! - I know 7 languages, and as such, I have done 3 A-levels in 3 languages and the rest, I did an equivalent qualification through my uni. This is important as you have something of substance to show to employers when you come to apply for a job and mention this skill. It really makes you stand out, even if itās a single language and itās SUPER helpful if like me, you want to work internationally. If you donāt know another language, move onto the next bullet point:
If you donāt speak another language, you can learn one OR Pick your strongest skill and capitalise on it! - this means, if youāre good at a sport, join a team and show dedication, these things count when impressing employers, theyāll see you as a team player with discipline and that ALWAYS looks super appealing. Itās super useful if you are able to show why your skill should be appreciated in the career (for example: if your experience/skill is to be an awesome cashier, you can say youāve dealt with embarrassing situations like a rejected card, which gave you the skill of knowing how to handle these scenarios SO, when you have a customer, and they have something they are ashamed of or uncomfortable to discuss, you know what to do. See? easy peasy.)
So, thatās enough FAQs, now onto my top tips:
PREPARE FOR YOUR LECTURES AND SEMINARS - do NOT be the student that canāt contribute, you will not get enough out of those lessons.Ā
If thereās consolidation work, DO IT! - it really helps you understand where youāre confused and what you need to work on.Ā
Donāt study for longer than 30 mins at a time with 5-15 minute breaks - Law requires a lot of reading, which means a lot of eye strain, crouching and very little movement.
Do yoga - as the above bullet point highlights, you need to stretch your limbs, back and neck, otherwise youāll be in a lot of pain. Also, stretch your wrists, youāll save yourself a lot of pain.
Exercise - maintaining a healthy lifestyle means youāll have energy and power to keep going. Even just 15 minutes of active time a day really helps relieve some stress.Ā
Remember that nobody is perfect, you canāt maintain a constant perfect studious attitude and should never put that sort of pressure on yourself. Balance is everything. (iāll also be discussing my experience with mental health in my first year at law school and how I dealt with depression and anxiety).Ā
Drink water - I know, itās a cliche, but itās actually important because youāll be reading so much, you increase the likelihood of a headache if youāre dehydrated, so keep hydrated kids!Ā
Never, ever feel bad for sharing your successes - if youāre proud of something youāve achieved share it! just stay humble, and donātĀ rub it in peopleās faces.
have a diary and carry a notebook with you at all times - track meetings, notes and to do lists to make sure youāre on top of everything.Ā
Wake up earlier - I wake up at 5am and get some work done, but if you wake up earlier, you have more time to wake up slowly, and not stress yourself from the morning. Take time to do your makeup or hair, take time to meditate or exercise or read, or even do work, but start your day slowly and not rushing around getting things done.Ā
and finally, please please PLEASE remember to actually make time for yourself, make night time routine where you take time to do a skincare routine or wind-down time or simply lounge around and watch Netflix. If you know you have the time to do this, youāre less likely to procrastinate!
Enjoy law school guys, itās actually an amazing experience with pretty cool people!Ā
- Mel x
Working on clearing my OmniFocus inbox this morning then working on contract law. :)
How I finished my first year of law school with a first - Starting law school advice (pt 1)
Soooo...Iāve been spending the past few days replying to people on all platforms asking for advice on starting Law at university so I thought Iād give my experience and methods on how I finished my first year of university with a First (which like the top grade for people who donāt understand the system). Itās a long post but Iām going to include FAQs and my top tips.Ā (Ps: Iām in my second year of university now)
FAQs:
1) I didnāt study law at A-level, am I at a disadvantage?Ā
Fun Fact, I actually went to Medical school for a week before deciding it was too much for me, meaning my A-levels were centred around science and medicine. This meant I started Law school having no experience inĀ āessay basedā subjects such as Law. I had to completely adapt and adjust my way of learning and from experience was at no disadvantage to my peers who had studied law. If anything, I noticed my teachers preferred it when students have no law knowledge, so they can start Uni level content without needing to dwell on the difference between A-level and Degree level content (obviously, at A-level law wouldnāt be in as much detail as it would be at a Degree level).Ā
So no, you wouldnāt be at a disadvantage, and no matter what you studied before starting uni, you just need to be able to transfer the skills you picked up during your pre-uni studies to your degree. Plus, many people wouldnāt have studied law at A-level, at least, I havenāt met many anyway.
2) What is the difference between a lecture and a seminar?
This one is pretty easy to explain. A lecture is when there are hundreds of people in a big lecture theatre having the teacher explaining the content and teaching the syllabus. Iām not sure at other unis but at mine, you donāt really get to ask many questions during lectures because theyāre not long but this may vary from one university to the other. So generally, a lecture is where you learn the information from a professor. A seminar is much smaller, more like a normal classroom where you will be applying your knowledge; this will be where you are likely to be trying exam questions and problem questions and this is where you get to ask all your questions.Ā
3) Will I have any time to socialise?Ā
YESSSSS!!! The legal profession is a veeeeeery social one; you will be attending things like law fairs and events where you will be meeting lawyers, judges and other important people (known as Networking events) where you need to be able to charm them and make them know your name. If youāre looking at becoming a lawyer of any kind, you need connections especially for after graduation, and this means loooooots of networking events, lots of parties and dinners and lots of socialising. Your studies, if managed well, will not hinder you from having a social life with your friends, and you need that aspect to help you with the professional side of things (awesome right?!). Fun Fact: I managed to get work experience from having won over a Barrister at a Networking event; and if they ask for your Linked In at any fairs, you make sure they get your username! That social networking site is a Godsend when you need to learn about someone or want to gather everything about yourself.
4) How do I make notes?
I will be making a whole post about how I personally take notes, but briefly, it is all trial and error until you find what works for you. Some chapters will be a lot more content heavy, others can be summarised in bullet points; itās all a matter of figuring it out as you go.Ā
As for whether you type or hand write your notes thatās totally up to you, I do both so I have the information multiple times: First I type full notes (which I sell, meaning if you need motivation, just remember you can make money off your notes thatās enough to motivate me soooo...). Next, I type summaries, then I hand-write the chapter summarised further (which is my favourite part because I can make those pretty notes that you see on here). I do like to also make flashcards, but I tend to do that closer to assessments or between chapters (so Iāll finish Chapter 1 and start Chapter 2, midway, Iāll review my knowledge on Chapter 1 and make pretty flashcards.Ā
All of this sounds really long, but I promise, as long as you work efficiently, itās actually manageable plus I do everything as I go along - I will also be making a post on this in more detail soon too :D.Ā
5) Aside from studies, what else should I do during law school?
Well, the only thing I want to put emphasis on here, is that whilst law school is supposed to be enjoyable, and you are supposed to have some fun, it is important to work hard so that you can find a job after you graduate...
The legal profession is suuuuuuper competitive, itās not enough to just get a first anymore, you do need to have a CV that stands out from all the rest. My top tips:
Get work experience - apply to things like Pro-Bono, help at the Citizenās Advice Bureau, shadow lawyers, attend court hearings, etc. Experience is absolutely crucial in the field!Ā
If you speak another language, GET A QUALIFICATION IN IT! - I know 7 languages, and as such, I have done 3 A-levels in 3 languages and the rest, I did an equivalent qualification through my uni. This is important as you have something of substance to show to employers when you come to apply for a job and mention this skill. It really makes you stand out, even if itās a single language and itās SUPER helpful if like me, you want to work internationally. If you donāt know another language, move onto the next bullet point:
If you donāt speak another language, you can learn one OR Pick your strongest skill and capitalise on it! - this means, if youāre good at a sport, join a team and show dedication, these things count when impressing employers, theyāll see you as a team player with discipline and that ALWAYS looks super appealing. Itās super useful if you are able to show why your skill should be appreciated in the career (for example: if your experience/skill is to be an awesome cashier, you can say youāve dealt with embarrassing situations like a rejected card, which gave you the skill of knowing how to handle these scenarios SO, when you have a customer, and they have something they are ashamed of or uncomfortable to discuss, you know what to do. See? easy peasy.)
So, thatās enough FAQs, now onto my top tips:
PREPARE FOR YOUR LECTURES AND SEMINARS - do NOT be the student that canāt contribute, you will not get enough out of those lessons.Ā
If thereās consolidation work, DO IT! - it really helps you understand where youāre confused and what you need to work on.Ā
Donāt study for longer than 30 mins at a time with 5-15 minute breaks - Law requires a lot of reading, which means a lot of eye strain, crouching and very little movement.
Do yoga - as the above bullet point highlights, you need to stretch your limbs, back and neck, otherwise youāll be in a lot of pain. Also, stretch your wrists, youāll save yourself a lot of pain.
Exercise - maintaining a healthy lifestyle means youāll have energy and power to keep going. Even just 15 minutes of active time a day really helps relieve some stress.Ā
Remember that nobody is perfect, you canāt maintain a constant perfect studious attitude and should never put that sort of pressure on yourself. Balance is everything. (iāll also be discussing my experience with mental health in my first year at law school and how I dealt with depression and anxiety).Ā
Drink water - I know, itās a cliche, but itās actually important because youāll be reading so much, you increase the likelihood of a headache if youāre dehydrated, so keep hydrated kids!Ā
Never, ever feel bad for sharing your successes - if youāre proud of something youāve achieved share it! just stay humble, and donātĀ rub it in peopleās faces.
have a diary and carry a notebook with you at all times - track meetings, notes and to do lists to make sure youāre on top of everything.Ā
Wake up earlier - I wake up at 5am and get some work done, but if you wake up earlier, you have more time to wake up slowly, and not stress yourself from the morning. Take time to do your makeup or hair, take time to meditate or exercise or read, or even do work, but start your day slowly and not rushing around getting things done.Ā
and finally, please please PLEASE remember to actually make time for yourself, make night time routine where you take time to do a skincare routine or wind-down time or simply lounge around and watch Netflix. If you know you have the time to do this, youāre less likely to procrastinate!
Enjoy law school guys, itās actually an amazing experience with pretty cool people!Ā
- Mel x
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The two types of language learners:
Person 1: I canāt wait to know a few phrases so I can communicate in my target language!
Person 2: I REFUSE TO SPEAK A SINGLE WORD UNTIL I KNOW ALL THE GRAMMATICAL RULES AND ALL THE SYNTAX AND MORPHOL-
Actual good first-time college student advice:
Wear jeans/pants that ābreatheā and bring a sweater, even if itās scorching hot out, until you know which building blasts the AC to 60 degrees F and which feels like a sauna
Backpacks with thick straps are your friend!Ā Messenger bags are cool and all but if youāre commuting with a lot of stuff, symmetrically styled backpacks are better for your back
You are your own person and you can walk out whenever you need to or want to, so long as youāre not disrupting the class.Ā Meaning you can go to the bathroom without permission, take a breather if youāre anxious, answer an important phone call, etc.
If you donāt like the class on the first day, if you can- DROP THAT CLASS AND TAKE ANOTHER ONE!Ā Itāll only get worse from there!
If you can, take a class outside your major; itās a good break from your expected studies.
You are in charge of your schedule.Ā Your adviser and guidance counselor is there to āadvise and guideā but if you donāt like certain classes and you can substitute for others, thatās your choice.
Consequently, if you are changing anything drastic in your plan, talk with your adviser and instructors.
Pay attention to your credit hours and grades. Ā Never leave this to the last week of school, you will be sorry and stressed beyond belief!
Unless itās a lab book or otherwise specified, go to the class for a week or so before buying an expensive textbook.Ā Some classes, while having it on their required list, do not actually use the textbook a whole lot and you might find some of it scanned online.Ā Rent if you can or buy used online (schools actually donāt give discounts).Ā Use your best judgement on what you think you need.
Tell the people who go up to you selling or advertising things you are not interested in that you are in a rush to class and donāt have time to listen to them.Ā Itās less rude and theyāll leave you alone.
The smaller the class, the better it is to have some sort of acquaintanceship with a couple classmates.Ā They might save your ass if you are absent one day or need to study.Ā And talking with them makes the time go by faster without it being so insufferable.
You donāt need to join a club or sport, but internships are cool and useful!
If you can afford it, take a day off once or twice each semester if youāre too exhausted.Ā Just be aware of what you missed and if it was worth missing!
Your health is the most important, this goes for mental health too!!Ā Note: College-age/upper teens is when mental disorders like depression and anxiety are most commonly diagnosed.Ā Most schools have therapy services, especially during exam time.Ā Look into it if you need to!
Communicate with your professor if you are having trouble with something.Ā Anything.
Eat and stay hydrated.Ā Bring a water bottle and snack to class.
All-nighters will happen but never go over 36 hours without sleep.
Itās going to be hard and there will be times you might think about giving up.Ā This WILL happen.Ā You just have to make sure what youāre doing isnāt making you absolutely miserable and/or there is something rewarding and positive to look forward to at the end!
I did none of this and it bit me in the ass every time so this is EXCELLENT ADVICE.
ADDITIONAL ADVICE
Donāt let a mental health day turn into a mental health week because you will be so screwed.
Pay attention to the syllabus and do not lose it. A lot of professors put all of the assignment due dates in there and ONLY in there.
If your school has blackboard or moodle etc. CHECK IT. a lot of professors will only post certain info there and not talk about it in class
Check your student email account weekly. A lot of it will be unimportant junk but sometimes itās the only way professors will communicate.
Check your student email multiple times DAILY.Ā
THANK YOU. Iām so glad i have resources like this queued up in my ācollegeā tag bc honestly i was so stressed before
Advice from someone who really fucked up their freshman year:
READINGS ARE NOT OPTIONAL.
I REPEAT. READINGS. ARE. NOT. OPTIONAL.
Put them in your schedule, read BEFORE class. And summarise it. For bonus points, come up with some questions about the text and go introduce yourself to your professor either after class or during office hours, and ask them about it. This will make them much more likely to remember you in a positive light (and possibly bump your grade up if you hit a hard patch.)
Your library will have a copy of your textbook. If you cannot afford to rent it, you can go to the library and borrow it from the front desk for a few hours whenever you need it. It is there for you, okay?Ā
SO DO YOUR READINGS.
You donāt have to fake orgasm to help your partnerās ego. The guy I lost my virginity to wrote a play about the experience, and the character based on me gave a monologue about how she regretted sleeping with him because no one else would ever be that good. So, yeah. Just tell him you didnāt cum.Ā
Im sorry he wrote a fucking what
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