shutting up would be a good option

18 | he/him or y/ys | trans guy | call me mogwai, gremlin, goblin, whatever as long as its not feminine | white | gay (faunromantic) aspec | autistic and pissy | icon by mlmculture | i follow from c_____m

[queersona]

An lgbt child: idk i just don’t want to see kink at pride.. wear leather idc but like… puppy play?? no..

30+ year old Anti Anti with “fandom mom” in their bio: LISTEN HERE YOU fucKCING BRAT

[queersona]

GDIWHDSIWJDKSBDJD I’M LAUGHIGN SO HA R D WH A A. AT ???????!???

[discourseboyfriend]

OFFICIAL PRIDE

[official-cisphobe]

transvirodium (n.)

derived from the word trans (as in transgender), vir (meaning man, or in this context masculine), and odium (meaning hate).

the discrimination of transmasculine people on the basis of them being transmasculine

discrimination unique to the experiences and identity of transmasculine people

transvirinist (adj.)

derived from the words trans, vir, and inicum (meaning hater)

someone who discriminates against transmasculine people on the basis of them being transmasculine

so like here's suggestion for a word(s) we can use for the discrimination and oppression transmasc people face

also as a disclaimer because I know some of y'all lack brain cells: NO, SOME RANDOM TRANS WOMAN ISN'T A TRANSVIRINIST FOR CRITISING A TRANSMASC PERSON ON THE SHITTY WAY THEY TREAT TRANSFEM PEOPLE-- I'm like actually trying to help people spread a better alternative to the term "transmisandry" or whatever the shit so don't ruin this with your transmisogyny

I'm like heavily pro listening to transfem people on transmisogyny so if you're one of those weirdos who doesn't don't bother interacting.

[radmona]

Ok but what specific discrimination do transmasc people face?

[dumatsquiet]

-reproductive rights discrimination; changing your gender marker from f to m will cause insurance to no longer cover things like Pap smears, evaluations, birth control. It is also harder for pregnant or postpartum transmasc individuals to navigate OB/GYN settings, especially when we present as more masculine/Male/have taken HRT or had any sort of top surgery. Erasure of transmasc individuals when talking about reproductive rights issues

-healthcare discrimination and issues: re above, as well as surgeries, HRT not being covered by insurance/being withheld, reluctance to go see doctors for physicals due to poor treatment and mismanagement of how to act around trans patients. Lack of education and research on the safety of things such as binders.

-community discrimination: do I really have to explain to u the fact that many cis men AND women see us as illegitimate, and refuse to date us often times. But within mlm circles specifically there’s a certain stigma towards dating us as men are seen as “less gay,” OR we are treated like a fetish. I cannot count the amount of times I have had a man ask if I have a strap on.

There is also the lack of diverse, positive representation in media. When I say “trans man” on dating apps and Grindr, cis men often do not know what I’m talking about. There are multiple bi/pan/straight transmasc, (trans men specifically to my knowledge) youtubers who have spoken about dating women and having their transness as men erased because their partner is a woman. Transmasc also doesn’t. Just. Equal. Trans men. As there are many transmasc individuals who still identify as women/woman aligned, or neither, and face their own unique challenges because of this.

Like, there’s a lot more, and I don’t have the spoons to honestly continue, also as I am not a person of colour I don’t feel like I can accurately cover the unique discrimination, hyper masculinity, or infantilism that many transmasc people of colour face.

But like. Did you honestly have to ask this? Do you HONESTLY believe we don’t face any unique forms of discrimination? Can you not do research to educate yourself on our issues too?

It’s like, in the efforts to stop transphobia but on the way everybody forgot that trans men and transmascs were trans too and that we are in no way equals to cis men.

[catgirltoes]

The only one of those that’s exclusive to trans men is the reproductive erasure though, and even then trans women face similar problems wrt treatment for cancers of the testes and prostate.

Being discriminated against in healthcare? Literally every trans person attempting to obtain HRT or various gender affirming surgeries faces that. Hell, the word gatekeeping was coined specifically to describe how the medical system prevented trans women from transitioning. Community discrimination? I’m sure you’ve interacted with a TERF before, and trans lesbians are routinely dismissed as predatory straight men like how gay trans men are routinely dismissed as predatory straight women. Trans women are repeatedly fetishized as well, and it’s not as if it’s exclusively cishet men doing that. Even erasure of identities and lack of knowledge about specific trans identities is just transphobia, not a specific type of transphobia against trans men.

[official-cisphobe]

hey can y'all not talk like people's experiences overlapping with others' makes them less valid?

of course a lot of transphobia overlap and of course a lot of trans people face similar issues, no one said otherwise - but they're different in their own way and the reason behind them is different. it's a unique experience because of identity.

can y'all not do this on a post that is legit just meant to suggest a word for transmascs to talk about their experiences with discrimination like how any and all marginalised people deserve?

thanks.

[yamchass]

https://mobile.twitter.com/loe_lis/status/1160534967660810240 in this tweet you can find two whole articles that prove that transmasculine people face higher rates of sexual assault, domestic violence and stalking. if your gonna turn ur back on this too because you cant possibly think we can face any type of adversity then idk how to tell u but ur a transphobe and also an asshole

[lesbian-so-queer]

The very action of denying that transmasc face a specific kind of discrimination is a shitty thing to do against them too, so like, congrats, you played yourselves.

Erasure of discrimination and struggles is discrimination in itself.

[cumworm]

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[cumworm]

update!!!

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[mogaimogwai]

trans masc ppl deserve to discuss their experiences with being oppressed as trans people and have a label for their experiences without being silenced

[yorksilk]

can I start one of these make yourself things :3

[discourseboyfriend]

*minecraft villager noise*

[mogaimogwai]

[theradicalace]

tucutes make yourself in this!!

the options are pretty limited but its really cute!!

[mogaimogwai]

moi

[nyanbinary-ferris]

tucutes make yourself in this

[elaeomyxa]

They didn’t have my hair color, hairstyle, or hazel eyes, but it’s still pretty close ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[bbeeohazardd]

Yeet skeet

[trendercore-kid-deactivated2019]

[trenderpunks]

I love these things

[mogaiwizard]

no undercut but close!!

[trenderpunk]

[celestial-attuned-twins-moved-d]

[midnight-rose-47-deactivated201]

Heeyaw

[aesxual]

i couldn’t resist giving myself horns….

[mogaimogwai]

yeah

[shoelace-and-friends]

Hey, OP? I’m a little confused about something and I think I need something cleared up. 

Who is this post addressed to, exactly? I feel like the LGBT+ community as a whole would already know all this stuff? Like…why would people at pride think PDA is gross when the majority of people there are not straight and would expect to see that at pride? I’m sorry, but I don’t understand. 

…This isn’t directed towards non-LGBT+ allies, is it? I’m not really getting that impression since you never explicitly stated that it is.

Also…aren’t most people attending pride (with the exception of small children)  old enough and mature enough to expect kissing and PDA? This post seems kind of weird to me because that part seems kind of like common knowledge…

Also, …why would anyone choosing to attend pride think PDA is gross in the first place? And also, …again, why would people choosing to go to pride think of the gay people there as gross and overly sexual? That makes no sense.

Who on earth who  decides to go to pride do you think is anti-pda? 

Something…seems off.

…Hold on. Let me just…look up something on your blog quick for a second- 

OH YEP THERE WE GO IT ALL MAKES SENSE NOW

Well, at least it’s not on your post :^) 

Also here’s a little extra from OP’s blog to all you aro and pan folks out there 

Anyway, I don’t want to see this person’s post on my dash anymore because of who it is very obviously directed towards. 

None of us actually act like that btw!!!!!

[acesian]

OP (of that post) has lesbian in xer bio and has pan discourse in there too…. so xe also needs stop speaking over bi people & getting involved in pan discourse. I’m really tired of finding non-mspec people telling me what hurts me as a bi person.

[queenophydea]

Blogs to stop rbing and why

This post is in no way comparing or saying these people are similar. This is just a masterpost of relatively popular bloggers that have committed bigoted or otherwise deplorable acts, the severity of which varies between them

Biggest gaudiest patronuses - said the n word with a hard r, frequent lesbophobic jokes, possibly a pedophile (i dont care enough about them to confirm this myself)

Sixpenceee - defends family owning a child slave, scammed customers with a fake mental health service (sixpenceee saves)

Positive-memes - owned and run by amazon

Thotsune - did art of a minor saying I Fuck as a way to Own The Aceys Tee Ehm

Hustlerose - aphobe, anti mogai

Rodnt - aphobe, wished death upon aces

Dare-i-say-asexual - aphobe

Thivus - do your own digging, its slipped my mind

Thecybersmith - human pet guy

That’s all i care to remember rn

[queenophydea]

Rodnt is just an exclusionist yall clowns say???

[acesian]

Wait is positive-memes just affiliated or actually run by amazon? There’s a big difference. (Also I think the bigger issue is that it’s still stolen content)

[aromoji]

They are actually run by amazon.

[yamchass]

hustlerose is also vocally against polyamory

[tonysopranobignaturals-deactiva]

Stop saying bootlicker and start posting this

[mogaimogwai]

i swear to sweet baby pasta jesus if i hear one more snotnosed illiterate kid saying tht being transgender is a mental illness/condition im just gonna yeet them back into the 1700s where their dumbass colonizer pilgrim ideas belong

[cheese-and-discourse]

HaveImentionedlatelythatTumblrsucks?Rightnowit’snotevenlettingmeusemyspacebar.Iknowthespacebarworks.It’stumblr.Anyways,I’vebeenmeaningtomakethiscomicforawhile.

[sammyclassicsjwfan]

both sides amirite

[mogaimogwai]

[madd-nez]

people on this site are seriously cruel to asexuals.

like. the amount of times i’ve seen shitty comments made at aces’ expense, the amount of times some asshole put “haha cringey acey post, this is why everyone hates asexuals” on my dash. it’s fucking disgusting. and look, i’m not even gonna talk about all the death threats, rape apologism, mislabelling, and all around nastiness that gets thrown at aces regularly in here.

it’s not just ace discourse either. unrelated posts still have snarky aphobic comments. how do you think that makes an ace person feel? how about the acceptable lgbt+ aces that are said to be so loved but are always fucked over as well, do you think we feel welcomed? do you think we feel “valid”?

we can’t breathe without being called cringy homophobic people who are wastes of space. everything we say or do or create is used against us, everything is twisted to make us seem problematic (take the ‘aspec is an autistic term aceys stole because they’re evil’ lie as an example)

but we’re not allowed to complain or say ‘hey this is fucked up’. because some bigots decided our pain didn’t matter and the people on this hellsite believed them.

and when we ask ‘do you support aces?’ the answer is ‘i don’t want to get into discourse.’ is that all we are? discourse topics? fuck off.

y'all seriously need to do better. instead of reblogging those hilarioooous posts about how much ace people suck, maybe be an ally for once?? maybe don’t be a total asshole to someone because of their orientation??????

[antitransmedicalism]

I’m still irked by transmeds saying “our trans caricatures are making fun of those that are nondysphoric trans!! Why are you bothered if you aren’t targeted??”

I’m still bothered because trans caricatures:

are transphobic

dehumanizing and degrading, especially of nondysphoric trans people simply trying to live their best lives

dysphoria inducing

very creepy and fetishistic (especially considering that transmeds are attacking young kids)

misogynistic (because transmeds think that presenting “female” is bad)

over-exaggerated features, that some trans people are dysphoric about, but, y’know, transmeds don’t care about your dysphoria

the implication that if you claim to be a trans person, but you look like the caricatures, then you are a Trender

the implication that if you are trans, you must break your back to present as the gender you are (eg, trans man wears masculine clothes), lest you aren’t trans

are representing a very constricting set of standards upon trans people, basically forcing trans people to conform, or else they aren’t trans

There’s probably more, but transmeds fail to understand that, even dysphoric people are affected by this. But transmeds don’t care, so long as they get to hurt people. 

[queersona]

A lot, and I mean a LOT of them, target nb identities, I’m allowed to be pissed off at them.

[discourseboyfriend]

People’s* favorite pass times during pride month: Ignoring that a lot of trans women suffered and died because of AIDS, ignoring the lack of Actual Support for trans women, not educating themselves on the effects of estrogen, etc.

All trans women deserve the same amount of positivity and reassurance that cis gay people get on days where we remember the government didn’t and doesn’t care about them. Trans women deserve more than the same 3 elders to look up to. Trans women deserve posts about how to take care of themselves, and the affects of estrogen, and everything that everyone else gets.

Trans women: I love you, you’re strong, you have a future, you deserve the world and you will receive it.

* People meaning cis lgb+ people and my fellow trans masc people

[mogaimogwai]

news we all knew but still gotta spread anyway bc ppl don't listen: bisexuality and pansexuality aren't the same and pansexuality isn't transphobic

[wandererslullabi]

Some of y’all exclusionists think it’s funny to respond to “what do you think of ace/aros?” with “no thanks” and imma tell you, that’s gross af.

It’s not okay to treat an entire group of marginalized people like a discourse topic. It’s not okay to demonize and dehumanize ace/aro people just because you’re an exclusionist. The fact that y’all are so quick to mistreat us makes it very clear that you don’t care if we have issues and you don’t care if we’re abused, gaslighted, or mistreated. The only thing y’all care about is that we’re not “invading” your community. And if it were really “just about the cishets” then stop addressing this stuff to all ace/aro people, because not all of us are cis and straight.

When y’all do that, not only are you being a major jerk, but it doesn’t just hurt cis straight ace/aro people. This is what makes my fellow trans and lgb+ ace/aros feel like our own community doesn’t respect us. Because y’all don’t respect us.