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[strombolicious]

[teathattast]

reblog to do this w your mutuals

[ozempicofficial]

[divorcedwife]

look at the republican calendar and see which animal/plant/item is associated with your birthday ok. if you're born january 14 you get the day of the cat

[divorcedwife]

solidarity for everyone who was born on the day of the cistern or the watering can or something like that

[ch4051nth3k1tch3n]

my birthday isn’t on there #erasure

[divorcedwife]

all birthdays are there, don't give up! troubleshooting :

when looking for your birthday, make sure to read the small grey italicized number, not the big orange numbers ; january 14, for example, is on the 25th day of the month of nivôse.

there are three months for each season ; if you're on mobile, you may need to scroll sideways to see the third one.

some birthdays in september are in a special section. that is because the first day of the year is september 22nd, and the last few days of the year before that are special holidays. see :

also, i know i joked about some days being less cool than others, but that's also the point of the calendar : replacing worship of saints with appreciation of the tools and plants that allow us to live. don't feel bad for having topsoil as your day, where would be without topsoil?

[cancrizans]

some fayes from last year when i was trying rebelle out...

[forestgreenandgray]

Hey do you know what rumination is?

Rumination is probably the most common type of OCD compulsion, but I rarely see anyone talking about it. I've talked to multiple people diagnosed with OCD who didn't even recognize it as a compulsion.

Basically, if you have OCD you have terrible intrusive thoughts. They can be about anything, but common themes are fear of being a bad person, fear of hurting someone, fear of contamination. etc.

Rumination is when you get stuck in a spiral. Rumination is when you spend hours catastrophizing, overthinking, analyzing, telling yourself it's going to be okay.

I'll say it again:

Rumination is a compulsion.

Rumination is a compulsion, and that means you have to stop doing it.

I did ERP (exposure response prevention) for my OCD with a therapist! For 9 months! And it did help, but the idea didn't really click until I found this website a couple years later.

And Oh My God. It made things make so much more sense, and I was able to pull myself out of an episode even though I wasn't in therapy or on meds at the time.

Genuinely if you have OCD, or even if you suspect you have OCD, I'm begging you to read some of these articles.

Like this was genuinely life changing for me.

Here are some of the ones that were most helpful to me:

Defining Rumination

How to Stop Ruminating

ERP Exercises for Compulsive Rumination

What to Do When You're Triggered

[perplexi]

after work cuddle for a busy olly💖

[polyamorousmood]

It really says something that a lot of monogamous people consider polyamorous and aromantic to be "opposites" but every polyam person I know took one look at aromantics and said "they're just like me for real"

[silosworld]

Poly folks x aro folks in the sense that "alloromantic heterosexual monogamous people view love and sex as an entirely different entity than me, and that makes life kinda strange"

[rincent-van-uggh]

[aromanticofficial]

official aro-polyam solidarity post

[polyam-aro-culture-is]

Might’ve already reblogged this but it needs to be said again

[hamachakama]

“n-no…these aren’t tears at all…they are but watery vagabonds in search of adventure. wanderers seeking escape…from my face.”

[jodefrostwallart]

The beginning and end of Berkut and Rinea

[pankendev]

i don't care if i flop. bunnies do that

[yakichoufd]

Qifrey and his fifth Qifling!

[yakichoufd]

woops...

[chaayaah-art]

more scuffle art :3333

the cool zelkov is for @boxnazrin, trans dimitri is for @krakrac, mechanic camilla for strawburry usagi over on bsky, the rhajat in employment hell ios for my friend zing,

and the leo is a fun collab i did with @ulula-noctis for our friend @milky-rot ! i did the colours!

[vwyn19]

The night before endgame. (left > right) in which robin doesn’t want to make chrom sad on their last day together (and i want to die)

[threedollarsdotcom]

okay fine well if you dont wanna play dissection or mind control then what else is there

[chaayaah-art]

First patch of my Scuffle26 attacks.

for @milky-rot, @vem-chan, @larachelledrawsfe

[s0colas]

hbd leo!

[strawberrycat2802]

Happy Birthday Leo! ✨📕