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Personal side blog where I reblog trans non-binary shit, I don't use the SAM, everything a-spec is tagged as ace (they/them) 🌠

[harder-on-me]

I love female fags, male dykes, trans mtftms and ftmtfs. I adore genderqueer genderfreaks who fuck gender and hug eachother. A kiss to every bi lesbian, every asexual lesbian, every mspec gay guy married to his beard who he's in love with. A smile and a nod to all the incomprehensible degenerates who are holding hands when they get pelted with rocks on the street for being visible and a menace to society. I pour one out for all the faggot dykes, femme butches, agender aromatic asexuals, high femmes and stone butches. This one goes out to the freaks of nature who queer queerness and are left to martyrdom by those who should love them, you are loved by me.

[oysters-aint-for-me]

i need the aromantics to know that the new york times crossword loves your existence because it allows them to use the word “ARO” in their puzzles

[oysters-aint-for-me]

they just love you

[danothan]

tell them i’m flattered but not interested. i hope we can still be friends

[sunflowersosa]

Nigerian Pride 🏳️‍🌈🇳🇬

I meant to have this out yesterday. Happy belated pride. :)

[stephexmachina]

when i was a kid i was so mad all the time bc i thought someday i'd have to be somebody's wife i didn't know it was optional. is everybody reminding the young girls in their lives that it's optional.

[stephexmachina]

AND SO IS BEING SOMEBODY'S MOTHER‼️

[louisegluckpdf]

kind of obsessed with this hinge response

[candyskiez]

The fact that people don't think friendship is enough to justify characters doing insane acts of love for each other baffles me. Like have you never loved your friend so so much you want to live in their ribcage. Have you never been really weird about a friend. Have you never wanted to bite your friends parents or shove them down a staircase. Have you never wanted to be buried in the same grave as a friend. Have u never. How do u people live like this.

[gyrovagi]

as far as i'm concerned, all romance is horror

[gyrovagi]

Ohhhhhh my god u think all horror is romance actually? should we tell everyone? Should we throw a party?should we invite guillermo del toro

[shoefaced2]

Ik this is such a niche desire, but I desperately need more representation of m/f gnc relationships where both partners have the same gender expression.

For example, a masc man dating a masc woman. Not just a tomboy, but a woman who has cropped hair, wears men's suits, maybe even takes hormones and binds but still identifies as a woman.

This dynamic is completely overlooked. There is no rep for us anywhere. And as a gnc bisexual person, it sucks immensely that we are so invisible.

[queerasfact]

Today, 25 February, in 1971, New York newspaper The Village Voice published an article, titled Asexuals Have Problems Too. The article satirised earlier debates in the paper, which had argued over whether straight or gay people had things harder, positing that being asexual in a sex-obsessed world was the hardest of all. You can read the whole thing here.

Although the article was not intended to be taken seriously, it resonated with readers – some wrote in thanking the author for increasing the visibility of asexuality, others wrote in solidarity, hoping to learn more about how to support the ace community.

If you’d like to hear more about this moment in ace history, check out our podcast!

[zephyr-heart]

[lamortwrites]

Women being described as handsome >>>>>>>>>>>>

[punkitt-is-here]

unfathomably based thank you uncle iroh

[bookwyrminspiration]

starting a new fuck/marry/kill called aro/crack/attack where you take three characters and decide who you're making aromantic, whose egg you're cracking, and who you're doing grievous bodily harm

[melandrops]

the aroace read of ryland grace is so personal and haunting. "you don't even have a dog." was it not enough to love the world for the sake of living in it. was it not enough to live for the thrill of discovery. was it not enough to smile at your students. was it not enough to be afraid.

[specialagentartemis]

There’s also a thing that people who think they’re being accepting do where they go “Not wanting romance is SO SAD AND LONELY! Not wanting to read romance novels is SEXIST! Not wanting a partner makes you a FREAK! Not having sex with your partner is BAD and ABUSIVE! Not feeling sexual attraction to your partner means there is SOMETHING WRONG WITH YOU!… unless you’re aromantic or asexual, of course! Then you get a pass.” The only acceptable reason to deviate from the amatonormative and sexnormative societal norm is to claim an identity label that exempts you. The actual thing you’re doing is still bad… but don’t worry it’s OK for you to do it! It feels like, we haven’t actually challenged any norms at all, you just get a pass on them because you can’t help it, poor thing. If you have the capacity to feel these, you have the obligation to; you are only exempt if you claim an identity that says that you are unable to. It implies that we would if we could, but we can’t, and it’s merely unfair to punish us for our shortcomings. Romance and sex are still social requirements, that hasn’t changed, we just are allowed a pass on it because we are unable to meet them. (And we’re still expected to reassure everyone that of course we recognize that their romance and sex is far more important than anything we will ever be able to have!)

I don’t want aros and aces to get special exemption from the requirement to have romance and sex and romantic attraction and sexual attraction; I want that to not be a requirement for anyone.

[memecucker]

dude posts a vid of himself dancing in a skirt to a song and suddenly people are lashing out against it and this is supposedly woke or something

[dingdongyouarewrong]

‘gender nonconforming people are more likely to be predators and we should strictly adhere to gender norms and distrust anyone who likes GNC people’ but make it woke

[vullen]

future archaeologists will know you were (not) a boy