I'm so tired

Lesbian and feminist sideblog

[gender-machine-broke]

[heterorealism]

[eve-was-framed]

you know what? normalize ruthlessly mocking men’s interests completely unprovoked the same way they’ve spent years mocking pumpkin spice lattes and pop music and animal crossing and the sims and every other completely harmless thing women often enjoy. I Love Revenge

[pineapplerightsideupcake]

My favorite thing to do is tell men getting good at dark souls is a false high because most enemies move slowly, telegraphing their moves and so it rewards you with a false sense of “getting good” when in fact you’ve just memorized an attack pattern.

I’ve not played a single second of a souls born game. I vaguely remember hearing that criticism once. But speaking with authority on something you’ve never experienced is mens favorite pastime.

Back in my Reddit days I think I actually created a couple nosebleeds.

[thecottongaslight]

[girlsmoonsandstars]

i cannot stress enough that absolutely no man who says he is scared of lesbians is actually experiencing anything within the same family as fear

[microplasticbarbie]

Sometimes I feel tempted to look up fan content for my fav niche book series, but then I realize I'm on tumblr and I will just see people giving the male lead double masectomy scars. And it will be in the ugliest art style you can possibly imagine.

[supermoonscarab]

Tradwife types act like feminists hate them, but for decades feminists have worked to bring light to the plight of housewives, demanded wages for housework, and advocated for free childcare.

[therearenogirlsontheinternets]

Truth.

[thatsonemorbidcorvid]

Women’s marathon

[emma-radfemcanu]

I thought exactly this when watching the mixed relay- it was mixed sex teams, they were competing at the exact same time, and yet the men wore actual shorts and the women wore what was essentially underwear?

[lesbian-lizards]

Wonder how that girl felt when her dad “laughed his ass off” at something that was clearly making her uncomfortable

[3am-nonsense]

It’s the way men always laugh at women’s concerns even though deep down they know these concerns are legitimate

[womenarehuman]

This is why men shouldn’t be allowed to raise daughters.

[female-malice]

I was going to say “there are good dads! Not all dads!” But then I remembered how insecure my dad made me feel about sports I was interested in as a kid. He didn’t even realize he was doing that. And he didn’t do it on purpose. But he has never shown me in any way that he believes women’s sports are valuable. He’s a sports geek and a superfan and watching men play sports is the only thing that makes him happy. And he never once thought about what kind of message that was sending.

I don’t remember him saying a single thing about women’s sports throughout my entire childhood. Not one thing positive or negative. But he had an entire shrine of NFL memorabilia.

[mangoestho-deactivated20161001]

STUDY: More Than Half Of Black Girls Are Sexually Assaulted

A NEWSONE EXCLUSIVE REPORT Sixty percent of black girls have experienced sexual abuse at the hands of black men before reaching the age of 18, according to an ongoing study conducted by Black Women...

I FEEL LIKE WE’VE BEEN SAYING THIS… FOREVER. BUT ONE WAS WAS LISTENING. AT ALL…

[kafilahx]

word! I definitely feel like this needs to be discussed in the black community.

[reverseracism]

Pedophilia and sexual assault are definitely major elephants in the room in the black community.

[luvyourselfsomeesteem-deactivat]

^^^ it is but let you try and bring up this obvious issue then black men are like “this is a distraction, there are bigger issues we can be talking about” Most of my black girlfriends have been sexually assaulted or molested in some ways like in my eyes it’s on the level of being a crisis but the only oppression the community cares about is racism, everyone with anyother issue is forced into silence

[obama-stolemy-vcr]

But we also need to address how nobody believes these young women when they tell their family their uncle or cousin or other relative or someone they know sexually assaults them. Especially when its family.

[dynastylnoire]

Mom’s boyfriend especially

[ihatemenandtherearereasons]

Exhibit 1915

[mithliya]

“people dont take men’s pain as seriously as women’s :(” okay and yet in the real world, women are called emotional, irrational, dramatic, crazy, and hysterical for expressing our emotions. expressing pain isnt taken seriously when we go to the doctor’s to the point where it seriously risks our health. us hurting ourselves is treated as a mere plea for attention. us getting raped is treated as just a little regret that we’re overexaggerating. meanwhile a man will cry after being caught abusing someone and people will still bohoo for him.

[feminist-pussycat]

Plus, it’s not people, it’s men.

Cretser, G. A., Lombardo, W. K., Lombardo, B., & Mathis, S. (1982). Reactions to Men and Women Who Cry: A Study of Sex Differences in Perceived Societal Attitudes versus Personal Attitudes. Perceptual and Motor Skills, 55(2), 479–486. https://doi.org/10.2466/pms.1982.55.2.479

“The proportion of subjects of both sexes who considered crying by males acceptable was significantly greater than the proportion who felt "people" would find it acceptable. Women seemed to hold a unisex standard of crying, while male subjects endorsed a double standard.”

Labott, S. M., Martin, R. B., Eason, P. S., & Berkey, E. Y. (1991). Social reactions to the expression of emotion. Cognition and Emotion, 5, 397–417.

“Respondents liked men more when they cried, whereas they like women more when they displayed no emotional reaction to stimuli... men and women react differently to a crying person: Women predominantly react with sympathy and support, whereas men generally experience irritation and confusion.”

The insults men receive for crying is to compare them to women. Women are the insult.

Fischer, A. H., Eagly, A. H., & Oosterwijk, S. (2013). The meaning of tears: Which sex seems emotional depends on the social context. European Journal of Social Psychology, 43(6), n/a-n/a. https://doi.org/10.1002/ejsp.1974

“Specifically, observers would penalize crying men in employment contexts by considering them to be feminine (“sissy”) and not according them masculine traitst hat presumably restrain crying and enhance professional competence, such as decisiveness, willpower, and self-confidence.Given that backlash is especially strong for violations of the gender hierarchy, crying men in workplaces are at risk for social punishment that takes the form of ascribing feminine qualities to them...women are regarded as more emotional than men because men’s crying is seen as more exceptional and therefore more justified and attributed to unique events.”

God I hate this so much.

[carmelasoprano]

What the Constitution Means to Me, Heidi Schreck // “Especially Heinous: 272 Views of Law & Order SVU,” Carmen Maria Machado

[redraspberryrave-deactivated202]

Wow. Perhaps the WHO should recommend that all men of inseminating age should abstain from alcohol?

[redraspberryrave-deactivated202]

As the notes on this continue to grow just to be clear the caption is mocking a real recommendation made by the WHO to women within the past few years, that all women of childbearing age should consider abstaining from alcohol. It is a straightforward inversion of both their recommendation and the language they used.

[imeverywoman420]

a lot of femininity is turning yourself into a clown or bad person (manipulative, shallow, teehee im a pretty princess i cant do math) and its so men can make fun of you. And not feel so bad because youre calling yourself these things and embracing being a pretty princess gold digger that cant help being an abusive partner or an inconsiderate person hehe im just a Girl :)

they want you to embrace the role of bimbo villain so they can go “see! Women really have no accountability women really DONT think about important things”

[djuvlipen]

"What happened in Germany since full legalisation? Today the police say that only 10% of the women have no pimp. About 90% of the women are migrants from very poor countries, mostly Romania and Bulgaria.

What we see is that prostitution is a very racist system. It is usually the racially discriminated women who enter prostitution – like Roma women from Romania. And prostitution itself is racist too because it fetishizes ethnicity. We have brothels that have a kind of apartheid system when it comes to the women. You go to the first floor for the Romanian women. You go to the second floor for Asian women. You go to the third floor for African women.

We see that prostitution in Germany makes sex buyers more racist. They use very racist and sexist slurs against women and they try to offer refugee women from Syria money for sex.

To allow prostitution makes a country more racist because the sex buyers who, for example, buy Asian women won’t see other non-prostituted Asian women as human. This is what we see. It’s as if we are still a colonialist country.

Legalisation normalises prostitution. For example, we had a TV show that was called ‘Pimp My Brothel’ where a brothel keeper who’s now in jail for human trafficking went into brothels to tell them what they could do better.

Legalisation brings more capitalism into prostitution because the women are the product and are only there to serve the client. So, legalisation strengthens the client’s rights. We even had a court case. There was a girl, I think she was 19, and her punter had not orgasmed and went to court over that. She had to pay him money because he wasn’t able to orgasm with her.

This is what legalisation does."

The Nordic Model vs. full decriminalisation: what do sex trade survivors say? | Nordic Model Now!

This is an edited transcript of the webinar we held on Sunday 24 January 2021.

[femmewaif]

[fairy25]

Women who rightfully accuse people of sexual assault are treated worse than men who admit to sexual assault

[whjwiwowpwlsskwjwbwbkwkwlwnw]

the difference between prostitution and any hazardous occupation is that in dangerous jobs, the harm is a side effect. in prostitution, the harm being done to you is the job.

[lesmiara]

I cannot stress enough that radical feminism is incredibly important for teenage girls.

[lesmiara]

Gender roles are almost stricter than before. Nearly all of the girls at my school wear full faces of makeup, every SINGLE day. Whenever I speak to my friends who wear makeup about this, they've always described that they literally cannot walk out of the house without it. That they feel incredibly insecure without it. That they can't stand to see their own face! Porn is widely accepted. They've told me they don't want to do degrading things in bed, but that they didn't want to be "boring" or "vanilla." The only other truly GNC girl i met identified as a man, who tried to explain to me that misandry is real and that "men are hurt by the patriarchy too!" Liberal feminism is hurting teenage girls, now more than ever. Who knows what will have happened to them by the time liberal feminism is seen for what it is.

[rabiesofficial]

Reddit - Dive into anything

I don’t understand the people saying males don’t have enough positive role models. So much of history is written by men for men. How many more role models do you need 💀

Hello that’s your reason right there. I swear men and boys are the most fragile and needy fuckers ever and they still expect more

[rabiesofficial]

Puts you underwater but also LMAO yes ‼️😭