Mental Mender

A person who likes to talk about various things

[mentalmender]

Hello. Just call me Mental Mender, I started this account to hopefully gain friends, information, confidence, some peace of mind or anything to be honest...

This account/page is a supporter of many things. So please be respectful and understand, even I will ask questions if I don't understand.

My hobbies are fishing 🎣, watching media 💻, singing 🎤, art ✏, learning about different cultures and languages 🌍, reading 📚, and bowling 🎳.

I will continue to edit this as time goes but if you have any questions, go right ahead. I also have other outlets instead of Tumblr.

Misc.

Type 4 Ennegram 🧠

Spiritual (still a beginner) 🌌

Pisces ♓

Type INFP 🧠

Stop Asian Hate 🚫

Black Lives Matter ⚠️

🏳️‍🌈 supporter & "Pan"

[mentalmender]

Just a little sneak peek! I like what I have done but I know I could have been smoother with it.

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I hope you enjoy this. From practicing to just Journaling! I love to feed my creative outlet and every single time I love the outcome. <3

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New to me, old to you all c:

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I thought this was so cute lol! Mini doodle!! <3

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I will post soon! Just been doing a lot of stuff!!

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I just wanted to show you my color pencil blend-ish. I'm happy about it even though it isn't great but I'm happy because I tried and my skills are gonna keep getting better <3

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Pure Envy Facials & Fades on Instagram: "✨Help me win the Salon contest at @salonandspagalleria - the winner gets a cash prize 💸 •Book with

Pure Envy Facials & Fades shared a post on Instagram: "✨Help me win the Salon contest at @salonandspagalleria - the winner gets a cash prize

Also I also recommend this person and just helping them and sharing their post! C:

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I was our camping and decided to do some art and doodles and I even started in my new journal so I really make a first impression. In my opinion I think it looks really good, I'm still practicing and drawing here and there but I still love the way it came out! Journaling with some "Arting"!!!

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I'm sorry I been gone FOR A WHILE BUT I been doing some self loving/healing and I'm back. I'm not sure which direction I want to take my Tumblr but..im gonna post about anything or just blog about my day. I would love to hear from other people! I think I needed the self love/heal break and I'm taking things day by day! So have a wonderful rest of your day lol❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

~ Aphroisces ~

[mentalmender]

Just wanted to let everyone know, for the people who follow me, who I talk to or anything... im going to take some time to myself. It's just been a little stressful right now but I promise I'll come back soon.

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Good afternoon, I hope today is going well for you. I have just been thinking that before I got out of my bad situation, I thought I could not do anything by myself. I always felt like I needed someone with me every step of the way and I had no trust or confidence in myself.

Since I got out of my father's house and now living with my boyfriend's family, I finally feel free and alive. I have little moments where I feel like life is either going too fast or I'm not ready at all. I feel like that's only because I have this newfound freedom and I have the choice to choose what I want to do and how I want to do it. I get to live my own life the way I want.

Although this is still new to me, I encourage everyone to at least live life to the fullest, enjoy the little moments and appreciate life. Be yourself and never let someone tell you what you can't do or you're inadequate in any way. Also fuck societal standards 🤙🏽

Have a great weekend and stay strong.

You are awesome. You are amazing.

You can do it!

~Love Mental Mender <3

[mentalmender]

Labels & Whatnot

Ever since I was a kid, I knew I was not straight. First, I thought I liked girls and it was weird at first because in my family, liking the same sex was not allowed.

Some time passed and then I found myself identifying as bisexual, liking girls and guys because I was attracted to people in my high school. Then I started to think that it’s not just girls and guys I like, it is the vibe, personality, the energy that I love about the (or a) person.

That was how I felt up until college because I met this new person, in my friend group at the time, named River and they were non-binary. Not that it matters but I was attracted to River and it changed the way I thought about my sexuality in general.

At this point I was confused. I knew I was bisexual, but I wondered if I may even be pansexual or queer. I talked and “explained” to my partner about this and he said “Okay? So what?” He explained how I should just be myself and not get so hung up on labels.

Now don’t get me wrong labels can and are helpful in many ways but he has a point. We, humans or everyone, feel the need to categorize and label ourselves and everything when we should just experience life, be happy, and live life the way we want to...You know? I probably didn’t explain it right but I honestly want to know what other people think about “LABELS” and how we label everything.

What do you think? Would you like to discuss this with me?

[quotemadness]

“I’m in the process of becoming a better version of myself.”

— Unknown

[mentalmender]

Very much so.

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Daily Drawing Practice I been trying and practicing my drawing skills, but here is what I drew today.

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Take Your Time.

Breathe... It’s okay. Today is still a good day. :0

[kindnotestoself]

{I see you trying} {And you are doing very well}